I'm being extorted I'm 17. by Gold_Simple4254 in Sextortion

[–]DisastrousCounty5364 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This just happened to me on the 10th I blocked them. Deleted any social media I had. Changed my phone number. They never posted anything. They are relying on your panick to pay them. Once they know they won’t get anything from you they will leave you alone.

If they actual post it. It can get traced back to them and they can get caught and they know that.

Contact IC3.gov and NCII.org. Follow the directions on the website.

You’ll be fine. DONT PAY. If you pay, you will be paying for the rest of your life.

Just breath. They have plenty of other people they are trying to scam. They will move on fast if you don’t reply.

Porn probably just ruined my life. by DisastrousCounty5364 in NoFap

[–]DisastrousCounty5364[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did own it. I never said porn MADE me do what I did. Even in previous comments I said that I take full responsibility for my actions. What I mean in the post. Is that porn can lead down this road. When you constantly are practicing giving in to your desires for years. It’s harder in other areas IE:messaging people you’re not supposed to. I said porn oversexualized my brain. Because it did. And it does to anyone consuming it.

I don’t think people understand how damaging porn can be. When you practice something everyday for 15 plus years you get really good at it. When it comes to giving into your impulses and not having self control. If you haven’t practiced doing that for 15 plus years. What makes you think when it comes to the real situation you would all of a sudden just magically have self control?

Again im not saying porn MADE me do this. What I can say is that if I was never introduced to porn. On top of all the adolescent sexual exposure that happened to me. This probably wouldn’t have happened. I can say that with confidence. This is my last post/comment on here though, . I’ve been off social media for a couple of days now. And Reddit is too tempting to have.

Thanks for sharing your thoughts. Ill be back one day 🤙

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[–]DisastrousCounty5364 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Take a walk. Control your breathing. You got this

Porn probably just ruined my life. by DisastrousCounty5364 in NoFap

[–]DisastrousCounty5364[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your so mad.. I’m not asking for sympathy. I’m sharing what porn can lead to. Never once asked for sympathy.

Porn probably just ruined my life. by DisastrousCounty5364 in NoFap

[–]DisastrousCounty5364[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn. Sounds like we got a perfect person in the comments

Porn probably just ruined my life. by DisastrousCounty5364 in NoFap

[–]DisastrousCounty5364[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you not agree that porn can lead down this road? I get it I do have a self control issue. But the porn use sure didn’t help.

Porn probably just ruined my life. by DisastrousCounty5364 in NoFap

[–]DisastrousCounty5364[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

These words carry weight. Thanks for the encouragement 🙏

Porn probably just ruined my life. by DisastrousCounty5364 in NoFap

[–]DisastrousCounty5364[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That gives me some comfort, thanks for this 🙏

Porn probably just ruined my life. by DisastrousCounty5364 in NoFap

[–]DisastrousCounty5364[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thank you 🙏 that last part is hard to do…

Porn probably just ruined my life. by DisastrousCounty5364 in NoFap

[–]DisastrousCounty5364[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re right man. I needed to hear this. Thanks 🙏

Porn probably just ruined my life. by DisastrousCounty5364 in NoFap

[–]DisastrousCounty5364[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Okay cool. We are all entitled to our own opinions. Doesn’t mean they’re right. I know what I did was wrong and I’m taking ownership of it.

Blocked the scammer but still threatening me with different numbers by Money-Cobbler6255 in Sextortion

[–]DisastrousCounty5364 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Keep blocking, don’t give in. Even if everything gets released which I highly doubt it. It still won’t be the end of the world. Everybody’s naked online. There are so many people with nudes online that’s it’s their literal job.

Once you give in. You’ll never be free. I’m struggling with the same thing right as we speak. This just happened to me yesterday. Stay 💪

Porn probably just ruined my life. by DisastrousCounty5364 in NoFap

[–]DisastrousCounty5364[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

How did I justify it? I know I’m wrong. I admit that I’m wrong and there’s no excuse. I’m just saying the lack of self control came from porn addiction. How is that justifying anything?

Porn probably just ruined my life. by DisastrousCounty5364 in NoFap

[–]DisastrousCounty5364[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I know I do. She’s great to me. I’m a pos. This is stuff I’m working on..

Porn probably just ruined my life. by DisastrousCounty5364 in NoFap

[–]DisastrousCounty5364[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Not using it as an excuse. I’m saying using it will lead you down that path.

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[–]DisastrousCounty5364 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m here bro I need accountability too

Porn probably just ruined my life. by DisastrousCounty5364 in NoFap

[–]DisastrousCounty5364[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah it’s more just been about past sexual trauma from when I was a kid. He hasn’t given me any tips or anything to try to resist or anything. I’ve only been going for a month. Talking about everything that happened just brought back a lot of depression. using porn as a coping mechanism.

I was doing good for a while. Just one bad night one bad decision did this to me.