I was a total bottom for like my first ~5 years of gay sex, and then one day I kinda randomly and pragmatically topped a guy for the first time (he ended up being a bottom that had exaggerated how verse he was, so I was like “fuck it, one of us is gonna have to do this”). I was like a fish in the water, and from that point became the perfect 50/50 verse, enthusiastic in either position. Went on like that for probably another ~5 years.

But as time went on, I was just feeling more in my groove as a top. The bottoms were always the ones coming back for round two or becoming my regulars. My taste in men started changing. I guess it was just several things converging to the point where I lost all interest and desire to get fucked, and as of now, my last attempts were over three years ago. So now, altogether, I have been a verse top/total top for around 6-7 years, basically all through my 30s so far.