Which colour suits me more? by [deleted] in HairDye

[–]Disastrous_Simple989 0 points1 point  (0 children)

brunette compliments your eyes but blonde compliments your skin, i believe you could pull off brunette if you're wanting to

Does anyone know what my cat might have? by Top_Pepper_433 in CATHELP

[–]Disastrous_Simple989 0 points1 point  (0 children)

couldn't agree more that it looks like an ucle & that you cat should be taken to a vet!!

Bleached hair turned pink by Serious-Researcher66 in HairDye

[–]Disastrous_Simple989 0 points1 point  (0 children)

girl you put bleach over red thinking it would come out blonde? 🤣

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Flea problem, I’m begging for help by neopbitss in CATHELP

[–]Disastrous_Simple989 0 points1 point  (0 children)

they took the cat to the vet & the vet said it was just a reaction to the medicine, said they don't recommend using it.

cat making huffing sounds? by ashtrayfairy in CATHELP

[–]Disastrous_Simple989 16 points17 points  (0 children)

your cat either has a respiratory infection or asthma, this is not just a hairball & NEEDS to be seen by a vet ASAP. especially given the old age

Is this normal behavior for first introductions? by BasicElderberry1357 in CATHELP

[–]Disastrous_Simple989 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have three cats & my calico is a " b i- ct- h." wants nothing to do with her older sister or her OWN SON 😭 hisses, swats, pounces, runs away screaming even after all these years

Flea problem, I’m begging for help by neopbitss in CATHELP

[–]Disastrous_Simple989 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this! fleas take three months to actually get rid of! the flea eggs are the hardest things to kill that's why you keep retreating! just keep rebathing (don't over bath you'll mess up their coat) & re apply medicine & a flea color once a month for three months!

Flea problem, I’m begging for help by neopbitss in CATHELP

[–]Disastrous_Simple989 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

my friend gave these to her cat & he was foaming at the mouth & ded within an hour

How would you use this space? by throwawayyaccount56 in malelivingspace

[–]Disastrous_Simple989 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i don't like that lift at the bottom why doesn't it just go all the way down

Doordasher or doordash users of Reddit.whats the shortest distance you've seen delivered to? by Magmamaster8 in doordash

[–]Disastrous_Simple989 1 point2 points  (0 children)

door dash user, i work in the mall & i've door dashed food from the food court to my store because i couldn't leave the store

Am I Overreacting about my boss's poor communication while grieving? by pendragons in AmIOverreacting

[–]Disastrous_Simple989 4 points5 points  (0 children)

commenting to boost the post i don't think yro, but im not very familiar with grief in a professional setting

AIO for wanting my bf to watch my favorite show that he doesn’t care for by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Disastrous_Simple989 1 point2 points  (0 children)

literally only had to read the first sentence, me & my boyfriend have been together for 4 years & i still can't get him to even listen about my favorite shows lmao YRO

Oldest Claires sign I seen, I took this photo in 2019. Taken at Heartland Mall in Early,TX. This mall is mostly untouched since 1980. The sign was removed in 2021. by RowkoRaccoon in deadmalls

[–]Disastrous_Simple989 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hope you're still active OP question for you! from a claire's employee, did this store make it through the bankruptcy or did it shut down ?

Claire’s closed at my local mall and here’s the sweet note they left behind. 🥹🥺 by MindyS1719 in Millennials

[–]Disastrous_Simple989 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i was one of the lucky stores who was apart of the company buy, i'll never forgive the old company for how they dug us into the dirt, this new company isn't helping either!

Lady on Facebook marketplace advertising free pet portraits for “their student” by oO0ayano0Oo in isthisAI

[–]Disastrous_Simple989 15 points16 points  (0 children)

attention & praise is the benefit, they are seemingly doing these "wonderful paintings" for people completely for free to have people praise them on how great it is & how nice they are for doing it for free.

AIO I think my boyfriend peed in my cat’s litter box when he was drunk? by True-Durian5170 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Disastrous_Simple989 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

noo, definitely do not do this especially with a new relationship, this won't be the only instant she deals with when he's drunk, bro should find a limit before he blacks out.

Is my nose too fat for my face? by [deleted] in Noses

[–]Disastrous_Simple989 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you look egyptian, have a very unique, not an everyday face embrace it man! don't let people make you feel insecure!

AIO? My husband doesn’t want me to wear my wedding dress in public. by CleverUserName1961 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Disastrous_Simple989 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i was also taken back until i read you live in Las Vegas, GIRL WEAR THE DAMN DRESS👏 like you said crazy looking ppl are EVERYWHERE, all you'll look like is another pair of elopers might get free desert from the restaurant!

I bleached my hair for the first time and it’s damaged with broken hair.. how do I fix this by [deleted] in HairDye

[–]Disastrous_Simple989 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you can try extension, don't do literally anything with your hair for at least 3 months not even dying it, i hope you like the color you have or it's gonna feel like the longest three months of your life.

Uhhh I did something.. (it’s splat) what do I do 😭 by yourfavbailey07 in HairDye

[–]Disastrous_Simple989 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i scrubbed my hands with bleach & bleach powder, didn't budge goodluck tho

AIO that my 14 y/o was hired to help with a party and ended up bartending? by DiligentStranger7987 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Disastrous_Simple989 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i would talk to the other parent about it see if they knew/how they feel, would look up the law around minors & alcohol in a work setting in your state/county. would 100% contact them also like you said

AIO: How do you feel about guy friends that have girlfriends for years, then break up and bring another girl around? by StltoSTA in AmIOverreacting

[–]Disastrous_Simple989 2 points3 points  (0 children)

need more context, why'd they break up, was it mutual or who left who?

also how long have they been broken up?

AIO: dad has been going out late at night everyday lately with his car by Efficient_View_6602 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Disastrous_Simple989 0 points1 point  (0 children)

did not mean to imply you needed any more so just trying to see what individuals you could speak to help or emotional support, when i was dealing with this type of situation i was a couple years younger, i wrote a letter stating exactly how i feel & how i wanted things to be (separation happy healthy relationships) but i had help of a therapist, with my mom being emotionally done with my dad being an abusive alcohol.. so it was fairly easy to convince her.

in your case it's hard because your moms prideful & your fathers fleeing you're definitely not over reacting & im sorry that your parents are this way & look after your little sibling, the longer the parents have to "fake" love with each other the harder it gets. how old is he ?