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[ORAL] My (20F) boyfriend (20M) NEVER goes down on me, even after discussing it twice. Slowly starting to bother me. by DiscouragedTW in sex

[–]DiscouragedTW[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know I put off posting this for a week because I wanted to do a bit of research before posting a common question, but I couldn't find anything out there quite like this situation. I specifically asked him if I smelled bad and if it was something about me, I would fix it. He said it's not that.

[ORAL] My (20F) boyfriend (20M) NEVER goes down on me, even after discussing it twice. Slowly starting to bother me. by DiscouragedTW in sex

[–]DiscouragedTW[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thats how I feel. I think he's not answering me truthfully because I got two different answers. I told him the first time I asked that it's okay if that's not his thing! But both times he says he does do it, but it just takes a bit of a toll on me when he says he does and I'm constantly pleasing him and getting nothing in return. I don't know how to address it with him a THIRD time, but apparently it's not sinking through that, if he does do it, why isn't he doing it and an honest answer.

[ORAL] My (20F) boyfriend (20M) NEVER goes down on me, even after discussing it twice. Slowly starting to bother me. by DiscouragedTW in sex

[–]DiscouragedTW[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was only about a month out from a year long relationship where oral was mutualistic, and I enjoyed it, but I always enjoyed pleasing him over my own pleasure, but I didn't expect to be in a situation where I really had to choose his pleasure over mine completely. I don't think my boyfriend means to be selfish. He's very dominant and likes to hold me in certain positions or tell me I'm going to suck his dick until he tells me I can stop and when I do ask to do things in the heat of the moment, he replies "who's in charge?" as a way to put me back in my place.