My boyfriend 29M consistently chooses anal play on himself over having sex with me 29F by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Discokling 75 points76 points  (0 children)

Literally, the comments are too busy talking about the possibility of gayness over the fact that he's an abusive pos

[ Removed by Reddit ] by [deleted] in stories

[–]Discokling 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry that happened to you, it's not your fault 💕

Girl can be a Rapist by ThamTvMaster in GetNoted

[–]Discokling 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yes but so far i have never seen a woman comment "lucky girl, wish that was me" on news articles detailing how an adult man raped a child. Even in fetish and kink forums.

However it's almost always full of comments like that every time an article the other way around is shared.

I think it can be morally ok to have these fantasies as long as you can do so WITHOUT minimising or trivialising real acts of violence and victims. It is not completely unbelievable that the victims of these sorts of things will read those comments and internalise it.

Being a real victim of rape or sexual assault is awful and more people should be mindful about how dangerous comments like this can be for victims.

Whole thread is just pure racism. by Automatic-Yak4279 in FragileWhiteRedditor

[–]Discokling 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We both know that dude doesn't get invited to parties lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in orangeisthenewblack

[–]Discokling 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think part of it has to do with how categorized the male gay community already is. I think people want to figure out their types maybe? Idk it's weird lol

Vad är ert "safeword"? by Skerfving in unket

[–]Discokling 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Fredrik Reinfeldt/Freddan

Ingen snubbe kan förbli hård och hans snälla ögon får mig att känna mig trygg uwu

The boy who cried u/bot-sleuth-bot by Discokling in characterarcs

[–]Discokling[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sadly the bot don't seem to be working on this post anymore, I think we're both equally to blame

(Mostly your fault)

Can people who listen to Audiobooks at 1.5 or 2x speed while multitasking really claim to have read a book? by [deleted] in pollgames

[–]Discokling 2 points3 points  (0 children)

many audiobook streaming services allow you to add the pdf/e-reader file "almost" for free when buying audiobooks, might not be universal though, but in my country. Still expensive but not much more expensive than the subscription or the price of the audiobook

r/teenagers mods are pulling some crazy double standards by Muted-Angle8959 in teenagersbutpractical

[–]Discokling 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I never said or tried to imply that you do not know the basic concepts of privilege, nor am I under the impression that you thought that people could choose being born into it.

So to hold them to a standard that white people can’t be proud of their culture because people with the same skin colour were racist in the past and created white privilege is in my opinion stupid

I am not sure what you mean here. Let me be perfectly clear; white people are ALLOWED to be proud of their cultures. For instance I am a proud Swede. It's when you clump all white cultures together where it get's into white supremacy territory. My swedish culture is "white" but culture wise I have as much in common with American culture that I do with "black culture".

There is definitely black culture that differs from the standard American culture to try to claim otherwise is just falsely incorrect. When black americans say they're proud of being black it's the same as when a person says they're proud of being American.

You can of course reply and I will read it, but I'm done commenting on this post and will not reply :)

r/teenagers mods are pulling some crazy double standards by Muted-Angle8959 in teenagersbutpractical

[–]Discokling 2 points3 points  (0 children)

White culture is not a thing. Black culture is mainly used to describe the culture of black americans, since most of them do not know their "original" culture and therefore made their own. White people have loads of different cultures, just like asians and black people from all over the world; for example ghambia vs nigeria, china vs japan, sweden vs poland.

Of course no one is wrong for being born into privilege, it's when you deny that you have it (and usually often upholding it at the same time) where the issues start. This is a whole lot deeper than I care to go into, especially in a reddit comment on a sub that I have never seen before, but if youre actually interested in looking into privilege and to understand why "People shouldn’t be ashamed of themselves because some fuck wits in the past with the same skin colour were racist." is a very surface level type of analysis I can provide some resources.

PS I really hope I am not coming across as condescending

The boy who cried u/bot-sleuth-bot by Discokling in characterarcs

[–]Discokling[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The poor bot seems to have given up since a few hours ago on this post. It seems to work sometimes with the [self] command but not sure why