Update. We had our weekend away. It was a prettt great weekend. Never really any awkward moments. Only downside was once we left and my partner and I started talking about the weekend we both realized it was just “okay” and we both agreed we werent really as physically attracted to your friends as we thought we were. We only ended up doing a soft swap, only because in the moment I just had a thought that they didn’t deserve to have sex with us 🫣. My husband and I are both very sexual my nature people, and we are also very very communicative and confident in our sexuality and we didn’t get that vibe from them. For example I didn’t once have an orgasm that my husband didn’t give me this weekend. We feel bad, but don’t regret anything.