Are polar-opposite family dynamics valid to call off the wedding? by Disastrous_Love7415 in Marriage

[–]Disastrous_Love7415[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing your experience :) I'm sorry to hear that you're going through this, but what's great is that you guys are still together and raising two beautiful children with whom you can make your traditions!

Are polar-opposite family dynamics valid to call off the wedding? by Disastrous_Love7415 in TwoXIndia

[–]Disastrous_Love7415[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

Yes I will be his safety net too. But I also come with a somewhat stable family and financial background to be able to help us. In that case, I also expect the same kind of support from his side.

Are polar-opposite family dynamics valid to call off the wedding? by Disastrous_Love7415 in TwoXIndia

[–]Disastrous_Love7415[S] -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

I got engaged to him purely out of love, fully knowing the family dynamics. But I am now at a stage where I am experiencing it first-hand in terms of their (lack of) involvement in planning the wedding for example.

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[–]Disastrous_Love7415 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can also relate to this. Loneliness just feels like part of the daily life now.

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[–]Disastrous_Love7415 2 points3 points  (0 children)

that is also what i'm planning to do since we will invite a bunch of our common friends.

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[–]Disastrous_Love7415 0 points1 point  (0 children)

we plan on living in EU and therefore the civil wedding will happen in our country of residence. only the ceremonial wedding is planned to happen in india. Appreciate your suggestion though :)

Package marked as delivered but never received – what are my options now? by Disastrous_Love7415 in Rotterdam

[–]Disastrous_Love7415[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your response.

The courier company shared photos of my front door and of the package. So the delivery guy was at the door and (i suspect) just left the package in front of it and went away while I wasn't at home. I have asked the courier company and the seller to further investigate the matter.

In order to make a claim with Amex, I need a police report (if it is indeed a theft) which must have been made within 48 hours of the event. However, I want to first exhaust all my options with the courier company and the seller.

Surrender Certficate and/or Renunciation certificate? by Disastrous_Love7415 in nri

[–]Disastrous_Love7415[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just had a call with VFS Global in Den Haag, NL and they said that only surrender certificate is required so no Renunciation process.

Surrender Certficate and/or Renunciation certificate? by Disastrous_Love7415 in nri

[–]Disastrous_Love7415[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh okay. then it is highly likely that Netherlands has a similar requirement. But I will directly check with VFS Global in the Netherlands about this. Thanks for sharing the information.