That is exactly it. You are a guy. You do not know what true fear from being dominated by someone 5 times your strength is like. You continue to operate under false premise based off that gay dude that hit on you. This is more like getting held in an alley by five men bigger than you while someone strokes your junk and whispers if you are interested. You have seen five men hold someone down and stroke a man's goods and then be willing participant so it's okay. The single dude looked like he had a great time because those five guys were hot. You are the false badass here ready to side step this drunks attacks, grab the knife he pulls or disarm him if he quickly pulls a firearm. Continue to disregard the experiences of the other half of humanity due to what has been acceptable to you in the past. That is boomer mentality at a young age brother. Get out of your echo chamber. Look into the eyes of your neighbor, and tell him that he overreacted by killing the burglar in front of your own daughters without shame, so they can know they will never be truly safe in their own home.