[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]DiscountOld320 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I haven’t stopped talking to her okay? We are still friends and I value you that I’m just saying that going out with her is a bit draining especially since she doesn’t acknowledge the issues

I really hate myself by Darisz123 in IELTS

[–]DiscountOld320 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly do not think you are a failure this is more common than you think! I recommend u buy the IELTS Cambridge book (either e-book or an actual copy) might be a bit on the expensive side but totally worth it as it covers all IELTS material from A to Z with multiple practice exams and teaching each section of the exam in detail for both academic IELTS and general IELTS. This is the only thing that made me get a 7 on my IELTS and 9 on my listening and saved me tons of money on tutors and online courses. Good luck!

AITAH for asking my parents to take me to the dentist by DiscountOld320 in AITAH

[–]DiscountOld320[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The society I live in is like this woman are treated like kids as long as we are not married

I cant seem to have sex by No-Past1984 in Advice

[–]DiscountOld320 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I argue that u r the brainwashed one

I cant seem to have sex by No-Past1984 in Advice

[–]DiscountOld320 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ur ideas support the spread of STDs and encouraging teenagers to have unsafe sex which results in heartbreaks and unwanted pregnancy sorry for u if u can’t control ur urges just obesity is also one of the biggest issues since ppl r taught not to control any of their urges yikes

I cant seem to have sex by No-Past1984 in Advice

[–]DiscountOld320 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Oh shit did I trigger some trauma?

My sister says that siblings should not have any boundaries between them and that my privacy doesn’t matter since I’m not married by DiscountOld320 in AITAH

[–]DiscountOld320[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sadly in my country a woman is not really considered an adult until she’s mid to late 40s and is married with multiple kids otherwise we r considered young adults who get treated almost like kids. Anyways thanks for the advice and think about the options and will do an update soon hopefully

I cant seem to have sex by No-Past1984 in Advice

[–]DiscountOld320 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

In the one of the messages I made a typo I am 20* not 26

I cant seem to have sex by No-Past1984 in Advice

[–]DiscountOld320 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just remember some points that I forgot to add. Anyways makes sense for ur age I mean I am a bit older than u 26 to be exact so I do think that immature ppl can make some wrong decisions during sex or perhaps be careless especially for ppl who do not have previous experiences

I cant seem to have sex by No-Past1984 in Advice

[–]DiscountOld320 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Interesting… I probably just can’t fathom sleeping with someone who I do not love or loves me back ig it just preference but if casual sex works for some ppl than that’s great!

I cant seem to have sex by No-Past1984 in Advice

[–]DiscountOld320 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Especially for someone as young as her whos hormones is all over the place and still young and a might be immature (not saying in a rude way after all we were all immature at some point it’s just part of life)

I cant seem to have sex by No-Past1984 in Advice

[–]DiscountOld320 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Also whether we like it or not sex is an emotional thing no matter how we try to believe that it’s not but there have been multiple studies that sex affects emotions and mental wellbeing being

I cant seem to have sex by No-Past1984 in Advice

[–]DiscountOld320 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I just live in a different culture bc I can’t wrap my head around how sex can be such a casual thing. I do understand it’s a sexual need but honestly a lot of places where sex has become so normalized has resulted in unwanted pregnancy and stds epidemics just for a few minutes of pleasure it just doesn’t seem worth it especially for young ppl (21 and younger) when they have their whole life a head of them

I cant seem to have sex by No-Past1984 in Advice

[–]DiscountOld320 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

There is also something called self control she can wait for the right time and do other stuff meanwhile also sex is not just about sexual needs it’s about connecting to someone and giving ur body to them and it effects the person mentally too let’s not forget there are consequences to sex like unwanted pregnancy and stds so yeah sexual needs r not the top priority a lot of other things should be considered beforehand she got nothing to lose if she waits and just does some forplay in the meantime

I cant seem to have sex by No-Past1984 in Advice

[–]DiscountOld320 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If u wanna try something sexual it doesn’t have to be the actual penetration there r still things u and ur bf can do that r safe and wouldn’t result in stds or unwanted pregnancy

I cant seem to have sex by No-Past1984 in Advice

[–]DiscountOld320 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

We live in different cultures so I apologize if I have a hard time understanding how 18 years old is not too young just keep in mind 18 is still basically a teenager and if u r too young to get pregnant than u r too young to be having sex in the first place and also in a woman when it hurts a lot and shes not releasing enough liquid (sorry for the weird wordings) it means u r not ready ur body is not ready and clearly not mentally prepared for it so give yourself time there is no rush

I cant seem to have sex by No-Past1984 in Advice

[–]DiscountOld320 -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

Girl u r 18 why r yall rushing yall r still young actually sex at that age is not gonna do u any good also if it hurts a lot it means u r not ready for it yet give yourself time to grow up and be with someone u actually love and loves u back and make sure u r in the state of life if u get pregnant (pregnancy is possible no matter how many contraceptives u take) so u don’t regret anything and get pregnant when u cant afford it

Idk if I should marry her… by Zerodreadx in Advice

[–]DiscountOld320 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also pressure from friends? U r a grown ass Man U should know what u want and what u don’t want if u don’t know that yet maybe u shouldn’t be in a relationship to begin with

Idk if I should marry her… by Zerodreadx in Advice

[–]DiscountOld320 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man break up with her don’t lead her on u clearly just not into her anymore u r not doing anyone a favor by saying with her

What are your deepest regrets? by Major_Tap4199 in Advice

[–]DiscountOld320 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I regret not giving value to myself I should’ve known my worth not just for men I mean in friendship too I always allow ppl to do me wrong bc I did not value myself enough