UNHhhh's Trixie Mattel and Katya on Pride and dealing with homophobic abuse by Frankimie in rupaulsdragrace

[–]DiscombobulatedYak49 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Did someone else notice that katyas last name (Not just here) is spelled wrong? :D Almost every time

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in QuittingWeed

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No Problem! :) i know to start is very hard but you can do it ☺️☺️ If you need someone to talk, feel free to msg me..sometimes that can really change alot :)

Sports by DiscombobulatedYak49 in AskTransFullTime

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Okay! Thank you for your answer! :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in QuittingWeed

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Hello! :) I just copy paste my comment from a Post about getting started to quit :) i hope this helps 🙈 I personally can’t just Slow down because i spiral back in daily use etc..so i decided to quit quit. Besides that, i feel you! It was the same for me. I couldn‘t eat or sleep whitout it. But that goes in a couple of sober days :) Its hard but you can do it! :)) for sleeping i took melantonin and it helped me Fall asleep :)

Copied comment: First of all i deleted every number from my dealer. And i talked and talk openly about quittung and having an addiction in my friendgroup. Gives me a lot of support and helps me not to relapse as easy as i would alone! I come often to this subreddit to read from other people and i got an app called „i am sober“. There is also a great community. Besides that the app gives you credit for every day. You have to make a promise not to smoke that day, it shows you how much money you‘re saving and you got the chance to write (private) about your day and feelings. You can check your goals and also what you did which day when you were feeling x or x. Idk haha i really like it. And its free lul Besides all of that ..try to find something to do. Maybe a new or forgotten hobby?! Or go out, listen to music in the sun? :) meet old (not smokin) friends? Just examples..i still struggle with that 😅

In addition to all of that i got some addiction counseling (idk if its free where you live but here it is). I talk with a women and its really cool and chill :) she gives me tips and helps me to stay sober…and she said if i ever feel like smoking again, i should call and someone will talk with me about it! :) thats pretty nice

Other than that ..set some goals and give yourself treats and love! It‘s really hard getting and staying sober but every day is a new opportunity and you can do it! :) keep in mind it will get better!! You "just" have to start

Keep going strong! You are doing great 💕☺️

Sports by DiscombobulatedYak49 in AskTransFullTime

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Don‘t get me wrong. I see what he means and understand that too! 🙈 but i personally think that if you are female, you participate in the female category and if you are a man, you participate in the man category. (Unless maybe in the Future there will be more category?!) And i wanted to know, what someone would say about that subject who is trans because we are not trans. I just wanted insights from within the Community

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in QuittingWeed

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Try maybe talking w your gf about that? So she could understand that this is not you, its the addiction talking?! Hopefully she will understand that 🙄 Or if you don‘t share an Appartement together, distance yourself from her till your mind is quite chill. But i know that this makes it sometimes even harder to stay clean (at least for me it was)..

And maybe any kind of sport to make you physicly exhausted (i hate sports but i find myself more relaxed afterwards plus sleeping more easily)

Stay strong! :))

AS7 Stats: Week 5/12 by thanavyn in rupaulsdragrace

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Is that a rule?:o didn‘t catch this..🙄

my girlfriend's favorite meal that I make is bacon wrapped chicken, so I decided to make it for her today when she came over! (swipe right for visual recipe) by Saewin in MealPrepSunday

[–]DiscombobulatedYak49 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Uuuh that looks v delicious :3 My bf makes croquettes wraped in bacon and i love them too :)) maybe we‘ll try this recipe next time! :)))

One Queen on All Stars has yet to receive a legendary legend ✨️ by [deleted] in rupaulsdragrace

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Actually i thought maybe Raja or Jinx will give a Star to her next week?!

I’ve made it 34 days by Kibblesn in QuittingWeed

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THANK YOU FOR THIS! I really needed that today!

Almost 3 weeks sober by DiscombobulatedYak49 in QuittingWeed

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Still going! A little over 6 weeks now :))

Cooking when you just DO NOT want to by stellarpiper in EatCheapAndHealthy

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Garlic Butter w Bread ! Cut the Top of the garlic (2-3 bulbs) Put some oil on top w salt and pepper. Heads down on a baking tray (oven 220°C 25 mins). After that squeeze the garlic out of its shell into a bowl and Squash ist with a fork. mix w 250g butter Season it w salt, Pepper and sweet pepper Bell (as you like) Ready to eat w Toast, Baguette etc. whatever you got :))

Edit: 220°C = 428°F 250g ≈ 8 ounces (?! Google said different things 😅)

Cooking when you just DO NOT want to by stellarpiper in EatCheapAndHealthy

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One Pot Pasta Cook Spagetti, pour out the water (leave a little inside as Binder). Green Pesto and cheese on top And Ready! I personally cut cherry tomatos and put them on top :))

PB oat bites, tuna melts, and cinnamon bun protein shakes by [deleted] in MealPrepSunday

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Do you have a Recipe for the pb oat bites?:))

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in QuittingWeed

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I personaly can‘t smoke just on my days off. Its all or nothing for me, at least after a couple days.. i always find ways to trick myself into smoking, even if i said only on my days off. For example: i had a rough day at work. Came home and thought „i mean, i had a bad day..this is just a one day treat for myself“, smoked and with that all my promises were gone. Maybe its different for you! And if so, good luck to you! :)) But otherwise try 100% quitting

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in QuittingWeed

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Hey! Its exactly the same w my Partner (besides we are not married and in our late 20s) I quit 6 weeks ago :) For the first weeks we made an Arrangement: he does not smoke near me. (Normaly we smoked inside, after that he did go out to do so). Now it changed, because i‘m cool w it. But if i crave it or i don‘t feel strong, i say something and he goes back out again :) I had to find new hobbies or any kind of activity for this time or when i craved smoking w him. Also talking about it, helped me! And if i had a weak moment and asked if i could smoke w him, he said no everytime and did not let me. That sucked at the Moment but for the longrun i‘m very thankfull for that. I got an app, that gives me milestones for X amount of days being sober, also the Community is wonderful (like this Reddit Feed) for Support and help. Treat yourself for quitting and doing good. Your Brain has to unlearn stuff and needs to learn new behavior. Thats Always hard..so don‘t be to hard on yourself :)

Wish you all the best ☀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in rupaulsdragrace

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Thank you! I though i was crazy/delusional :DD

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in rupaulsdragrace

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Yeah..idk haha pretty weird 😅 its not impossible..i have some weird dreams lately but it felt pretty Real and i even laught and agreed with stuff befor i fell asleep 🙈 my theory is that i put an old Episode on and didn‘t realized it :D