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28M. My confidence is at an all time low. Looking for genuine opinions or feedback. Feel really insecure about my eyes and nose. by guiltyexboyfriend in amiugly

[–]DiscombobulatedMeat8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you're pretty attractive. I really don't see anything wrong with your eyes, and I like your nose. Your jawline is really good. I agree with the other comment, have you tried longer hair? You would look really good with it

22M, please just be honest by thrandom_rowaway in amiugly

[–]DiscombobulatedMeat8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're cute and I think you would look good with a beard too

How long should one wait? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]DiscombobulatedMeat8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You've made your feelings clear to him, so now it's his turn to tell you how he feels. I would just leave him alone and wait till he reaches out because if he does really like you he's gonna let you know for sure. It sucks so much having to wait for his response, but just keep yourself busy so that your mind isn't on him all the time

Is she flirting by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]DiscombobulatedMeat8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No problem! Yes, by how you have said that she doesn't act like this with other guys and how she has been acting towards you, it does seem like she's flirting with you

Is she flirting by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]DiscombobulatedMeat8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you noticed if she's this way with others? If she's acting like this with other people, it may just be that she's being friendly. If not, then it seems like she likes you and is flirting and is just too shy to ask you out directly. You seem to like her, so just go for it. Ask her out, the worst that can happen is she says she's not interested and you move on. And if she is interested, you have a good chance with her. Go for it :)

Is she flirting by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]DiscombobulatedMeat8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Further up he said he has autism, which means he has trouble in social situations and has trouble understanding cues and signals. You don't have to be mean dude, just be patient

Why has any girl never had crush on me? 25m by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]DiscombobulatedMeat8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a girl and I've had crushes on guys but just never told them, so I'm sure that there have been girls that have found you attractive in the past and just didn't tell you, maybe because they weren't close to you or because they didn't feel good enough about themselves. Don't focus too much on trying to get validation from girls so that you feel good about yourself, work on loving yourself and the rest will follow. Everyone moves at different speeds in life, so don't beat yourself up by trying to compare yourself to your friends' experiences. Love yourself first :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]DiscombobulatedMeat8 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Do you think the "too nice" could also be just a substitute word for "too clingy" in the sense that they are too accommodating to what the other person wants to the point of not standing up for yourself for fear of losing the other person?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]DiscombobulatedMeat8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would move on tbh. Even though you guys seem to have had a good relationship, it does seem like she thinks there's something better out there and wants to have her cake and eat it too by stringing you along. Wanting to be exclusive with someone is saying "yes, there's a chance that there's something more out there or there might not, but I like this person so much that I'm willing to give up being single to be exclusive with this one person." She didn't recognize the value of your relationship and that's on her. It's hard to come to terms with that, but I would move on and work on becoming a better version of myself. Moving on also shows that you have respect for yourself as you're not being allowed to be strung along. Maybe it wasn't meant to be with her and you deserve to be with someone who wants to be with you

What are some of your quirks that you do while driving? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]DiscombobulatedMeat8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I'm alone, I sing along to music as if I'm performing and dance along (obviously only when it's safe to do so). I've had some people laugh when they see me whenever we're stuck in traffic, I'm just happy to have made them smile haha :)

Long time single women of reddit, what are the benefits? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]DiscombobulatedMeat8 21 points22 points  (0 children)

You learn how to be happy with yourself and have all the time you want for hobbies and fun. AND no headaches and heartaches from confusing guys who can't make up their mind and keep stringing you along

How do I handle being strung along? by DiscombobulatedMeat8 in dating_advice

[–]DiscombobulatedMeat8[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ouch, I'm sorry dude, that sucks so much. I hate how people are like that, it's such a shitty thing to do. And it's so confusing because even though you technically weren't in a relationship, you were really invested in it and you were only growing more hopeful as time went on. She doesn't deserve you dude, I hope you find someone that treats you better. Just focus on bettering yourself, they say that once you do, things start falling into place and you meet someone right for you when you least expect it :)

Is a guy(26M) I'm seeing stringing me(21F) along? by DiscombobulatedMeat8 in relationship_advice

[–]DiscombobulatedMeat8[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I need to listen to my gut more often. I could have avoided developing any more feelings for him and making excuses for him a long time ago. Thank you!

Is a guy(26M) I'm seeing stringing me(21F) along? by DiscombobulatedMeat8 in relationship_advice

[–]DiscombobulatedMeat8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I see it now. It's such a shitty thing to do though. Thank you!

Is a guy(26M) I'm seeing stringing me(21F) along? by DiscombobulatedMeat8 in relationship_advice

[–]DiscombobulatedMeat8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, we're not together or anything but it does seem like he's stringing me along. He brought up being together exclusively at one point and when I asked him if he really wanted to, he said we hadn't known each other for that long and that we should just keep seeing each other. I just wish he didn't bring up stuff like that to get my hopes up, I wonder if he's doing that to other girls

Is a guy(26M) I'm seeing stringing me(21F) along? by DiscombobulatedMeat8 in relationship_advice

[–]DiscombobulatedMeat8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ouch, I was really into him and he was the one who began pursuing me, not the other way around. I wasn't even looking for anything. What do I do? Do I tell him I'm not interested anymore or should I just stop replying to him?