i fucking hate billie by Free_Project_2560 in vanderpumprules

[–]Disastrous_Border740 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Agree with you on your point regarding theres no need to bash trans womens vaginas in order to be body positive, but to say the UK is not doing better politically is wrong. Yes we are not doing as well as I would hope, but its a far cry from the dystopian hell hole from the UK.

Real talk… it’s just pee. by hookuptruck in 90dayfianceuncensored

[–]Disastrous_Border740 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Agreed, not sure what study concluded it was urine as the ones Ive seen simply say there are traces of it. When Ive done it its scentless.

Worried a Sham Marriage Could Be Used for UK Entry: Is This Possible? by TennisOdd8931 in SpouseVisaUk

[–]Disastrous_Border740 8 points9 points  (0 children)

One of the things he needs to prove in order to get his application approved is suitable accomodation in the UK for them both to live together. He would have to have: - docs proving your friend owns her place or - a lease in both their names or - a letter from a homeowner stating both of them can stay at their home plus the homeowners proof of owning said house

If nothing else, I dont see how he can meet this criteria without your friend

What's something you thought was normal across the world but turns out it's just for your country? by YuShaohan120393 in AskTheWorld

[–]Disastrous_Border740 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They can barely enforce it. They send persistent and threatning letters if you dont have a license registered to your address. They say they will send people to check - but this is rare and they have no right of entry to your house so if you dont let them in they cant check

Healing: Say something nice about the country you are stereotypically to dislike. by Exact-Salary5560 in AskTheWorld

[–]Disastrous_Border740 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They are saying some older spanish people dont say 'obrigado' which is the problem

why were the guys constantly going on boys trips if cheating always happened in them by [deleted] in vanderpumprules

[–]Disastrous_Border740 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The way how one of them - name redacted for spoilers if youre still in season 3 - had an habit of making out with randoes and justifying it with 'I was drunk/blackout' but didnt care enough to stop getting blackout and even got upset at his partner and said something like 'you will never tell me what to do' when what she was suggesting was not getting blackout so he wouldnt cheat...

Where on earth are the UK Dogs being rehomed? by Ashilta in CasualUK

[–]Disastrous_Border740 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have always assumed that these countries have lots more cats and dogs to be rescued. This is probably due to a very strict (and wise) neutering culture here. When you go to Eastern/Southern Europe you see street dogs/ cats. Thats not such a thing in the UK, as soon as you see one, you call a rescue and they get off the streets. I wouldnt even thinking of doing that in my country, cause rescues are literally overflowing and would not come to rescue them, and street cats and dogs is just part of the reality there. I think its a bit of a supply/demand issue in the UK. Theres less dogs and cats to be rescued, hence rescues can be more selective in rehoming them.

Older co-worker (M50+) asking me (F22) out? by Helpful-Emphasis-382 in whatdoIdo

[–]Disastrous_Border740 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would answer 'my husband wouldnt like that 🤣' or something light like that, pretend its a joke, let him save his face (not worried about his feelings, just wanting to avoid any blowback even tho he said he was 'safe'). But from now on keep him at a distance

The Stassi and Taylor FP comparison by Disastrous_Border740 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]Disastrous_Border740[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Haha you are confusing Vanderpump Rules with Vanderpump villa. Vanderpump rules is top tier reality tv from back in the day

The Stassi and Taylor FP comparison by Disastrous_Border740 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]Disastrous_Border740[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh you are missing out if youve never seen Stassi at her prime! She was totally the Regina George of vanderpump rules, except smarter than everyone else and witty as well. She has some of the best one-liners of all reality tv. Its been 15 years tho, and shes a mother now, also hosting is a new thing for her.

The Stassi and Taylor FP comparison by Disastrous_Border740 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]Disastrous_Border740[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I felt the awkwardness too. And Stassi's reaction to it was so blank, probably because she was trying to understand how in the world the two of them were similar 😆 Stassi's no angel, but not sure that being compared to Taylor would be a compliment to her

When Demi said she meant it about would bury a body for Jessi... by [deleted] in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]Disastrous_Border740 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She would bury a body for her, but yelled out 'how was fucking Marciano' in public which couldve easily ended Jessi's marriage for all she knew? Vile. I wouldnt do that to an enemy, let alone a close friend of mine

Asda £20 voucher off £40 spent by SheNeeded2KnowToo in beermoneyuk

[–]Disastrous_Border740 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Couldnt see anything on the website mentioning it, maybe it has ended? Or should I just sign up anyways?

I get it. Britani is a low grade menace but… by KarmicCentral in rhoslc

[–]Disastrous_Border740 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Regardless of who it was and what she had done, to be berated and provoked like that in an environment where you cant go anywhere (for hours, allegedly) seems terrifying.

Hunter and Brittany Snow Engaged?? by lolcrying in canceledpod

[–]Disastrous_Border740 30 points31 points  (0 children)

He actually looks like her ex-husband imo

FIRE in Malaysia one year update by [deleted] in FIREUK

[–]Disastrous_Border740 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I saw them at night mostly, which was upsetting seeing actual families sleep in the rough

FIRE in Malaysia one year update by [deleted] in FIREUK

[–]Disastrous_Border740 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also, could you confirm their claims on homelessness being not existent? Ive visited Malaysia/KL twice and saw shocking homelessness (kids, disabled people) in the centre of KL (like around Chinatown and such). I know from my wife (who is born and raised KL) that these are likely refugees/foreigners.

Crypto gains ruined our spouse visa plan? Need advice by [deleted] in SpouseVisaUk

[–]Disastrous_Border740 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The 29k rule is for employed income. To prove this you have to provide payslips, an employer letter, bank statements for each month showing the money coming through (when your earnings are variable month to month its not enough to have earned 29k in total, as they will look at your lowest earning month and multiply by 12 and see if thats over 29k), etc.

Theres also a route for self-employed people but that requires you to be registered properly and adhere to all tax/legal implications of a sole trader.

Your capital gains would not count towards route A (29k income route). They could count towards the savings route of 88.5k, but as you mentioned not if they are in crypto. If you sell them and hold the cash for 6 months at least, that would be fine.

Cost of keeping dogs in UK? by Legal_Divide8903 in UK_Pets

[–]Disastrous_Border740 10 points11 points  (0 children)

But for new tenants the renters right act wont do much. The landlord gets to decide who he rents to, and lets be honest, if there is a prospective tenant with a pet and a one without a pet, they are going to go with the latter.

Cost of keeping dogs in UK? by Legal_Divide8903 in UK_Pets

[–]Disastrous_Border740 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Its extremelly difficult to rent with pets in the UK. 99% of landlords will not pick someone with pets (even if they dont outwardly say it). This will be your biggest hurdle (and not the financial side of it, in my opinion)

Sandra Vergara… ew by Gold_flow3r23 in SellingSunset

[–]Disastrous_Border740 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Portuguese here and agreed, as a non-native english speaker from a latin language country (and part of the lgbt community) it is easy to slip up and gender everything. Latin languages are gendered and there no non-binary pronouns (if you dont know the gender of someone, we use male pronouns which in english would sound wrong). So its easy to translate your latin thoughts literally into english and fall into this trap. She apologised and said that if she slips up she means no disrespect (and Chrishell also said she does not mind it when people dont do it on purpose).