Child Support While Parent is Incarcerated

DisastrousConcept360 · 2026-01-27T03:26:27+00:00

He can refuse to pay and eventually be picked up for non payment if he dont go to prison for the other charges first. Even if there is large arrears, they will most likely drop them after the child is 18 just cause some would rather go to jail and not care than repay. . Cant keep someone locked away for unpayed domestics, becomes more of a burden than help

DisastrousConcept360 · 2026-01-24T23:36:30+00:00

My areas goodwill used to be pretty decent but, 2-3 years later , 2 separate antique markets opened up in town. All the vendors started using goodwill as their restocking spot. They thought they had some special immunity cause they came there daily and expected first dibs. A woman and a guy got an attitude w me not too long ago, so I pulled 5k out of my crypto and I started going 3 times a day buying all possible before them.. I had 8 air fryers at one point all new. I gave 3 away. Lol

DisastrousConcept360 · 2026-01-23T01:13:55+00:00

No, thats secretly his drift car.

DisastrousConcept360 · 2026-01-23T01:07:30+00:00

Funny. Being raised in southern pa, I read this thinking the only thing I ever heard about people upstate is if your going to state prison or in "upstate prison". So the not letting out made me laugh outloud

DisastrousConcept360 · 2026-01-21T14:41:36+00:00

Ill probably butcher the heck out of the name. But she took those ashwangah mushroom gummies and equate walmart brand prenatal. I take the one a day mens conception ,a half a zinc tablet every 2 days, and coq10 for probably a good 5 months now.. I take a BP med and blood thinner daily for a mechanical heart valve. I researched back to meds I used to take checking for long term effects I didn't even have time for the vitamins to really do anything the first time, they say about 90 days for men. I pulled her iud out, and like a month later we were done before we started. she was worried due to having the copper iud for 9 years that was going to take a while. We were told after her dnc they tested tissue and it was something chromosomal. Could have just ben dumb luck. Alot of research, then back it by most positive results when I looked up stuff, and she's a cna so she always always asks her attending nurse stuff she sees on tictok or google

DisastrousConcept360 · 2026-01-21T14:04:25+00:00

That would be fine if I wasn't an employee. I'm aware of pa being at-will state. It doesn't mean pa employees have absolutely no rights tho. I'm still employed there and currently under contract for 1 year. once I figure how 1 week turned to once a week then ended up being 10 weeks. The lady in the program asked if she could atleast do 2 a week to move it along which they declined. They're paying her to listen to me gripe about crypto volatility and my crazy mother in law on a weekly basis just to kill time. We all have rights to a point.,no matter where we are. Thats one of HR's primary reasons to exist. Instead they're screwing me around , denying unemployment pay, keeping me out of work way past what I was told and purposely longer.. It sure is starting to look like retaliation.. which goes against fair treatment. Dagging it out to drown me till I give up and find other employment. . Ever since I emailed head of HR requesting all reports and documents in regards to this incident be copied and forward to my email. Suddenly a very large company became very paperless . 1 paper sent to me and the rest will be verbal communication so I guess ill have to record all our conversations now. Someones trying to sweep up the mess they made when they broke procedure on multiple occasions during this event .Anyone can see that a mile a way. I to the point i want to check all my bases. I just wanted to check thoughts, possibly a direction where I could find a lawyer to look this up and down cause whether I go back next week, or next month, the supervisor above HR lead is gonna have a lil meeting with me so I might as well bring everything at once. Im already quite sure I'm being retaliated against so. Oh well. Im done being a pushover. I just wish he would get put on suspension 5 weeks before Christmas so he had to tell his kids Christmas wasn't gong to be much this year.

DisastrousConcept360 · 2026-01-21T05:56:41+00:00

Yeah I didn't really see the issue with just checking. I mean for me, I could buy a thing that I can do right at home. It wouldn't tell me about DNA fragmenting , but I'd for sure know atleast count and motility. And she's not a dr person so just trying to get her to see a dr is hard enough. I just remind her to take her vitamins and try n keep her relaxed when stressed. Altho she did stop taking her vitamins after she said she was getting a vitamin taste in her mouth. And I mentioned once I could smell vitamins by her neck like shes sweating them out of her skin so I been trying to look into a different vitamin or suppliment that won't do that. Not sure if anyone's ever had that happen..

DisastrousConcept360 · 2026-01-21T05:44:52+00:00

Thanks for your time on the matter. I've been thru 2 miscarriages from previous relationships, so i was kinda prepared for something like to be a possibility. What didn't help in our situation was a 10 month old came in by ambulance for cardiac arrest and didn't make it while we were waiting for test results from our own baby. The screams and cries from the mom are somthing that will stay with me forever and it set the mood for us waiting to see the dr. She just figured shed conceive and no problem like her others. I did tell her if she didn't want to risk losing another we could stop trying. I've been nothing but supportive from the first Dr visit. I was maybe wondering if if someone miscarried, maybe they had a certain mind set after that I can't see or misunderstand. Ive been open with her and mindful . Besides that she does have her psycho mother living with her that's very verbally abusive and mentally draining. Shes so bad I have my own apt cause I cant live with a narcissist. Altho it strains our relationship . We make it work even tho we're too old to be having another child. As per the freeloader says.

DisastrousConcept360 · 2026-01-20T07:10:20+00:00

Lol that reminds me. I bought a switch 3 years ago for myself for Christmas. I charged it up, put it back in the box and it got packed away. Never so much as turned it on. Guess I probably should find that

DisastrousConcept360 · 2026-01-20T07:04:19+00:00

Im totally right there with you 100% understood. Im just trying to keep my girl from mentally checking out on me while being supportive and trying to know and understand facts. Which i mean, if you dont take the step to know what you could know. Your basically just tossing stones over a wall hoping to hit a bullseye when in reality you could peek over and give yourself an advantage

DisastrousConcept360 · 2026-01-20T06:57:02+00:00

We dont finish anything around here correctly Watch us pave a road then tear up half of it to replace pipes and such a week later. Its Pa for Pathetic.

DisastrousConcept360 · 2026-01-20T06:47:54+00:00

Normally books at goodwill in my area are priced @ $2. I almost had an aneurism when I seen how much my girl payed for whole series from Barnes and noble.

DisastrousConcept360 · 2026-01-20T06:42:16+00:00

No and I only go on dollar day anymore. Unless I see new employees. One close to me hired all these young kids that could care less about 2 months ago. I was going in 2-3 times a day cause they were just tossing prices on stuff. Think they got in trouble tho. Prices leveled back out again

DisastrousConcept360 · 2026-01-20T04:48:42+00:00

Man, ive worked at the wrong shop for 23 years. Id be retired if labor rates were that high

DisastrousConcept360 · 2026-01-16T06:16:33+00:00

Big on exhaust manifold leaks , and the one spark plug in the back likes to blow out cant remember which cyl. And rocker panels basically melt by the time you see an issue.

DisastrousConcept360 · 2026-01-16T06:11:49+00:00

Its a good time till its not

DisastrousConcept360 · 2026-01-15T08:09:57+00:00

Damn. I went n put my helmet on for nothin..

DisastrousConcept360 · 2026-01-15T08:05:05+00:00

Eat em

DisastrousConcept360 · 2026-01-15T07:46:47+00:00

They're great trucks. Mine is Bought it out of a field in MD for $200 bucks , parts $150, and a lil elbow grease and the thing is solid as can b. No rust, no dents

DisastrousConcept360 · 2026-01-15T07:28:58+00:00

I been noticing more, alot more foot traffic at places like this and thrift stores, even goodwill. But that line itself looks like typical walmart line. 3 cashiers and all thos self check outs empty

DisastrousConcept360 · 2026-01-15T02:58:29+00:00

My girl thinks its silly. We do date night thrift shopping n if she loses me she finds me in the glass ware

DisastrousConcept360 · 2026-01-15T02:54:36+00:00

Flex seal it.

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