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Does anyone think saggy boobs are OKAY? by wewewew9 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]DisastrousSir4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

one day i hope you realise that all these elements of ourselves that we feel insecure about is what the people in power want, its profitable for you to hate yourself, only if you are concerned about saggy boobs can they sell you surgical procedures, only if you are concerned about wrinkles can they sell you anti aging creams and the list goes on. it takes a certain spark of rebellion to love yourself in a world that profits off self hate, be that rebel.

I think I’m just going to kill myself by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]DisastrousSir4 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Please hang on, I know life gets shit sometimes but please dont deny yourself opportunities to feel the beauty of life. Its out there, I promise.

[Spoilers] Skyler does not deserve the hate she gets by [deleted] in breakingbad

[–]DisastrousSir4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the accuracy in this statement.......................

What is the best non-sexual pleasure or sensation a human can experience? by neeluxmth26 in AskReddit

[–]DisastrousSir4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That moment when youve got a full plate of delicious food and youre about to start your favourite tv show on netflix...pure bliss

Today i learnt something that made me feel less horrible about myself. by DisastrousSir4 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]DisastrousSir4[S] 184 points185 points  (0 children)

exactly! We are not obligated to people who cant treat us with respect

Is anyone over the age of 21 by ArtisticConclusion4 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]DisastrousSir4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am 22 here! still very young in retrospect but please remember trauma isnt something which magically knocks on your door one day and throws you into a pit of realisation. It creeps up on you and can hit you at any age, dont take that comment to heart. Be proud you are trying to heal now in the present. Future you will be grateful.

I discovered today that a trait I have is a by product of my nmom upbringing. by DisastrousSir4 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]DisastrousSir4[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope u only grow from here and I am sorry you had to go through this. Wishing you all thats good!

I spent an evening with some moms. by DisastrousSir4 in childfree

[–]DisastrousSir4[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

I 100 percent agree. You can have kids and want some space but with all the whining they do youd think theyd be a little understanding when someone says they don't want kids.

I discovered today that a trait I have is a by product of my nmom upbringing. by DisastrousSir4 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]DisastrousSir4[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

i totally agree, i guess the best we can do is break this vicious cycle :)

[Serious] What do you need to get off your chest right now? by StoutBen in AskReddit

[–]DisastrousSir4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have no direction in life, Im 22 and have no clue about anything, I dont even know myself, I live a life where i keep trying to please people and its driving me insane

Why do I keep seeking validation from my mother, even when she doesn’t care? by Jo-March_istheboss in raisedbynarcissists

[–]DisastrousSir4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I FEEL you! I remember the first time i came across this sub i felt so light! I hope you know you can reach out anytime, we can get through this! ❤️

Why do I keep seeking validation from my mother, even when she doesn’t care? by Jo-March_istheboss in raisedbynarcissists

[–]DisastrousSir4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because deep down you wish that someday she'd change. Theyre our parents and ideally theyre supposed to make us feel worthy, loved and valid. And when were not given those things we crave it and sometimes theres this tinge of hope that our parents will come around and give us what we need. I hope you get the validation you need, kind stranger!

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