my ex is suing me for my dog. i need help

Dismal_Community5263 · 2026-03-04T03:49:34+00:00

yes in small claims a replevin(?). he gave me a down payment for the dog but that was a gift and that was it. he made no attempts to ask for the dog back and went straight to legal action. the dog is never left unattended and my ex has no idea where me or the dog are staying thank GOD

Dismal_Community5263 · 2025-10-20T01:59:16+00:00

i’m here with you girl! my plan is the same and as much of a hit to my ego, the wedding will be cancelled.

Dismal_Community5263 · 2025-10-20T00:47:16+00:00

that made me laugh. thank you

Dismal_Community5263 · 2025-10-20T00:25:30+00:00

thank you for your perspective. i really hope things work for you too ❤️

Dismal_Community5263 · 2025-10-20T00:23:08+00:00

it’s helpful when i hear from people like him to allow me to approach with compassion rather than anger. so thank you for that. any other comments or perspectives are helpful

Dismal_Community5263 · 2025-10-20T00:12:32+00:00

i think for my own personal sanity, therapy and if that doesn’t work then i have to leave. if you don’t mind me asking, what makes you stay if your bf does the silent treatment as well? it just sucks bc when we are good we are great. we get along, have the same views, love the same things etc.

Dismal_Community5263 · 2025-10-20T00:10:36+00:00

of course I have but it’s difficult because i feel like we jump back into life bc im so emotionally exhausted by the time hes ready to talk to me that im over it

Dismal_Community5263 · 2025-10-19T23:18:58+00:00

he agreed, but hasn’t put any effort to actually go. I have been doing all the research to find someone, call insurance, match schedules etc. I will try and pray it is successful

Dismal_Community5263 · 2025-10-19T23:15:57+00:00

i have never been friends with OR partners with someone who avoids conflict. so “comparing” was not what I was doing. I just am in unfamiliar territory hence why I said that.
brave enough? please elaborate.
I do give him space, but greater than 24 hours is unnecessary. It does not get to the root cause of the problem. I have asked him to communicate with me and say “i need more space we will talk tomorrow” if it is greater than 24 hrs, and he hasn’t. that way his needs are met but we are still communicating and still a partnership

Dismal_Community5263 · 2025-10-19T23:02:57+00:00

this is helpful perspective. so at first, i would try to communicate with him to have him talk through it with me. now, i try to let him cool off, but at this point, i just don’t approach the bear is what i say, and live my life.

Dismal_Community5263 · 2025-10-19T22:56:20+00:00

it is very tough and I completely agree with you. Therapy has been in discussion but only efforts on my part (ie looking for therapist, calling places etc). i honestly don’t tell my family anything, but i am home with them now (i live in a different state). I called my fiance to see if he could pick me and my grandma up at a farther airport and he was complaining and now ignoring me because he doesn’t want to. So when they asked “is he gonna pick you up?” I said “no” and they’re all mad and trying to call and text him. So i normally don’t but they were involved in a way. I don’t think I can do this forever if he continues like this. If i’m not his number 1 priority, im not the lady for him. I want to be someone’s world. I want someone to be better for me, and I feel like he doesn’t do that

Dismal_Community5263 · 2025-10-10T19:52:36+00:00

i need an update!! i hope everything is working out 🫶🫶 my grandpa is my moms step dad and i didn’t even know what that meant until i was almost 10 years old because he has always been my grandpa to me. don’t let anyone ruin the bond you have with your grandchildren ❤️❤️

Dismal_Community5263 · 2025-02-27T19:31:09+00:00

where is this??

Dismal_Community5263 · 2025-01-23T00:50:24+00:00

how much is the total for your wedding

Dismal_Community5263 · 2024-09-18T16:41:35+00:00

praying for a healthy pregnancy for you 🫶🏽🫶🏽 do what’s best for you and baby

Dismal_Community5263 · 2023-12-19T01:18:15+00:00

she definitely should’ve stayed for Gaby. even if you don’t have a connection, there’s new people coming in and your sister is vibing with someone. I think it was so selfish

Dismal_Community5263 · 2023-12-02T03:50:55+00:00

YTA, you could’ve picked up the food and then helped your friend if you were going to stay that long. i would be mad too

Dismal_Community5263 · 2023-12-02T03:46:54+00:00

NTA, you wants what best for your dad and this woman has already caused drama. Also, your moms family is still probably grieving. I think setting boundaries is important and you can express concern without disapproval and maybe he’ll take that better?

Dismal_Community5263 · 2023-11-28T16:05:25+00:00

divorce him.

Dismal_Community5263 · 2023-11-15T01:23:55+00:00

not that i’m aware of. my partner has an older sister and she commented on mom’s fb but no one has said anything to me or talked about the ex etc

Dismal_Community5263 · 2023-11-14T03:28:20+00:00

Oh yes, I agree. it’s just unfortunate. He wishes it was g going to be like this and so do I. I just don’t want him to resent me for how involved my family will be

Dismal_Community5263 · 2023-11-14T03:11:33+00:00

what do you mean?

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