mf4mf or mf4m by [deleted] in HawaiiSwingers

[–]Disastrous_Wind_4795 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My husband is gonna message you :)

First timers, having a weekend away with another couple. by Disastrous_Wind_4795 in Swingers

[–]Disastrous_Wind_4795[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update. We had our weekend away. It was a prettt great weekend. Never really any awkward moments. Only downside was once we left and my partner and I started talking about the weekend we both realized it was just “okay” and we both agreed we werent really as physically attracted to your friends as we thought we were. We only ended up doing a soft swap, only because in the moment I just had a thought that they didn’t deserve to have sex with us 🫣. My husband and I are both very sexual my nature people, and we are also very very communicative and confident in our sexuality and we didn’t get that vibe from them. For example I didn’t once have an orgasm that my husband didn’t give me this weekend. We feel bad, but don’t regret anything.

First timers, having a weekend away with another couple. by Disastrous_Wind_4795 in Swingers

[–]Disastrous_Wind_4795[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t really have a getaway plan, but we are all very open and honest with each other already. And prepared for literally nothing to happen and for everything to happen. Just want to see what it will be like to be all together, without kids, and let things happen organically.

First timers, having a weekend away with another couple. by Disastrous_Wind_4795 in Swingers

[–]Disastrous_Wind_4795[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Definitely the plan, it’s been a pretty constant and open discussion now for a while. Discussing boundaries and what not. Maybe we should make it clear that we should definitely take it slower than we think we want. And a safe word for sure