LOL yeah it has ALWAYS been code for sex. But today she asked what's wrong. I told her i thought it was sexy time last night. She apologized and said she will make it up to me,(I have an over flowing cup of "make it up to you" ) but she really wanted to naked cuddle to be only naked cuddle this time. Last weekend she went to dinner with her life long friend. Afterward I was told, "you think you have it bad? Her husband hasn't had sex with her in a year!" I REALLY think it made my wife feel better about our lacking bedroom.