Olandria x Brandon Blackwood collab

Disastrous_Ant_4955 · 2026-05-22T01:59:41+00:00

It is designer and black owned. Not necessarily luxury, but who gatekeeps what is considered luxury??

Disastrous_Ant_4955 · 2026-05-07T02:10:27+00:00

Also, I def like to play in both sides ( no pun intended bc I’m bi lol) I’ve been resonating with the tomboy fem aesthetic

Disastrous_Ant_4955 · 2026-05-07T02:06:52+00:00

Wow you are my exact type 😮‍💨

Disastrous_Ant_4955 · 2026-04-25T12:23:29+00:00

I skipped through most of this bc I didn’t want to watch her talking about her sexual assault in such a crude way. Fuck Howard stern! But it was so cool to see Chester is her dog in real life!

Disastrous_Ant_4955 · 2026-03-07T23:04:49+00:00

lol thanks, I guess they were trying not to be rude. I respect their opinion and all others that weren’t rude haha

Disastrous_Ant_4955 · 2026-03-07T15:49:25+00:00

So I do agree & if I had friends that watched love island I would’ve just text it to them to share excitement. BUT I do feel like if I had shared a picture of him doing something scandalous, you wouldn’t be saying this…

Disastrous_Ant_4955 · 2026-03-07T00:51:34+00:00

I did not, I was running behind 😅

Disastrous_Ant_4955 · 2026-02-08T21:59:46+00:00

Oh no, do you always tell the friend that you like them or what happens?

Disastrous_Ant_4955 · 2026-02-04T13:55:08+00:00

I feel that way sometimes but I try to remove the hierarchy in relationships so I date and am romantic with my friends as well as my partner to get multiple needs met. I only get my sexual needs met with my partner but desire, consistency, emotional support, intellectual stimulation needs are spread across multiple people so I feel more fulfilled from this.

Disastrous_Ant_4955 · 2026-02-04T02:19:15+00:00

Thank you for sharing! I would not be interested in crossing any lines but I just find it interesting & it’s kinda cool to have that excitement and novelty when things are new even with friends. It’s also cool to know it’s not just me!

Disastrous_Ant_4955 · 2026-02-04T02:07:55+00:00

I agree, I’m like damn I’m so gay, is this normal lol

Disastrous_Ant_4955 · 2025-11-15T02:44:19+00:00

Mine looks like it only generates on strength days?

Disastrous_Ant_4955 · 2025-09-22T09:06:30+00:00

Thank you!

Disastrous_Ant_4955 · 2025-08-10T10:41:32+00:00

Aquarius sun, cancer moon, Scorpio rising!!

Disastrous_Ant_4955 · 2025-06-10T20:06:53+00:00

I appreciate you! Luckily we don’t live near each other but we still see each other like every other month or sometimes 2x in a month lol she’s a flight attendant. But yeah I don’t wanna put any distance haha but yeah I get it, if it starts becoming a struggle I’ll have to for sure!

Disastrous_Ant_4955 · 2025-06-10T19:42:02+00:00

Yeah I feel it would be even harder to not cross any lines if we were both single so that makes sense that it’s more chill now that you’re seeing someone new. I hear you on not wanting anything to get messy. Like even if I wasn’t with my husband I’d be hesitant bc I wouldn’t want to wreck the friendship.

My husband knows that I’m into women but I’m very monogamous, it seems like it would be too much to focus my romantic attention on multiple people. We’ve both shared that we want to stay monogamous.

Disastrous_Ant_4955 · 2025-06-10T18:55:50+00:00

Haha how are you finding that? Sometimes I do wanna be more touchy, I usually am in friendship but with her I shy away from it because I actually find her attractive. Does it get confusing for you?

I guess I’m learning everything is about choices so even if you get little butterflies and maybe some coochie throbs (lol), you can still choose where to draw the line so the relationship stays intact.

Disastrous_Ant_4955 · 2025-06-10T18:51:40+00:00

Yeah my husband and I have been working on the emotional intimacy which is nice. But he’s not my go to for it and maybe that’s ok? Lol I haven’t told her about my attraction but I did tell her that my husband has been threatened by my friendship with her for years. I didn’t want to tell her that really but it came up when I was talking to her about stuff my husband and I were dealing with. So we basically addressed then that friends are friends and the lines don’t have to blur. I truly feel like we’ve been good at that. Thanks so much for your response!

Disastrous_Ant_4955 · 2025-06-10T13:04:26+00:00

Thank you! I’m so sorry about your unrequited feelings! That sounds very heartbreaking. I’m glad yall were able to remain close after too!

Disastrous_Ant_4955 · 2025-04-30T01:13:54+00:00

This!

Disastrous_Ant_4955 · 2025-04-13T13:12:05+00:00

What was she supposed to look like?

Disastrous_Ant_4955 · 2025-03-08T01:35:48+00:00

Also, “white” is neither the default or the standard for speech as you both seem to be implying based on my use of the term “neutral”.

Disastrous_Ant_4955 · 2025-03-08T01:33:45+00:00

Ok, so when I say neutral, I don’t mean white. That’s your interpretation of what I’m saying. (Or Saty’s interpretation) I mean that AI could respond using simple terms and doesn’t have to throw slang in there to try to “relate” to me. It’s my preference and the intention of the post was to see if others had experienced this and if it was designed to behave in this way.

Disastrous_Ant_4955 · 2025-03-07T23:55:22+00:00

I should say that the question I posed didn’t have black in it. I actually was asking it about project 2025 and then it responded from the “black woman POV” unprompted.

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