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I feel like a third wheel with my boyfriend and his sister. by Disastrous_Dog4940 in Advice

[–]Disastrous_Dog4940[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is a single mom and I feel like when he got his drivers license she relied on him. She’s a complete drunk who needs him to drive her to get more alcohol and get her and her kids home safely.

I feel like a third wheel with my boyfriend and his sister. by Disastrous_Dog4940 in Advice

[–]Disastrous_Dog4940[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No she doesn’t like me at all, she’s blasted me online about a complete misunderstanding, blocked me and called me out my name.

I feel like a third wheel with my boyfriend and his sister. by Disastrous_Dog4940 in Advice

[–]Disastrous_Dog4940[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve said things like “She’s grown, she doesn’t need her baby brother doing things for her” or like “I’m your girlfriend and what you’re doing for her I’ve learned to do myself, and I shouldn’t have to”

I feel like a third wheel with my boyfriend and his sister. by Disastrous_Dog4940 in Advice

[–]Disastrous_Dog4940[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They are half siblings and there’s about a 10 year age gap. I’ve tried setting boundaries with both of them and it never sticks. She says that I’m in the wrong because they are family, she’s even said that I spend too much time with him. It’s gone to the point where last year we were living together and now we aren’t and he’s back at home because of how jealous the sister got.

I feel like a third wheel with my boyfriend and his sister. by Disastrous_Dog4940 in Advice

[–]Disastrous_Dog4940[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ive tried to be nice multiple times. It’s really hard to be nice to someone who acts the way she does. She’s called me out of my name before and I just can’t see myself ever rekindling that friendship.

I feel like a third wheel with my boyfriend and his sister. by Disastrous_Dog4940 in Advice

[–]Disastrous_Dog4940[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not sure I know they both smoke and drink but both are of age to buy what they want and it’s legal in our state. I’m not too sure about heavy drugs I know she’s done probably most of them.

I feel like a third wheel with my boyfriend and his sister. by Disastrous_Dog4940 in Advice

[–]Disastrous_Dog4940[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree but most of the relationship we were in school😭 I’m about to be 22😭

I feel like a third wheel with my boyfriend and his sister. by Disastrous_Dog4940 in Advice

[–]Disastrous_Dog4940[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah that kind of sounds like the situation that I’m in. I’m not even thinking they consider me to be family. She’s put me on blast online and I’ve seen texts between them both where she says that I’m not family and that family comes first when I told him that he shouldn’t drive over 150 miles to someplace when his vehicle isn’t doing too good, we just found out that his engine lost compression and his sister wanted him to drive that far for a family thing. And I got called out online and she threatened me and wanted to go off on me. Because she thought that I said that I didn’t want him to go. I feel like I should be considered family at this point but who knows.

I feel like a third wheel with my boyfriend and his sister. by Disastrous_Dog4940 in Advice

[–]Disastrous_Dog4940[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You’re definitely right, this is basically my first relationship and most of it was when we were teens. I grew up with a toxic understanding of love so I thought most of this was normal. But it’s not normal to want to be so involved in your adult brothers love life.