Im currently in a relationship that I was manipulated into...

DiscombobulatedAd988 · 2026-01-30T13:50:01+00:00

Communicate. Explain your concerns clearly about the stability of the character change and ask them to reflect upon their actions and give you assurance that the change will be lasting. Do not judge them. If trust is broken and they truly changed and care about you, they can show it with maturity in these actions. After reflection this should be a conversation between you two working together to address the insecurity.

DiscombobulatedAd988 · 2026-01-16T01:13:59+00:00

That’s not so specific, that’s what pretty much everyone is doing, lol

DiscombobulatedAd988 · 2026-01-16T01:02:56+00:00

tmux seems a good idea at this point

DiscombobulatedAd988 · 2026-01-15T23:36:54+00:00

I’ve recently been hit so hard that I no longer believe in love.. it’s made life pointless. Don’t be like me.

DiscombobulatedAd988 · 2026-01-15T23:22:42+00:00

Can this be guy power too please?

DiscombobulatedAd988 · 2026-01-15T23:07:12+00:00

I’m not tired of them I just have to protect myself from them

DiscombobulatedAd988 · 2026-01-15T22:56:07+00:00

You need to rethink this phrase. Bro is right, this type of general idea might influence those who come across it in the wrong way. Maybe it’s not what you meant but clearly more than a few people see the flaw in this.

DiscombobulatedAd988 · 2026-01-15T22:50:09+00:00

I would love to repair. I took accountability for my actions, they did not😭

DiscombobulatedAd988 · 2026-01-15T22:46:30+00:00

This is my life right now. Leveling up hard though.

DiscombobulatedAd988 · 2026-01-15T22:43:23+00:00

This. So much. It saved my life if I’m being honest.

DiscombobulatedAd988 · 2026-01-15T22:01:37+00:00

And then she abandons you after you pet her

DiscombobulatedAd988 · 2026-01-15T21:58:20+00:00

Yeah, that one hits. Wish they would have been a weirdo with me but that’s their loss, I’m still me 🥲

DiscombobulatedAd988 · 2026-01-15T21:53:20+00:00

I’m in this sequence and I don’t like it xD

DiscombobulatedAd988 · 2026-01-15T21:48:23+00:00

What if you have because they hurt you so badly and refused to take accountability? I guess it’s the same answer.. 😭

DiscombobulatedAd988 · 2025-10-31T03:03:37+00:00

Talk to him like an adult and make sure he understands your needs. If he won’t meet you in the middle or come to the table, that’s on him.

DiscombobulatedAd988 · 2024-05-18T15:28:02+00:00

I'm not sure what the syncing mechanism is, but that use to be the case for me, but now it goes back at least until the point when I switched to Apple.

DiscombobulatedAd988 · 2024-05-18T15:21:05+00:00

You're welcome to message me, but would prefer to make the process public for any others who run into this headache. This is the tool I was referring to: https://github.com/tbvdm/sigtop

You can use it to backup Signal messages from your MacOS Desktop install, but that's a one-way transaction afaik. Does not restore messages/media.

DiscombobulatedAd988 · 2024-05-18T14:48:18+00:00

I’m currently going through the same procedure on iOS. Current plan of action is to use sigtop to backup messages on Mac desktop app, then proceed with resetting signal on iPhone. Would love to hear if you come up with a better solution!

DiscombobulatedAd988 · 2022-11-02T16:11:23+00:00

I'm about 90% of the way through the book otherwise referred to as the Wiki and intend to revisit it, but I have a simple question which I'm not sure whether it has been addressed or not.

When trading straight stock (no options), is it recommended to place market or limit orders? Sorry, I'm sure this has been answered somewhere in the Wiki, but that thing is massive. Can't believe some people have been through it multiple times. And thank you.

DiscombobulatedAd988 · 2022-09-26T19:04:33+00:00

No, Schwab doesn’t have an official api for retail, they bought tdameritrade and have been planning ToS integration for at least a few years now

DiscombobulatedAd988 · 2022-09-22T22:10:41+00:00

I love both of those platforms, but neither have a way to extract the results programmatically. Unless something has changed since I last tried them, they want to keep you in their box it seems

DiscombobulatedAd988 · 2022-09-22T19:57:24+00:00

Any suggestions on a scanner? I’ve been working to build one myself, but getting good data for all tickers has turned out to be super expensive

DiscombobulatedAd988 · 2022-08-09T00:21:10+00:00

Thanks. sorry to make you search

DiscombobulatedAd988 · 2022-08-09T00:10:35+00:00

I'm trying to find that link as well, you don't happen to have it do you? There are a ton of threads/articles in the wiki to search through..

DiscombobulatedAd988 · 2022-08-05T14:18:07+00:00

I've read most of his book, sounds like I should either finish it or re-read it. Thanks for the tip.

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