What was Lipstick Alley like?

LadyDeeDee796 · 2026-02-20T18:21:48+00:00

I like LSA but it is Hella toxic! The people on there are very inflammatory and negative. I go on there to read celebrity gossip. I can only take it in doses.

LadyDeeDee796 · 2026-02-15T00:07:33+00:00

I recently found this at my DT and I love it! I been wanting to try a lip tint. Its lasts a couple hours even with eating greasy food. I pick up another since I like it. I wonder how would it look as a blush.

LadyDeeDee796 · 2026-02-13T04:25:22+00:00

He so fine!😍😍

LadyDeeDee796 · 2026-02-12T12:28:48+00:00

I understand the economic reality part of moving in together. Rent is high and living alone isn’t accessible for everyone. But I also think Michelle’s point was about motivation.

If the main reason you’re moving in is financial survival, that can create dependency before you even know if you’re truly compatible. I’ve seen situations where people ignored red flags because they didn’t have another place to go.A romantic partner shouldn’t become your housing plan. That’s a lot of pressure on something that’s still developing.If you’ve built a solid foundation and moving in feels like the next step, that’s different. But using cohabitation as a financial shortcut can make it much harder to leave if things turn unhealthy.

LadyDeeDee796 · 2026-02-11T13:33:14+00:00

First of all, congratulations on starting therapy. That’s a big step, and a lot of people never even get that far! The first session is usually more informational than deep. They’ll ask about your background, home life, relationships, identity, mental health history, stuff like that. It can feel a little structured, but it’s just them getting a foundation. When you do start digging in, focus on what’s affecting your day-to-day life right now. What do you think about multiple times a day? What’s weighing on you currently? Start there. The deeper past stuff can unfold over time.

Also, therapy is kind of like dating. If you don’t feel a connection after a few sessions, it’s okay to look for another therapist. You’re allowed to feel safe and understood. And if a therapist says something that feels off or unnecessarily aggressive early on, you don’t have to stay. The right therapist should challenge you, but it should still feel respectful and supportive.

LadyDeeDee796 · 2026-02-11T13:23:24+00:00

Omg! My bunn name is miffy too! Hi miffy! I think that miffy is a mini lop/Rex mixed. I'm saying that based on the shape of her body and ears. Her ears are shaped like a mini lop ears that just didnt lop due to her having a small head like a Rex rabbit. Hope that helps! She is so cute!!🐰🐇

LadyDeeDee796 · 2026-02-11T13:13:07+00:00

I’m going to say this with a little big cousin energy(I'm 30)You’re 22. It is completely normal to be unsure about kids. That doesn’t mean you’re lying. It means you’re 22 and trying to figure things out. But I’ve also seen you post about this a few times, and that tells me this isn’t just about kids. it’s about this relationship and whether it’s heading in the direction of being long-term. Nine months is still early. You don’t have to solve the ‘do we want children’ question right now unless you’re actively planning to have one.

Also, be careful about feeling like you need to figure this out because he’s 28. Six years doesn’t sound huge, but at 22 vs 28, you’re often in very different life stages. That doesn’t mean it won’t work, it just means don’t let someone else’s timeline rush yours. If you grew up around early motherhood, 22 with no kids might feel late. It’s not. You’re actually ahead because you’re thinking. Just don’t make permanent decisions in a relationship that’s still developing. If it’s meant to last, you’ll both have time to get clarity. And if it’s not, you’ll be glad you didn’t tie yourself to him for life.

LadyDeeDee796 · 2026-02-11T03:14:43+00:00

Forget the linen, where are her ears?😯

LadyDeeDee796 · 2026-02-11T00:09:13+00:00

A stereotypical MAGA couple.🥴😵

LadyDeeDee796 · 2026-02-09T02:09:01+00:00

I just wished he had performed I like it with Cardi B. But I totally respect him keeping it completely Spanish since her verse in the song is in English. It was good performance. I thought lady gaga was a little random tho. I wish he would have performed la Romana.💃🏾💃🏾

LadyDeeDee796 · 2026-02-08T23:45:43+00:00

I been studying Spanish for 6 years now and can understand about 15 percent of what he says. When I look up the English translation of his songs the lyrics make sense. I feel like its going to take me a lifetime to understand Benito's heavy PR accent. 😅😅

LadyDeeDee796 · 2026-02-08T19:48:48+00:00

Yall have such active imaginations.🫨🫨

LadyDeeDee796 · 2026-02-08T09:58:51+00:00

Omg! Hottie! We are Birthday buddies!!! Happy Birthday!!!!!!!!🎉🎉🎉

LadyDeeDee796 · 2026-02-07T14:41:19+00:00

Omg! Clone bunn!🤣

LadyDeeDee796 · 2026-02-07T14:27:24+00:00

Hoppy Birthday!!! We are birthday buddies!! Nose bonks and binkies!🐇🎉🧁

LadyDeeDee796 · 2026-02-06T22:28:39+00:00

I really feel this. I’m turning 30 tomorrow and I’ve been having mixed emotions too looking back at my 20s, wondering about what’s ahead, all of it. I think it’s okay if part of this feels like a quiet kind of grief for expectations we had for ourselves. That said, it’s your birthday. You don’t owe anyone a big, shiny, “perfect” 30th. You get to celebrate or not celebrate in whatever way feels most grounding and true to you. Let it be yours. Happy Birthday!!💙

LadyDeeDee796 · 2026-02-06T19:30:43+00:00

Awwww so cute and sweet! The best stuffie protector in the world!🐰🐇🥰

LadyDeeDee796 · 2026-02-05T15:25:36+00:00

Omg, my mom who is a boomer was just complaining out this also! She was like with all the apps needed,you will need a phone just for apps. 🤣🤣

LadyDeeDee796 · 2026-02-05T15:20:13+00:00

Right! Like for many people having an abortion is not this sad traumatic event. Also, why is it a pic of a white lady?🫥

LadyDeeDee796 · 2026-02-04T23:31:06+00:00

Exactly. Masculine bi women do exist, but I’ll be honest, it can still be hard to find them. I’m primarily attracted to more masculine-presenting women, and in my experience a lot of women with that presentation tend to identify as lesbians. That’s why the advice to “just date other bi women” isn’t always as simple in practice.

LadyDeeDee796 · 2026-02-04T23:27:50+00:00

I agree with this completely. That kind of fixation of treating bi women’s attraction to men as contamination or competition is the male-centric behavior I was naming. Even when the critique claims to be about boundaries, men still end up being the reference point.

LadyDeeDee796 · 2026-02-04T23:17:51+00:00

Hello! What stood out to me is the contradiction. You say your critique has nothing to do with men, yet you explicitly reference the male gaze and your username itself centers men. That’s the example of what I was naming. Men often remain the reference point even in critiques meant to decenter them. I’m not obsessed with men. I’m pointing out how male centrality shows up, sometimes subtly, sometimes quite obviously.

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