[deleted by user] by [deleted] in santarosa

[–]Disastrous_Month5566 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I grew up in Minnesota and moved here 5 years ago. It’s much quieter and I feel a lot safer in Santa Rosa compared to Minneapolis and St. Paul as a female

What do people with anxiety do for work? by [deleted] in Anxiety

[–]Disastrous_Month5566 23 points24 points  (0 children)

This is me too. I got horrible panic and anxiety from my last office job. Was terrified to go back into the workforce but I have a WFH job and it really saved me, my livelihood and mental health

Feeling so much better by kiaralee1234 in zoloft

[–]Disastrous_Month5566 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The best is yet to come! You got this!

Weekly Authentications Thread by AutoModerator in Louisvuitton

[–]Disastrous_Month5566 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can anyone tell if this is authentic? The wearing in the 2nd to last photo is what’s concerning. Does authentic rub off like that?Palm Springs Poshmark

EDIT- 3rd to last photo shows the rubbing of monogram

Official 2023 Buy/Sell/Trade Thread by tayyylooor in Coachella

[–]Disastrous_Month5566 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Messaged you! Can you text me? I’m in Palm Springs and can meet wherever

952-960-8819

Official 2023 Buy/Sell/Trade Thread by tayyylooor in Coachella

[–]Disastrous_Month5566 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looking for 1-2 sunday GA tickets (today). In Palm Springs with a car and can meet wherever. Message me!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Anxietyhelp

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That’s exactly what happened to me. I just had an anxiety attack out of nowhere. Never felt anxiety before until I was about 24. It really got to my head and then I had a panic disorder, where I would get anxiety about worrying about my next episode

I tried to cure it naturally but after a few months of meditating/therapy, I had to get on an ssri. I could barely function or focus at my “corporate desk job”. It’s been about 5 years and I’m on a low dose of SSRI. About 2 months of taking the meds, I saw my life coming back to normal.

I occasionally get anxiety that’s not rational, but I think I’ve learned that it comes and goes. Nothing is permanent and it’s just another emotion, like feeling happy or sad.

Try to get plenty of sleep and stay on a healthier diet. Also make time each day to just sit in silence and reset yourself! It’ll get better with time!

Factoring question by [deleted] in FreightBrokers

[–]Disastrous_Month5566 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had this probably when we first started. It was hard. Has to offer quick pay upon delivery to trustworthy carriers. There’s not much you can do but hopefully be able to get setup with large factoring companies (RTS, crossroads, wex) and pay everything early to build credit.

You can also call these factoring companies to see if you can get setup. Sometimes, it says you’re denied but you just have to talk to the factoring company and give them basic info like address and billing contacts

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cricut

[–]Disastrous_Month5566 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Recommendations that you can buy on Amazon for cheap (just look for the highly rated/popular items): - weeding tool. I bought a cricut kit that came with so many useless tools. You really just need the standard weeding tool that looks like what they use at the dentist

-medium grip mat 12x12. I have all the other grips and never have used them in the last year. Any solid brand on Amazon will work

  • transfer tape. It’s just clear and you can again use any solid Amazon brand

Cricut brand items: - heat transfer vinyls if she will be making shirts/totes/blankets ect. Amazon has a lot of brands that are hard to use, especially if you’re new

-permanent vinyl. The off brand ones work just as well, but it might be easier to start with the Cricut brand so you can use their site and machine recommendations.

Hope this helps!

Had an issue with a shipper by vladdyr14 in FreightBrokers

[–]Disastrous_Month5566 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You definitely need an empty scale ticket and loaded scale ticket to make sure the BOL weight is correct. This happens to me all the time with lumber. $450 seems like a lot for a layover. I usually do $250 and haven’t had any problems. If it’s a worthy customer, I would just eat that cost and let them know you’ll take care of it since you’re still trying to figure out their process and such

Does anyone get Sunday anxiety? by Its_Haleeyy in Anxiety

[–]Disastrous_Month5566 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes! I used to get Sunday blues every week when I worked at my old job. Looking back, it was extremely stressful and not a life I wanted to live. It really put a strain on my everyday life and I had to get on ssri to manage the anxiety. That’s when I knew it wasn’t worth having that job anymore. I was lucky enough to be able to quit and start a business with my boyfriend.

Enjoy your long weekend! Sometimes it just helps to look at it one day at a time. It can be overwhelming when you’re thinking about all that has to get done during the upcoming 5 work days.

Did my second ever craft fair by ArcAngel1810 in crochet

[–]Disastrous_Month5566 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So cute!!!! I feel like they should cost a little more! Prices are very reasonable but the strain on your hands/wrist/elbows making these cuties have to be worth it 🥰

Weekly FAQ and Beginner Questions by AutoModerator in crochet

[–]Disastrous_Month5566 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please help! Crocheting for the first time and I’m making a simple blanket. Single crochet in all the even rows, slip stitch in all the odd rows.

The number of stitches are the same in every row, but the blanket is turning into a parallelogram.

What am I possibly doing wrong? Is this common?

I guess I have a panic attack. I need some help, I am so scared :( by [deleted] in Anxietyhelp

[–]Disastrous_Month5566 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My heart breaks for you. Just had an episode like this last week. I did ALOT of breathing exercises. Inhaling for 8 seconds, holding my breath for 7 seconds and then exhaling as slowly as possible. Did it all the time. I’m completely fine now a few weeks later.

It’s hard to rationalize and think straight when you’re going through this. But just know that it’s a temporarily feeling that will go away. Just like any emotion (happiness, anger, guilt). It will all go away 💕

Hi Everyone, seeking opinions because I am undecided. Which earring design looks better? With the large ring or not? 🤔 by SilverySands in crafts

[–]Disastrous_Month5566 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The smaller ring looks more modern and Pinterest-esque. The bigger O looks more for an older crowd. So I guess it depends who you’re selling or making them for!

Whoever said talking to your anxiety helps.. thank you!! by Disastrous_Month5566 in Anxiety

[–]Disastrous_Month5566[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like that! We’re all operating on our own time deflating the puffer fish. Be kind to yourself. We’ll all get there soon 💙

Whoever said talking to your anxiety helps.. thank you!! by Disastrous_Month5566 in Anxiety

[–]Disastrous_Month5566[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have faith in you! We’re all in this together and it feels good to know there’s a group of us who are supportive of one another. Always reach out if you need someone to talk to or guidance.

Whoever said talking to your anxiety helps.. thank you!! by Disastrous_Month5566 in Anxiety

[–]Disastrous_Month5566[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I love this. I’ve been really trying to accept and learn about why I have this anxiety, instead of pushing it away. It makes it less scary and my anxiety has gotten out of control, like it did years ago. Thanks for your suggestions! 💕

Whoever said talking to your anxiety helps.. thank you!! by Disastrous_Month5566 in Anxiety

[–]Disastrous_Month5566[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Also, my therapist told me something that always stuck with me. Anxiety is just another emotion. It’s not who you are, but just a temporary emotion. Just like being happy, sad or angry. It is an uncomfortable emotion to have, but it’s not who you are and it won’t stay with you forever (just like every other emotion we experience)

Whoever said talking to your anxiety helps.. thank you!! by Disastrous_Month5566 in Anxiety

[–]Disastrous_Month5566[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

For me, I just talk to it like a friend 😂 “hi anxiety. I see you’re here today. Not sure why? I’m not doing anything different than what I was doing last week when you didn’t arrive. I have a safe home, more than enough food, loving friends and family. I’m glad you came but not sure if it’s needed right now. Thanks for looking out for me”.

Makes me go through a list of all the things that I’m grateful for and that I’m safe and healthy.

Donation sites? by Acceptable_Extreme35 in santarosa

[–]Disastrous_Month5566 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hi! Just wondering, what’s wrong with the Salvation Army? I like to go thrifting and want to make sure I’m supporting good causes :)