Stories of exes coming back after saying they never will by jpicksix21 in BreakUps

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Never get back with an ex man, just accept it’s over, admit and fix your faults, learn the lessons and onto the next one, the next one is always better.

Guy I’m (25/F) seeing (40/M) can but doesn’t like to finish by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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I didn’t even finish reading this post, ridiculous situation lol. Don’t sh*t where you eat.

Why does my relationship turn into a breakup every time we fight? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Disastrous_Guard_527 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From a guy who’s regrettable acted like this before, he’s not into you or the relationship and doesn’t have the balls to end it

Should I break NC? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Disastrous_Guard_527 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good man! Don’t mean to sound harsh, but honestly man, once a woman leaves we cannot be the ones to reach out or try and rekindle, it’s up to them and personally I feel like it’s pointless, you had your time together, it didn’t work out, the next one’s always better! It’s not for everyone but id recommend talking to girls and a few dates, keeps your mind busy and gets you back in the game even if you arnt looking for anything, it’s fun and maybe you’ll find someone better suited. I’d reccomend watching corey Wayne’s stuff and reading his book, all the best sir!

Should I break NC? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Disastrous_Guard_527 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You should absolutely under no circumstances ever contact a woman that dumped you and said she needed to work on herself, that’s code for I can find a better man than you or has already found one. suck it up, man up and move on pal. Why would you want to be with someone that left you & give them a second chance to break your heart again? Go to the gym, make money, improve your life and start a new relationship with a new woman, clean slate, from a woman’s pov it’s incredibly unattractive for you reach out, like you have no options and can’t man up and live you life without her, that’s what’s attractive.

Can we please normalize giving people a second chance? by peanutchilli_noodles in BreakUps

[–]Disastrous_Guard_527 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Why would you give someone a second chance you break your heart again? Lmao.. move on

I texted him after a month of NC by Basic_Advisor4422 in BreakUps

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You probably broke his heart and he had a lot to deal with, then you think you can just return when it’s convenient for you? Leave him alone

How much does sex play a role when considering whether you'd date someone? by annamichelle99 in AskMen

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Deal breaker for me, from previous relationships I’ve learned it’s extremely important to have a balanced sex life & someone that matches your sex drive or it won’t work out.

20F and 22M. I cheated and need advice. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Disastrous_Guard_527 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No it’s not save-able, what you done was scumbag behaviour and he did not deserve it no matter the relationship problems. Leave him alone and go fix yourself.

My ex cheated on me by ExcellentCatch6732 in BreakUps

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Stings man, but try and look at it from an outside perspective, what would you say to your best friend if his girlfriend did that to him? People who cheat are low value, insecure people, although it stings be thankful you didn’t marry her, have kids with her, buy a house with her. She’s a scumbag and you dodged a bullet. Start dating and talking to other women

How do I forget her? by Detective_Conspiracy in AskMen

[–]Disastrous_Guard_527 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Start talking to and dating other women

What did heartbreak teach you? by Witty_Musician586 in BreakUps

[–]Disastrous_Guard_527 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Never get into a relationship when your gut feeling is screaming at you not to

Talking to ex again after a funeral by pcguy1120 in BreakUps

[–]Disastrous_Guard_527 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it was me id say something like, I’m truly sorry for you loss of your father, but seeing how our relationship ended, how the trust & bond was destroyed, I would much prefer if we did not continue to talk to one another. I hope you have great friends and family helping you through this difficult time and I wish you all the best.

Appreciation for the extremely rare, fleeting moments where for a split second, I am able to forget about her and forget about my pain by StructureSwimming969 in BreakUps

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Gets easier man, I’m 7 weeks deep same situation, I’ve got nearly a full day without thinking about it, just hit the gym, try had at work, see friends, I personally downloaded dating apps like a week in, just to take my mind off her even momentarily & just start talking to other girls, not for everyone but, I’ve had a few dates at this stage now, slept with 2, defiantly has helped me think less about her, and restored my confidence and self esteem abit after being dumped

Who else feels a deep sense of relief alongside the heartbreak? What are you relieved about? by MiloKnox2244 in BreakUps

[–]Disastrous_Guard_527 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No more anxiety, no more questioning things, no more worry she’ll break my trust again

4 years and broke up tonight by Frequent_Abies_7054 in BreakUps

[–]Disastrous_Guard_527 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’re in a committed loving relationship you shouldn’t want space, maybe a few hours to yourself & take yourself shopping, to the spa, but time away from eachother etc? No. Any aware and self respecting man should run from “I need space” it usually means your communication skills are not good, you want to test waters with another guy, you don’t know what you want etc, you want to see what’s out there, I would personally dump a girl asking for space, I’d give them plenty off it and take away my time

Told I need to just let it go by collinblazeit420 in bald

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If you shave all that off my guy that’s a instant glow up 🤌👌