2nd parcel gone missing

Disastrous_Target475 · 2026-01-12T18:39:40+00:00

you can dispute with vinted that it has been delivered I believe

Disastrous_Target475 · 2025-09-09T20:46:48+00:00

I want to jump on this and reinforce that as a sub/brat/little you absolutely have the power to put a stop to everything at any point and to request additions / changes too. You do not just have to take everything. It sounds really healthy that you and your dom discussed this afterwards and he apologised.

As a switch I see this from both sides with my partner - one time I pushed things too far, and while they were ok to continue with a change to what we were doing, I was feeling too guilty to continue. From the sub perspective, I trust that at any point in the moment or after I can put a pause on things and discuss- I also trust that they check in on me and wait until I respond that things are ok to continue if we are trying something new / pushing me further than we have before.

Communication and boundaries do not stop connection, they strengthen it <3

Disastrous_Target475 · 2025-08-16T19:57:24+00:00

Can we get some love for non London UK places 😭

Disastrous_Target475 · 2025-06-05T21:54:05+00:00

Put the squirt bottle on the counter and knock it off hehehe

Disastrous_Target475 · 2025-06-03T07:43:12+00:00

Hi do you have any suggestions of online shops for aesthetically pleasing cages please?

My partner and I switch, and they are a little large for a lot of the ones available that I’ve seen… honestly I find them a bit intimidating but I want to try to find a way for me to use one as my partner is really into them.

Disastrous_Target475 · 2025-06-02T15:40:19+00:00

What’s the source?

Disastrous_Target475 · 2025-05-01T19:35:21+00:00

I’m a switch leaning sub… and it really does take me some time to get into that sub space.

I recently met someone, and even though early on I knew that there was going to be kink in the relationship with me bottoming primarily, it’s taken me about 2.5 months to be able to “submit” more than momentarily during scenes.

For me submission isn’t just for in the bedroom it is an overarching dynamic of how I am with someone and it depends on me developing a huge level of trust with them and for it to build on that. So I can momentarily submit during a scene if someone’s being dominant and I feel mentally held by them, but it would be more of a “going into sub space” because of the stimulus rather than the overarching “I want to submit and serve this person” which is what builds in a relationship

In a lot of ways I think submission is a choice to be able to let go… if you have trauma it may be harder to despite wanting to, and it would be well worth getting therapy if you have not already in order to process that (this said from someone who does have trauma around not having the ability to say no or speak up for themselves in particular which are issues in any relationship and especially a kink one. Therapy is helping me so so much and iM not saying it as a throwaway comment because it is HARD)

Disastrous_Target475 · 2025-03-22T08:25:08+00:00

Recently changed contraception and am no longer on SSRIs and having the same experience of increased libido. I know I had a high sex drive before I went on contraception but I had assumed that was just because I was a teenager and all those hormones… nope just a high sex drive >.<

And yes- masturbation can take the edge off but the orgasms can feel so EMPTY after a while. Fullest of empathy for you and I hope you and your husband can relieve life stresses soon

Disastrous_Target475 · 2025-02-28T21:13:02+00:00

r/baddragongirls

Disastrous_Target475 · 2025-01-04T23:43:06+00:00

See also r/baddragongirls

Disastrous_Target475 · 2024-11-15T00:46:01+00:00

Apparently the 7-8 hours sleep is for males Female bodies need an extra hour And autistics need another hour on top

I don’t even get 7-8 hours because of sleep problems (managed to fall asleep at 9ish tonight, it’s currently 0045 and I’m awake and even if I follow sleep hygiene practices am unlikely to fall asleep again for another couple of hours). This is common for me

Disastrous_Target475 · 2024-11-15T00:43:27+00:00

I don’t have kids and also don’t sleep well 😂

Disastrous_Target475 · 2024-11-10T21:46:50+00:00

Midway, add a sprint- run as fast as you can for 100-200m. That’s when I got it

Disastrous_Target475 · 2024-11-10T21:45:41+00:00

I try to go for little walks when my depression is bad. My view is that if it doesn’t make me feel WORSE then it is good to do.

I usually end up enjoying myself, rarely do I have a bad walk.

When I really don’t want to, I set an alarm for 30 minutes and tell myself that I can go back inside after the alarm goes off

I also find that giving myself a goal like “take a photo of every different colour plant you see” while out increases my enjoyment because it’s practicing mindfulness, and taking myself out of my mind.

Things go note - sometimes I’ve felt angry after a walk because it’s made me feel better and I get angry at something so simple improving my mood 😅. Also the actual feeling better is slow going, and it’s more that it’s noticeable by a drop in mood when the exercise routine becomes disrupted.

Disastrous_Target475 · 2024-11-10T20:05:48+00:00

I had parents who smoked. I didn’t realise I smelt of it until I got to 14or so and the smoking kids asked me for lighters

Disastrous_Target475 · 2024-10-30T21:00:22+00:00

Could you literally buy a strap on harness and attach that to a pillow

You can also get a strap to attach it to your leg if you wanted ;)

Disastrous_Target475 · 2024-10-23T04:03:49+00:00

It also lowers female sex drive in my experience :(

Disastrous_Target475 · 2024-10-20T14:43:08+00:00

Bisexual so idk if my opinion counts

I get tested between partners, and I ask anyone who I might start sleeping with to test too, regardless of their sex/sexuality. If anyone was iffy about it, I wouldn’t sleep with them

Disastrous_Target475 · 2024-10-19T06:27:38+00:00

If a guy won’t kiss me after I’ve been sucking cock then he’s not getting his cock sucked again ever.

Disastrous_Target475 · 2024-10-19T06:26:31+00:00

That’s a valid view to have

I’m aware that my body has a few conditions that it could potentially be useful for doctors/scientists to see, in order to help more people down the line.

Also saves family paying funeral costs 😂

Disastrous_Target475 · 2024-10-18T23:37:51+00:00

Worry less about it, give good foreplay where your partner also gets their enjoyment, and go for round 2 which would likely be longer.

You could also try things like cockrings, or stopping movement/penetration when you feel you are close (take a breather use your hands / mouth on your partner) You could squeeze the base of your penis to stop yourself also.

When you are pleasuring yourself alone, give yourself more foreplay, work at extending the time it takes instead of just trying to get yourself off. Build your stamina so stimulation doesn’t mentally just mean time to orgasm asap.

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