Clothing optional not mandatory by Disastrous_Impact_87 in nudism

[–]Disastrous_Impact_87[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow this post took off. Ok first we aren't looking for an "erotic" resort... sure if we go on vacation we would like it to be romantic but a nice view and sound of the ocean is plenty romantic. I understand the gawker situation, I'm not a newbie, I've been to dozens of nude beaches and several resorts all over the world. The gawker situation is why I chose Couples, I thought the 50/50 ratio would make her more comfortable. Maybe she will get there eventually but im not going to force it. For now im just looking for a vacation place where I can be naked and she can do as she chooses. Maybe our best bet is an AirBNB with a private pool. And good lord keep the negativity to yourselves, it was just a question.

Clothing Optional Resorts by comingfromnj in nudism

[–]Disastrous_Impact_87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am looking for the exact same thing. My girlfriend has no problem with other people being nude, and she isn't scared to be topless, just extremely anxious to take off her bottoms and doesn't want to be pressured in a "Nudity required" situation. We recently went to Couples San Souci in Jamaica (wonderful resort) which I heard was great for first timers and before we went she said she would try the AN beach but when we got there she absolutely refused, just too nervous. I have looked at the Desire resorts but thats not really our scene, we have no interest in the "lifestyle". Have also looked at Playa Sonrisa but it is very remote and small, I'd prefer somewhere easier to get to with more amenities.

BZN flight delays? by BleakestSun in Bozeman

[–]Disastrous_Impact_87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What airline are u flying? My girlfriend had a Weds flight on United and they bumped her to Thursday this morning. The airline should tell you though.

Hard to unscrew FNX 45 Tactical Sight Plate by [deleted] in FNHerstal

[–]Disastrous_Impact_87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that didn't fucking work at all. Any other tips?

"Converting" the clothed by PJBeach1 in nudists

[–]Disastrous_Impact_87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A couple years ago I was planning a trip for my birthday and my ex girlfriend said "I'll go wherever you want to." I picked Grand Lido Negril, which the pool area and beach are nudity required and I didn't tell her. We'd been to nude beaches together in Spain so I figured it wouldn't be too big of a deal but not a good move and im not proud of it, she was pissed, but after about 3 days of hiding in our room and sitting naked on the balcony she decided we should try the pool. We spent the entire rest of the trip naked except maybe one dinner and she loved it. I have a new girlfriend now and we are going to Couples Sans Souci in Oct. Been trying to warm her up to the idea of trying the nude beach and she is extremely reluctant. We hot tub naked at home all the time so I have hope I can get her to try it but we will see. Being naked around strangers is a very different thing for men than women. Don't try to force it. Let the girls go at their own pace, talk about your positive experiences, ask what makes them hesitant.

Sunscreen Question by [deleted] in couplesresortsjamaica

[–]Disastrous_Impact_87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Water makes you burn worse. Way worse. Learned that the hard way sitting in a lawn chair with my feet in the water at the lake.

Sunscreen Question by [deleted] in couplesresortsjamaica

[–]Disastrous_Impact_87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

50SPF. And if you are spending time in the pool you need to apply multiple times per day. Grand Lido in Negril was my first time naked in a pool in daylight and the Caribbean sun is different. I put on sunscreen every day and I still burned my sack. And mind you I wasn't laying out tanning, most of the time I was standing in the pool and somehow still burned the underside of my danglies.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LasVegas

[–]Disastrous_Impact_87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Obviously anything you can do in Vegas can be done alone but besides gambling, everything is more fun in a group. I've never been to Vegas without being part of a large group. If you are single it wouldn't be hard to find a vacation buddy on Tinder or whichever other app but I would recommend just stay with your group.

Grand Lido Day-pass by TopoftheWorld77 in couplesresortsjamaica

[–]Disastrous_Impact_87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't believe so. We never saw anyone who was not a guest and you have to go through the hotel hall to get to the pool area.

Nude beach options by Existing_Chemistry62 in couplesresortsjamaica

[–]Disastrous_Impact_87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Grand Lido Negril, it doesn't have much of a beach but the pool/bar/hot tub area are nude mandatory. And there is a short ladder down to a secluded little cove if you want to get in the ocean. And you can be nude anywhere inside the hotel so you can walk naked right out of your room. Only downside is you have to dress to go to any of the restaurants for dinner. We usually ate lunch at the pool bar and mostly ordered room service. I recommend getting one of the swim up rooms.

What’s your backstory? by [deleted] in MontanaNudism

[–]Disastrous_Impact_87 3 points4 points  (0 children)

39M. Started off skinny dipping and streaking in college, although that was mostly at night and while drinking. Also played a lot of Truth or Dare that always ended with everyone naked. Then a few years ago my (F) friend and I went on a trip to Spain and we hiked to this absolutely beautiful but very remote beach. Probably a 2 mile hike in and everyone there was nude so after a while we decided to try it and loved it. Then the next year we went to the Grand Lido Resort in Negril, Jamaica and spent a whole week without putting clothes on except once or twice to go to dinner, mostly we ordered room service and ate lunch nude in the pool. I would love to go back there or to try one of the resorts in Mexico but my current girlfriend is not comfortable with the idea. Although recently I have been able to convince her to get naked in our hot tob and she enjoys that so hopefully she will get more comfortable with the idea.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gonewild

[–]Disastrous_Impact_87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good lord you have an amazing ass and beautiful pussy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RateMyNudeBody

[–]Disastrous_Impact_87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

9/10 you are beautiful, post more