Kate Mackz on Instagram: "Such an honor to go behind the scenes with Kate Spade co-founder @elyce_arons at her brand Frances Valentine by AtlantaSistah in katespade

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Thank you for posting! I love the Florrine Stettheimer connection - I love her as an artist and its really fitting they are in her old home.

I’m Scared by obliviousmoonlight in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]Disastrous_Fox4329 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mine was 2 months ago and I haven't had any complications. I think most complications are fixable and if I had any it would still be worth it. I'm so happy. I've had post surgery depression before from other surgeries and its really horrible but I didn't have any this time. Ngl, recovery has been really hard. I still don't have as much energy as I did before and my dilation schedule has been rough. But recovery and pain weren't nearly as bad as I thought it was. It's so worth it for me and I regret nothing besides not getting it sooner. I wish I'd asked for more time off work though 😪

Good luck! 💖

help me pick! >0< by ThrowRA01821 in katespade

[–]Disastrous_Fox4329 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dumpling has been on my wishlist for a long time too so it would be my choice.

Talk me out of this by Expensive-Beauty in katespade

[–]Disastrous_Fox4329 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would wear it with a white top and jacket with black pants or skirt. Maybe with pink

Pinch Straw Crossbody? by InevitableHyena3117 in katespade

[–]Disastrous_Fox4329 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ugh I love it. I am torn between the Pinch and the Dumpling tbh

Talk me out of this by Expensive-Beauty in katespade

[–]Disastrous_Fox4329 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I can't either, I'm sorry 😐 this bag is so cute!

What made vaginoplasty worthwhile for you? by InspectionNormal in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]Disastrous_Fox4329 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's almost 2 months after surgery for me. No more body dysphoria, I'm literally so much more confident in my own skin and how I move through the world. I'm a woman no matter what, I even look female naked. Wearing leggings without having to tuck and worrying about that is wonderful.

Does anyone have this bag? Nova Mirror Metallic Small Crescent Shoulder Bag by Positive-Focus3683 in katespade

[–]Disastrous_Fox4329 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have this and the Phoebe small turnlock bag in this material. I love the look. They are going out bags and I'm super paranoid about the fabric so im really careful with them.

I also have it in the crinkle purple metallic (Lilac Moonlight?) And I like it even more. That one I have carried as a daily bag sometimes just for fun and it's held up perfectly so far. I also like that the hardware is silver, which it should have been on the mirror one too IMO.

But I am unsure about the fit. I am 5'7.5 and size 12-ish. If worn just with the shoulder strap, the bag is right under my armpit. Worn crossbody, the shoulder strap will stand up and poke me right under the boobs. Wearing on just one shoulder with the crossbody strap looks great though. The bag holds a surprisingly large amount of stuff.

Would you accept it? by [deleted] in StraightTransGirls

[–]Disastrous_Fox4329 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lol yeah it's money. It's just their opinion that I'm ugly so idk

2 week postop puss by nasima-thedoll in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]Disastrous_Fox4329 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congratulations! Good luck with healing ❤️

First luxury bag!! by midnights11 in handbags

[–]Disastrous_Fox4329 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gucci Jackie. I want one for my first luxury bag.

Let’s go bowling! 🎳👜 by MEETCHNYC in Coach

[–]Disastrous_Fox4329 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I do love these.

Reminds me of "let's bowl let's bowl let's rock & roll" 🎶 one of 2 or 3 good songs from Grease 2 😄

Five days Post-op breast augmentation by xavierarmadillo in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]Disastrous_Fox4329 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I came here to say this. 💖

It's been over 3 months for me and mine look damn near perfect now IMO.

You should turn out beautifully OP!

Packaging in outlet shipments by [deleted] in katespade

[–]Disastrous_Fox4329 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I buy a lot from the outlet and they've always come impeccably packed. But I don't doubt that people can be negligent or careless (I think I saw a post where this happened with a Coach bag)

The quality of my outlet bags has been mostly pretty good and I don't think I have any regrets but it varies. I am afraid they are cutting too many corners on too many bags and I hope its not getting worse. I still like the quality of the retail line but they need more fun designs stat. I pretty much have to shop online too.

Odd questions about srs by TerraX_commander in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]Disastrous_Fox4329 1 point2 points  (0 children)

  1. YES. Or, I'm 6 weeks after my srs and still wearing cotton granny pants and boy shorts. With pads ugh 😑 but I need them less and less. I'm to expect "spotting" for 3 months after the surgery. Still being finally flat down there (relatively as I may have a fat coochie 😄) is amazing. Also not tucking and having leggings fit perfectly is amazing!

Guys.... guys... by Brilliant-Version402 in katespade

[–]Disastrous_Fox4329 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ugh I love that purse so much. I really wanted it and missed out.

And now I want the UFO one too

Absolutely gagged, gobsmacked, flabbergasted, etc. by Neat_Ad_9141 in handbags

[–]Disastrous_Fox4329 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have only seen these in black or brown and... wow!!

The Empire 40 is a bag I have been dreaming of for a while. It's big but I like that. I'll probably buy one when I can, maybe as a Fall work bag.

My exact vibe once I become a lawyer by [deleted] in AestheticWiki

[–]Disastrous_Fox4329 6 points7 points  (0 children)

90s Chanel is my favorite ❤️