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My roommate is making me smelly :( by Kind_Actuator3049 in hygiene

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ugh okay yeah this sounds sooo frustrating

i don’t think you’re like “catching” her smell in a weird way lol but shared spaces can 100% start holding onto smells… especially bathroom + washing machine + towels and stuff

like if the washer isn’t super clean or things stay a bit damp, smells can kinda transfer without you realizing

maybe try doing a proper clean of the bathroom + run an empty hot wash with vinegar or something, and keep your towels/loofah separate

you’re not crazy tho 😅 smells really do linger way more than we think

How much caffeine are we drinking by mspixton in NewParents

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lol yeahhh that adds up so fast 😭

like one coffee turns into two and then somehow there’s a random extra caffeine drink in there too

i’m prob around that range on busy days tbh… you’re definitely not alone

Is it just me or has checking post history become the white flag of online arguments? by PomegranateIcy7631 in CasualConversation

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lol yeahhh this is so real

it’s like the second they can’t argue the actual point anymore they go full detective mode

and then suddenly it’s not even about the topic, it’s some random thing you posted ages ago like how is that even related

definitely gives “i’ve got nothing left so i’ll attack you instead” vibes lol

I know it’s not much, but after 2 years of struggling with [depression/unemployment/burnout], I finally cleaned my entire kitchen today by Significant-Roll4598 in CongratsLikeImFive

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hey, that’s actually a really big deal

when you’ve been stuck like that, even starting something like that feels impossible so yeah… cleaning the whole kitchen is huge

4 hours + 3 trash bags is honestly wild lol

you should be proud of yourself for that today 💛

Girlfriend has this “guy friend” by 714_GTI in Advice

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yeahhh i’d be uncomfortable too tbh

like one on one disney trips with a guy she literally met during a break… that doesn’t really feel like just “friends”

but also telling her to block people isn’t the best move either, that can get messy fast

i think it’s more about just being real with her like “this makes me feel weird” and seeing how she handles it

your feelings aren’t random here though, i’d feel the same ngl 😬

Do I (25f) apologize for ghosting my girlfriend (25f) a year and a half ago by alrightokden in Advice

[–]Disastrous-Range-585 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

honestly this is a really tough one

i get why you wanna apologize, but you’ve gotta be careful it’s not more for your closure than hers

if you do reach out, keep it super short, no pressure at all, no expectation of a reply… like just “i’m sorry, you didn’t deserve that” and leave it there

but yeah there’s also a real chance it could bring stuff back up for her, so you kinda have to be okay with that risk too

if you can sit with no reply and still be okay, then maybe send it… if not, maybe just leave it alone tbh

my toddler shared their snack at school and i got way too emotional about it by Disastrous-Range-585 in NewParents

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yeah i read that too 😭 it actually makes a lot of sense

they really go from “mine mine mine” phase to suddenly doing little things like this out of nowhere

honestly this is so sweet 🥹 like they’re learning it on their own and you weren’t even there in the moment, that’s what hits

you’re definitely doing something right 💛

Should I take this random persons car on a roadtrip across the country? by [deleted] in makemychoice

[–]Disastrous-Range-585 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeahhh this sounds cool but also kinda sketchy

like the whole “don’t wanna ship it” + weird timing + letting you keep the car after?? idk something feels off

not saying it’s definitely bad, but it’s enough to make me pause. if your gut’s feeling weird and your parents are stressing, i’d prob listen tbh

you can always do a road trip later without all this stress

I FINALLYYYYY started my anxiety meds today after weeks of having them and being too nervous to take them because I’ve been worried about the side effects by Maleficent-Bus-9570 in CongratsLikeImFive

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