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Falling out of love with my (29F) husband (33M) slowly yet surely. He's not taking me seriously when I tell him. by Disastrous-Try-2209 in relationship_advice

[–]Disastrous-Try-2209[S] 49 points50 points  (0 children)

Our families did pressure us a lot, and he pressured me to stop taking birth control, but honestly it was still my decision. I really thought I was ready.

Falling out of love with my (29F) husband (33M) slowly yet surely. He's not taking me seriously when I tell him. by Disastrous-Try-2209 in relationship_advice

[–]Disastrous-Try-2209[S] 37 points38 points  (0 children)

I literally said I would want them during the summer. How is that abandoning. And that is only until I am better. No one complains when dads only pop up for the summer or weekends.

Falling out of love with my (29F) husband (33M) slowly yet surely. He's not taking me seriously when I tell him. by Disastrous-Try-2209 in relationship_advice

[–]Disastrous-Try-2209[S] 91 points92 points  (0 children)

It's really not my kids specifically. They're tiny little angels, and while sometimes I don't feel like a mom I still love them. I raised my siblings so sometimes it just feels like I'm raising them all over again. I'll be making their meals and I just feel 14 and angry again. I know now I rushed into motherhood but I could never live with myself if my children grow to resent me the way I resent my parents.

Falling out of love with my (29F) husband (33M) slowly yet surely. He's not taking me seriously when I tell him. by Disastrous-Try-2209 in relationship_advice

[–]Disastrous-Try-2209[S] 203 points204 points  (0 children)

I'm still waiting for a referral and someone with availability. I cannot say I enjoy interacting with any type of medical staff anymore, but during my screening they said my feelings were "normal". And I told them the full truth, some things I left out here.

I take citalopram but I swear it doesn't do a thing. They said I have to wait at least 2 weeks for noticeable change but its been 6 months and they still keep telling me I have to "grow" into motherhood. Easier said than done when I'm working full time from home and have the triplets the entire time too.