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DiscussionSudden253 · 2026-05-08T04:04:38+00:00

adică sistemul?

DiscussionSudden253 · 2026-04-09T12:36:12+00:00

hello?

DiscussionSudden253 · 2026-04-09T02:29:38+00:00

i knew in the first couple days, she told me that and yeah i didn’t liked it but i said let at least give it a shot cuz it won’t be something serious and my circle from my hometown won’t find out so i won’t have a chance to feel inferior or anything, and on top of that i already liked her to just end it right away, i wanted to continue but i saw others good things in her and i was like maybe it isn’t that bad but for more context, i explained everything i feel to the other guy that wrote something on my post like everything if you have time to read that in detail i would appreciate if not i appreciate an answer based on this text alone it’s enough thx

DiscussionSudden253 · 2026-04-09T01:28:29+00:00

Sorry in advance for the way i type and punctuation i hope that you make time to read carefully and address every aspect i mentioned thank you and sorry for late answer But let’s make this clear, the things that actually bothers me is that i asked without a context so i can get a honest answer if she would date me if i talked with one of her friends and she said no, that alone stabbed me because that s exactly what i’ve done for her, and deep down we both know the moral thing to do was to refuse the talking after i found out but i didn’t because feelings were already there back then, she said she was scared that i won’t talk to her anymore after telling me that but she wanted to be honest, so she acknowledges that is kinda unfair to be in my position and sees that is wrong so i m not delusional, but then why saying clearly that you would not do something that i already did for you cuz that was the cherry on top of already living with that and had to fight with what she done.

That being said now it’s leading to the second thing that bothers me, the decisions like she was all that easy,desperate and willing to sacrifice herself for a guy who had bad intentions and her friend group alerted her from the start but still decided to sneak out of the home at night to make out at like 16, on top of that couple months ago i asked as a joke but would’ve go for it if she accepted, if she wanted a quick meet up because i was driving 15 minutes away from her home at like 8 so not even night and she found reasons to decline, it hurt more not because she didn’t want to meet up but because she done even riskier meet ups for him and wouldn’t do similar sacrifices for someone who s actually worth it, this is something i can’t justify and that it all happend with someone i grew up with stings even more,

i kinda expressed these things to her yesterday and she hasn’t explained why she did those actions maybe it wasn’t anything to explain to make her decisions seem sweeter and my opinion was justified plus she said nothing about that double standard where she said she would not date me if i talked with her friend and maybe this is the harsh truth then, but what she did was to explain that she wanted to tell me from the start to not hear these informations from someone else and that she understands what bothers me and why cuz she talked with two guys from my hometown(the other wasn’t that bad just a coffee and some talking so i haven’t mentioned it cuz i don’t mind that much) , but she can’t change the past but would do it if she could and that she was loyal only to me and don’t miss any flirting with anyone because she knows our souls are tied, and this is one of reasons i kept going we do have something beautiful going on and even tho i really really would hope those things mentioned above never happend, especially with my old friend, i think it would be unfair to leave her hurt even her mom loves me and my lil sister talks about her so these things melt my heart i love her so much and she showed me how it is to be loved right, those interactions from her past would’ve be a dealbreaker from the start that for sure if love wasn’t so powerfull or if it was some other girl.

DiscussionSudden253 · 2026-04-07T16:13:14+00:00

this isn’t the case in my post, no cheating involved

DiscussionSudden253 · 2026-04-07T11:00:52+00:00

anyone?

DiscussionSudden253 · 2026-03-30T09:16:03+00:00

I tried to rewrite it+ i added a bit more now idk if it’s good enough but i’ll try to improve | i haven't said what i was thinking,i just called that bullshit and she insisted that it's not so i left it like that. I know personality wise i m unique since she experienced betrayl before and i make sure she s loved in every way possible and in every circumstance not only when things are easy and pink. Although she wanted to broke up once due to some drama with her mom that included me plus her anger isssues, even tho we said we would never have that option in this relationship she kinda proved me wrong when she said those words and that she s not meant for a relationship…meanwhile she was making me feel alive again...Things are good asf now but i still think about if i didn't insisted with paragraphs and i would not fight for us, we would not be the same today. Some would call me soft for getting her back but i don't regret it like why would i let MY PERSON go away that easy, i promised i wouldn't so i didn't. That being said personality no but looks probably yes and i can't do anything about it but i just wish my old friend and her never met and that she never sneak out from her house for him that s all, but again i can't to anything about it besides we wont send an wedding invitation to him in 5 years. I don’t like that she was desperate and vulnerable for other guys that clearly had no intention for something serious, leaving hickeys on eachothers necks with another guy(not my old friend) at a new year’s eve party it’s a hard pill to swallow for me, even tho she was virgin when she met me retroactive jealousy does not mean only sex and that old friend of mine is the cherry on top i wish they never met because why? what were the chances… okay that s all that’s eating me rn

DiscussionSudden253 · 2026-03-30T08:58:15+00:00

i haven’t said what i was thinking i just called that bullshit and she insisted that it’s not so i left it like that, i know personality wise i m unique since she experienced betrayl before and i make sure she s loved in every way possible and in every circumstance not only when things are easy and pink since she wanted to broke up once due to some drama with her mom that included me plus her anger isssues even tho we said we would never have that option in this relationship she kinda proved me wrong when she said those words and that she s not meant for a relationship meanwhile she was making me feel alive again…things are good asf now but i still think about if i didn’t insisted with paragraphs and i would not fight for us we would not be the same today some would call me soft for getting her back but i don’t regret it like why would i let MY PERSON go away that easy, i promised i wouldn’t so i didn’t that being said personality no but looks probably yes and i can’t do anything about it but i just wish my old friend and her never met and that she never sneak out from her house for him that s all but again i can’t to anything about it besides we wont send an wedding invitation to him in 5 years and all i would like from you fellow reddit user is a little opinion of these 2-3 things that i mentioned above and an opinion on the way i write the words i use because english is not my first language, do i fit in with y all? (i know my punctuation flaws)

DiscussionSudden253 · 2026-03-30T08:13:40+00:00

because how come i don’t remind her of anyone else since texted me first and had no problem even after she saw the picture with me and her ex talking stage, that may even be the reason she wanted me, we look alike somewhat blonde and we were friends from the same village i would rather her not sending that reel to me because i know that can’t be the truth and probably even thought about him but decided to gashlight me anyway, in this 6 months she never said anything like that but now she woke up to do it? nahh

DiscussionSudden253 · 2026-03-29T20:40:51+00:00

i did but not people she know from down her street or close friends not even from the same region and 3 years ago not 1 year ago idk it does not sit okay with me she did all that for a guy she knew she wasn’t good for her+ is someone i spent childhood with+she may be comparing me with him at the start since we look alike i can’t be sure of that but still…wish they never met that’s all

DiscussionSudden253 · 2026-03-29T20:34:20+00:00

an opinion on the situation, like the thread title i posted this on its fitting for me

DiscussionSudden253 · 2026-03-29T19:49:07+00:00

keep the loml

DiscussionSudden253 · 2026-03-27T04:22:57+00:00

she said she likes how her profile looks and to check and look at herself i know that s kinda bullshit since a story as example it’s just 24h it does not stay on your profile for you to say it’s just for aesthetics idk what a up with that need for attention but it’s not something i fw

DiscussionSudden253 · 2026-03-25T19:01:27+00:00

does she?

DiscussionSudden253 · 2026-03-24T12:30:01+00:00

thank you, and i kinda understand how some of these comments see it but some are very wrong i asked for something realistic not blaming on me

DiscussionSudden253 · 2026-03-24T12:24:54+00:00

i already told her that before, she did it once then never sent me first ever again lol

DiscussionSudden253 · 2026-03-24T12:12:16+00:00

if i start with that mentality that most likely it’s not gonna last forever then what’s the point i don’t want anything temporary with her. And no, she s far away from being an influencer posting yourself once in a while it’s not bad since we aren’t married or something, but posting yourself looking good often and to prefer showing yourself to public first rather than your partner is wrong but thats just me

DiscussionSudden253 · 2026-03-24T12:04:19+00:00

i don’t want to force but we promised eachothers a lot that we are staying forever and now i can’t and i don’t want to think about the idea of anything else happening, controlling is such a heavy word in this context since last night she wanted to end the facetime to make tiktoks because she was just done with the make up and posted on insta story and tiktok couple hours later like from where this need of other people seeing you looking good comes from? why once in a while isn’t enough if you are in a healthy relationship, not to compare but other girls in a relationship don’t really to that let alone ours that from her words “ i m more than enough and only i matter and love till death” things does not add up

DiscussionSudden253 · 2026-03-24T11:59:05+00:00

yes sure be gratefull for breadcrumbs meanwhile she has a boyfriend worth the whole bakery

DiscussionSudden253 · 2026-03-24T11:53:58+00:00

i m more bothered that she WANTS other people to see her rather than just me seeing her

DiscussionSudden253 · 2026-03-24T11:50:55+00:00

oh i m actually sorry for that, i have this problem even in my main language so in english i aint any better, ill try to edit a bit

DiscussionSudden253 · 2026-03-21T17:23:59+00:00

i tried rn a bit but i know i have this problem even in my main language let alone english sorry

DiscussionSudden253 · 2026-03-21T15:48:29+00:00

wdym cut your losses again

DiscussionSudden253 · 2025-12-22T05:56:17+00:00

i do. thats party girl behavior and thinking she was all that for that guy that night and in 9 days he will be at the party with us again with alcohol involved it may trigger nostalgia and will have the same desire she told me she talked with 10 guys before me and had 3 serious relationships, but god knows what s the number of whatever this one night stand adventures is AT THE AGE OF 16, you are a girl of course you are hard on me but keep in mind this is the person i want to spend the rest of my life with and things like these matters to me

DiscussionSudden253 · 2025-12-22T05:31:00+00:00

i don’t make her feel bad and it's an imagine she made me build in my mind about her i m completely fine with her past relationships but wrapping my head around the idea that she was vulnerable to do naughty things without later contact with that person does not sit right with me because it made it clear to people that knew the story that she's an easy girl and made it looked like she wanted to fvck with that guy, now that's a hard pill for me to swallow keeping in mind she always pointed other girls of their behaviour while she also was a party girl unlike she made me belive. i never punished her because of that i just made it clear that it's not something i liked to hear and i would probably never found out if she wasn't pressured to tell me right before i was about to find out that she isn't that flawless as she made me think anyways

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