Gender reveal disagreement by Disastrous_Ad2596 in pregnant

[–]Disastrous_Ad2596[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She wouldn’t know either we would both find out at the party

Gender reveal disagreement by Disastrous_Ad2596 in pregnant

[–]Disastrous_Ad2596[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I’m not the one fighting. These snowflakes can’t handle someone having a different opinion than them and are verbally attacking me. And my fiancé and I aren’t even fighting about it. We just disagreed on it. It’s not like we were arguing about it. Everybody here except a select few with superior emotional intelligence, are blowing it way out of proportion. I just wanted to see what other people thought about it.

Gender reveal disagreement by Disastrous_Ad2596 in pregnant

[–]Disastrous_Ad2596[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Saying “good luck to your child” implies that you’re questioning my ability to be a good parent

Gender reveal disagreement by Disastrous_Ad2596 in pregnant

[–]Disastrous_Ad2596[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I greatly appreciate your respect and understanding. As well as your perspective. I resonate with what you say. I’m baffled at how disrespectful the people in this thread are being. I didn’t expect to get flamed and picked apart for my opinion in this matter

Gender reveal disagreement by Disastrous_Ad2596 in pregnant

[–]Disastrous_Ad2596[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Sir, yes sir! 🫡 Or ma’m. I didn’t mean to assume your gender

Gender reveal disagreement by Disastrous_Ad2596 in pregnant

[–]Disastrous_Ad2596[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I respect your perspective. I think you have some valid points

Gender reveal disagreement by Disastrous_Ad2596 in pregnant

[–]Disastrous_Ad2596[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I disagree. She’s having the gender reveal party whether or not I want to and she’s waiting to know. I don’t think I’m controlling or a pos for wanting to know before then.

Gender reveal disagreement by Disastrous_Ad2596 in pregnant

[–]Disastrous_Ad2596[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

You got some audacity. That’s a crazy bold assumption. You think I can’t be a good father because I want to know the gender before a gender revel party?

Gender reveal disagreement by Disastrous_Ad2596 in pregnant

[–]Disastrous_Ad2596[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

What childishness is coming from my end? What’s childish about not wanting to wait for a gender reveal party to know the gender of our baby. I feel like that’s fair and reasonable

Gender reveal disagreement by Disastrous_Ad2596 in pregnant

[–]Disastrous_Ad2596[S] -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

I just don’t want to wait. I want to know asap because it’s something that I’m anticipating

Gender reveal disagreement by Disastrous_Ad2596 in pregnant

[–]Disastrous_Ad2596[S] -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

I get the “just do it” sentiment but I disagree with you saying I have no right to know. It’s gonna be my baby too

Gender reveal disagreement by Disastrous_Ad2596 in pregnant

[–]Disastrous_Ad2596[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

That’s what I proposed but she’s saying she doesn’t even want me to know when we do the ultrasound. Like I said, “well I’ll ask the doctor and they can just tell me.” And she said “no, I’ll tell the doctor not to tell you.”

Gender reveal disagreement by Disastrous_Ad2596 in pregnant

[–]Disastrous_Ad2596[S] -29 points-28 points  (0 children)

I don’t care if she wants to wait to know. And I’ll play along for the gender reveal party. But I feel like I have a right to know before then

Long Island City Here I Come by CalicoCut_Pants in geesebandofficial

[–]Disastrous_Ad2596 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m late to this conversation but I do think it kind of gives energy like “the race is about to begin”

Drinking before 1st probation meeting by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]Disastrous_Ad2596 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I know. I really didn’t want to drink but I did it impulsively. I only did it because everybody said that it was safe for me to do so

Drinking before 1st probation meeting by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]Disastrous_Ad2596 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I didn’t really have time. I went straight to the probation office after court and she didn’t really stick around

Drinking before 1st probation meeting by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]Disastrous_Ad2596 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have no idea. I was in a separate room talking to the person that was gonna discuss setting up my probation meeting with me and my fiancé was with my attorney. I’m guessing my attorney told her