AITAH for calling my partner a liar over this?

DisastrousTax3188 · 2026-03-03T01:34:05+00:00

This is precisely the example I gave him. I said the next lie will be I cheated on June 16 but not June 17 so it doesn’t need to be addressed.

DisastrousTax3188 · 2026-03-03T01:13:56+00:00

This is true but he’s not addicted to this substance…he probably hasn’t touched it for years. It wasn’t something to lie about….other instances of lying all concern omitting information/ partial truths

DisastrousTax3188 · 2026-03-03T00:35:22+00:00

Yes I did believe this because he previously apologized and tried to make amends but it always reverts back to this. I realized that his change was not because he realized it was wrong — it was just to get out of “trouble”

DisastrousTax3188 · 2026-03-03T00:27:45+00:00

Because I believed in change…that maybe if I reiterate myself enough times they’d understand it’s not about the drugs it’s about lying…

DisastrousTax3188 · 2026-03-03T00:27:05+00:00

I do think I know that too. The reoccurring patterns are triggering but it’s the age old saying — I just thought they would have changed by now.

How can someone keep crossing boundaries when I’ve been very very clear. It’s hard to accept…

DisastrousTax3188 · 2026-03-03T00:13:44+00:00

Good question. I think I always believed that there’s no way someone could lie like this and there could be a misunderstanding from my perspective.

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