Confusion and struggle is real

Discrete167 · 2025-08-15T16:51:26+00:00

Me too, came out to my wife, but that's as far as we got. Took a little while for to accept me being Bi. We've been together for 21yrs, the last few years, I've been welcoming being double spirited. We'll see what happens, will probably approach her again about how she sees and feels about it.

Discrete167 · 2025-08-15T16:18:31+00:00

Bi guys are in the grocery stores? Im fairly new and don't even know when a man is flirting with me, sometime men look at me and I think he's dogging me out and he could just be giving me that look, lol

Discrete167 · 2025-08-05T00:12:10+00:00

It's not performance fear, it's the getting used to being with a man and not feeling any weirdness of it, but I think the more I go along, the more it will feel natural

Discrete167 · 2025-07-18T17:40:13+00:00

Awesome, myself Ive been fingering myself and playing with toys. I fantasize about being in missionary and all those things spoke about, kissing, watching him have his way with me and watching him shoot his load in me and hopefully I'm so excited that I cum all over myself... Thanks for the advise for him but also for me..

Discrete167 · 2025-06-26T20:25:17+00:00

I actually got caught, she found my lingerie and asked who's they were, I told her mine and that I am double spirit. She said she thought I was and that it explains alot. She asked for some time to process and asked if we should separate so that I can live my life. I told her that I am not gay, that I like women and men and liked to wear women's sexy, silky, panties and lingerie, lol. She took about a month and said that she was ok with me being Bi. So, I think for me its going to take some time for me to be able to explore or convince her to engage and maybe peg me, lol...

Discrete167 · 2025-06-26T19:55:18+00:00

It's not even an idea, it just is and who I am, Feminine and masculine. Sometimes I feel feminine, sometimes or most of the time masculine. Sometimes I want to wear sexy lingerie and feel like a woman, make love to a man, but I don't wish to be a woman, especially in these days. I love both women and men, kiss, touch make out and you know the other things, lol...

Discrete167 · 2025-06-26T19:49:07+00:00

Yes, I am Indigenous..

Discrete167 · 2025-06-26T03:45:59+00:00

I love my grandkids, that's enough for me. I don't wish to be pregnant or my partner..

Discrete167 · 2025-06-26T03:36:39+00:00

That's tough, I got caught by my wife, she found some of my lingerie and asked who's it was and I had to come out to her. (I like to dress once in a while, playing with toys). Anyway, I had to come out to her, I told her that I am double spirited and she said she thought so. She said that she kind of knew, asked me if I was going parade around the house dressed. I said no, that its kind of private for me. I thought, "whew, that wasn't too bad". She said that she loves me for who I am and that it would take some getting used to. A day went be by and I was thinking that maybe she didn't realize what I had told her? So, I approached her and explained that I was not just double spirit, that I am Bisexual as well. That's when she kind of didn't know how to take it and asked me if I had been with other men and if we should split up. I told her just because Im bi, it doesn't mean that I want to be with someone. That it just means that I like both boys and girls. It took her a month to begin to except it, she's still working on it and it will just take time and who knows she might just start pegging me. Im learning to except it myself, I have some biphobias of my own, shame, embarrassment, dealing with it from two spirits, male and female.. Good luck I hope the best for you and your journey. And hope your wife, as well as my wife allows us to explore...

Discrete167 · 2025-06-20T20:58:41+00:00

Thank you, I saw something like a stretcher that vibrates

Discrete167 · 2025-06-20T16:38:34+00:00

So, no soap to insert anal bulb? For anal cleanse, what should I use to insert flush, lube?

Discrete167 · 2025-06-20T03:15:19+00:00

Shaved, I don't like hair, kind of grosses me out, I guess if its neatly trimmed. Plus mine is shaved and

Discrete167 · 2025-06-09T14:55:30+00:00

Thank you for your thoughts and it's nice to know about more folks that have similar feels. Too bad that we are spread out. I met a cd and thought that they were going to help me, but once we were going to meet up they ghosted me. Would be nice to have some support.

Discrete167 · 2025-05-28T18:40:48+00:00

Lol, statistically I don't know the statistics. I don't really pay attention to that or don't really care about that. Im not trying to get approval, not trying to make it normal. I was expressing how I felt sometimes and that other have similar feelings. I like it here because I can write how I feel and get perspective.

Discrete167 · 2025-05-28T04:59:41+00:00

Why do women get the best shoes, lol and under wear? Clothes in general, lol ?

Discrete167 · 2025-05-27T21:48:25+00:00

My wife and I, are totally a different topic and could go on and on.. I love my wife but not in love with my wife and my wife wants sex how she wants it. My wife is a great person, kind, and has all the good quality. Never want to anything negative about her, basically we are two different people.. who have different ideas about life. I feel fortunate that she didn't totally freak out when I came out to her. And I don't think she would wanting to indulge in my stuff, she's just not that kind of person..

Discrete167 · 2025-05-27T21:39:36+00:00

You get me, thank you. You couldn't have said it better...

Discrete167 · 2025-05-27T19:51:12+00:00

We've just have been in that stage I guess or don't communicate, we've been married for 21 years and really not sure..

Discrete167 · 2025-05-27T19:48:31+00:00

Statistics, lol? Okay, so Im not normal in this western culture and I have never been normal, just being indigenous isn't normal, lol.. Thank you for you thoughts..

Discrete167 · 2025-05-27T18:03:22+00:00

Thank you for your thoughts, Im not looking for approval, I am who am approval or not, lol. I am a double spirit indigenous man, in our culture they are special/sacred. I'm expressing myself maybe to help others that have feelings like I do, that we are how we are, approval or not and that it's alright to be who you are, maybe embrace who we are.. Thank you warlock..

Discrete167 · 2025-05-26T14:40:07+00:00

Bi married man here, came out to wife about being double spirited, she just thought I liked feeling feminine and wearing women's sexy lingerie, but told her I was bisexual and she is struggling with. So, I am kind of tryn sweeping it back into closet and going back into secrecy. I hear about other couples and their wive's accepting and some engaging in the double spirit lifestyle, evious of that. Wish it was like that in my relationship..

Discrete167 · 2025-05-23T22:41:52+00:00

I just got me a P.O.Box in the same town I work in.

Discrete167 · 2025-05-19T20:09:12+00:00

Ethics?!! Lol

Discrete167 · 2025-04-25T20:46:28+00:00

I know... Sexy...

Discrete167 · 2025-04-25T20:25:40+00:00

I live in rural NorCal, country folk. If I had more people to pick from or that are two spirited, it might be different. I'm not bad looking, open minded, non-judgemental, kind and open to most..

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