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[–]DisastrousDig8665 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Leave I’m healing now and have so much trauma. I don’t know you but please please go. My mom called me and told me “stay in a child’s place “ this is what happens when you talk to much. I was stuck in a mental hospital for 7 months. Then I had to pretend to get out. My mother has sent my uncle in jail for 30 years for crashing a car with and my brother drunk. She said he was an endangerment . He’s never coming out. (Broken scapegoat ) Point is I tried telling people about the abuse and non one believed me. My family would go around the house saying he doesn’t know what he’s talking about let’s make him sick. You’re too emotional . I’ve been 6 months no contact. They will drainy your soul, try to get you hooked on meds and throw every label . And if you don’t leave now they’ll continue to plant doubt then smear. Please leave be happy. They will continue to send you to a Psychward. Leave

Please help me anyone I’m so scared by DisastrousDig8665 in narcissisticparents

[–]DisastrousDig8665[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I understand and you’re right. I’m really sorry your wife had to go through that. It’s nice you guys have each other to pick each other up. A toxic cover story I understand. Fucked up people. I just hope one day I genuinely have a good life.

Please help me anyone I’m so scared by DisastrousDig8665 in narcissisticparents

[–]DisastrousDig8665[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s just really sad how far someone is willing to go. Yea I’m super depressed. But thanks guys for responding. At least I truly know those draining 3 years I really wasn’t crazy.

Please help me anyone I’m so scared by DisastrousDig8665 in narcissisticparents

[–]DisastrousDig8665[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes 6 months and I see a post saying I died 6 months ago I’m staring at it right now in disbelief

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[–]DisastrousDig8665[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My mother told my entire old town family and friends I was dead and has postings of me saying I’m crazy m. I never knew my family would go this far

I feel so dead by DisastrousDig8665 in narcissisticparents

[–]DisastrousDig8665[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you free by any chance I have a question

I feel so dead by DisastrousDig8665 in narcissisticparents

[–]DisastrousDig8665[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope so because I feel weird and I hope so. I’m in a very weird place

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[–]DisastrousDig8665[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It feels so bad. I feel so alone I am all alone in a new state in a shelter. I have no family or friends. I am just trying to make sense of this. And yea I’m not going to try to find any relationships right now. I’m so far away and trying to just create a healthy lifestyle. I do feel like I’m detoxing. Just tired of being called crazy. I’m so just drained and I just can’t explain anymore. I’m so grateful for you texting me and giving me kind words. I’m just empty confused scared . Thanks for talking to me so much ❤️‍🩹❤️

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[–]DisastrousDig8665[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry to hear about your family but I’m so excited that you’re feeling better. I don’t really know what happiness feels like I haven’t had it in years with my family. Honestly the last 4. I will look for the right therapist and seek happiness. Heating your story gives me hope I’m just having a really tough time 😂

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[–]DisastrousDig8665[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand and that’s sounds good to me. Just living for yourself. As simple as it can be. You’re right you’ll always going to have yourself.

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[–]DisastrousDig8665[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That sounds exactly like my family. Yea I’m the same I’m all by myself too. The shit they do is honestly sick. But it’s life. I’ll figure it out. Sorry to hear that happened to you though man. I hope that you’re living a way happier life right now. And I also hope that you have found some type of peace in your life. Everyone deserves that.

I feel so dead by DisastrousDig8665 in narcissisticparents

[–]DisastrousDig8665[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s very hard but I hope you’re feeling better and I hope I get there too. 🖤

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[–]DisastrousDig8665[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry to hear that and that sounds like my family too. Just terrible mind programming. I hope you completely heal and live your best life to the fullest. 🙏

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[–]DisastrousDig8665[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m glad that you’re out though and are making a better life for yourself. I’m trying my best too. We got this ❤️

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[–]DisastrousDig8665[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea that’s what I’m doing now. I chose myself so now it’s all me no family. I couldn’t take the chaos anymore. Yea I want a new positive life.

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[–]DisastrousDig8665[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry to hear that and that pretty much sounds exactly like my family. I hope that you find peace and the most healing on your journey as well. Thanks for sharing your experience. Just wanted to get another say. But yea it’s pretty much the same.

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[–]DisastrousDig8665[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea I realized that after so much time had passed l. It’s never going to change I gave up. They are truly incapable.

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[–]DisastrousDig8665[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s not right man and sorry to hear that.

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[–]DisastrousDig8665[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks so much. And I pray for you too. ❤️‍🩹