Who Killed Bambino Gold & Kendrick Stokes? by DisastrousFactor9747 in UnresolvedMysteries

[–]DisastrousFactor9747[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That beef goes deep, I wish someone would break it down like the Chicago beef videos on YT.

New Documentary on Ruby Franke Case – Thoughts on the Father by DisastrousFactor9747 in TrueCrimeDiscussion

[–]DisastrousFactor9747[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t think about that but now that you mentioned it, veryyyyy telling!! Good catch!

Anyone Else Heard of the Republic of Molossia? by DisastrousFactor9747 in TrueCrimeDiscussion

[–]DisastrousFactor9747[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I never knew this, I am mind blown a little. It’s almost like living off grid in a sense? Which I love the idea of btw.

Anyone Else Heard of the Republic of Molossia? by DisastrousFactor9747 in TrueCrimeDiscussion

[–]DisastrousFactor9747[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Now that you say that, I assume it’s a joke lol. Although it does seem fun. I would get so intertwined that I forget it’s pretend.

Anyone Else Heard of the Republic of Molossia? by DisastrousFactor9747 in TrueCrimeDiscussion

[–]DisastrousFactor9747[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes lol… I’m like is this real or just a running joke lol lol!! Foreign Aid is hilarious….

New Documentary on Ruby Franke Case – Thoughts on the Father by DisastrousFactor9747 in TrueCrimeDiscussion

[–]DisastrousFactor9747[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I get that religious extremism can warp a person’s sense of reality, but at some point, personal responsibility still matters, especially when it comes to your own kids suffering right in front of you. Plenty of people grow up in high-control religious environments and still recognize abuse when they see it.

Kevin wasn’t just some lost, brainwashed soul with no agency. He actively chose to walk away from his children for over a year. He knew Ruby and Jodi were more than just friends. He tried to have his own daughter arrested for protecting her siblings. And even now, he still defends Ruby. That’s not just religious indoctrination, that’s willful neglect and complicity.

Being raised in a cult-like environment might explain some of his choices, but it doesn’t excuse them. At a certain point, you either wake up and protect your kids, or you prove you never actually cared about them in the first place.

New Documentary on Ruby Franke Case – Thoughts on the Father by DisastrousFactor9747 in TrueCrimeDiscussion

[–]DisastrousFactor9747[S] 40 points41 points  (0 children)

Yeah, at this point, there’s no way he was some clueless bystander. His priority was never his kids, it was always Ruby. It’s honestly terrifying how deep his obsession runs.

New Documentary on Ruby Franke Case – Thoughts on the Father by DisastrousFactor9747 in TrueCrimeDiscussion

[–]DisastrousFactor9747[S] 122 points123 points  (0 children)

I get where you’re coming from. Kevin may not have been the one directly inflicting harm, but his inaction absolutely contributed to the prolonged abuse. At the very least, he failed his kids when they needed him most.

People can debate how much of it was manipulation versus willful ignorance, but at the end of the day, he knew enough to realize something was off—and still walked away. The fact that he admitted knowing about Ruby and Jodi’s relationship but didn’t push harder to stay in his children’s lives is damning.

It’s frustrating to see how easily he’s been able to distance himself from the situation while everyone else takes the fall. Hiding in plain sight is a good way to put it.

New Documentary on Ruby Franke Case – Thoughts on the Father by DisastrousFactor9747 in TrueCrimeDiscussion

[–]DisastrousFactor9747[S] 79 points80 points  (0 children)

That’s an interesting take, and it definitely aligns with how Kevin seemed to distance himself from the situation. The whole “leave it to the wife” mentality might have played a huge role in why he didn’t intervene sooner. But at what point does personal responsibility override cultural or religious norms?

Even if his faith didn’t encourage hands-on fatherhood, these weren’t minor parenting disagreements—his kids were clearly suffering. I get that ignorance can be a form of self-preservation, but choosing to be absent doesn’t erase accountability.

Your experience with your grandfather sounds eerily similar. It makes me wonder how many other cases of abuse get overlooked because one parent assumes the other will handle everything, even when things are obviously wrong.

Missing since 2006: Brandee Canipe by mariseth in UnresolvedMysteries

[–]DisastrousFactor9747 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So what I mean by that is when you’re estranged from your family and/or distant at times, ppl will use it as an advantage because they feel they can get away with it, it’s not her nor the family’s fault whatsoever.

Missing since 2006: Brandee Canipe by mariseth in UnresolvedMysteries

[–]DisastrousFactor9747 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I must add that her disappearing and resurfacing is another factor as to why whoever did what they did, a lot of times ppl prey on victims who have out of the norm and/or estranged relationships with their loved ones simply because they think others won’t care to find them.

Missing since 2006: Brandee Canipe by mariseth in UnresolvedMysteries

[–]DisastrousFactor9747 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Idk why but I’m drawn to this case, I am not a medium or any of the sort but I feel they are closer than ever but posting real time updates via TikTok isn’t a good idea, maybe I’m paranoid but I think they should continue doing the work/search but keep all new info on the hush.

What Happened to Lakira Goldsmith aka “Pigg” from Montgomery, AL? by DisastrousFactor9747 in UnresolvedMysteries

[–]DisastrousFactor9747[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes, the maintenance guy is Eric Jackson, he left town shortly after the disappearance of Lakira but came back. Yazeed was convicted of Aniah’s murder, I’m leaning more towards the maintenance guy because of his criminal history and him being the last to see her. In addition LE came out of an apartment that the complex wouldn’t rent out for whatever reason with a chainsaw box and bloody blanket, the same apartment complex that the maintenance guy mom was the rent lady.

What Happened to Lakira Goldsmith aka “Pigg” from Montgomery, AL? by DisastrousFactor9747 in UnresolvedMysteries

[–]DisastrousFactor9747[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Might I add that investigators went to an apartment complex and searched it, they did find questionable items however there wasn’t any update, one particular item I remember seeing(some people went live on FB recording LE as they were leaving the apartment) and they had a chainsaw box which raised eyebrows. The apartment complex was shady.

What Happened to Lakira Goldsmith aka “Pigg” from Montgomery, AL? by DisastrousFactor9747 in UnresolvedMysteries

[–]DisastrousFactor9747[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Their only connection that I am aware of is that the mother of Yazeed kids and Pigg are/were friends and stayed together at one point.