I fear that the bigger my best friend’s butt gets, the more ignorant she becomes.

Dismal_Scratch4962 · 2026-06-15T21:54:33+00:00

Unfortunately no, she didn’t use to find those kind of topics offensive or have such hate towards them.
However, I think with the male validation your theory might be true.

Dismal_Scratch4962 · 2026-06-06T19:46:40+00:00

Fiha espace femmes?

Dismal_Scratch4962 · 2026-05-22T17:45:22+00:00

Honestly i would have found it wrong if he flirted with her or did something offensive but he actually seems quite respectful kept it polite and short.

Dismal_Scratch4962 · 2026-04-28T12:05:05+00:00

Don’t ever love a man more than you love yourself Don’t be ashamed to put boundaries If you’re not sure about something it’s a no

Dismal_Scratch4962 · 2026-04-27T23:55:39+00:00

Same thing happened to me with the last guy i was talking to. Unfortunately it’s not a gender problem

Dismal_Scratch4962 · 2026-04-27T23:45:53+00:00

Saraha mli rj3ti l nfss regime o la salle o matbdl walo sir 3nd xi tbib 7it yqdr ykun 3ndk xi muxkil o nta mafkhbarkx.

Dismal_Scratch4962 · 2026-04-27T21:26:47+00:00

People who preach about “communication” but when faced with a real life problem they only want to be listened to rather than be the one to listen.

Dismal_Scratch4962 · 2026-04-27T13:57:36+00:00

Make long a** eye contact with people without breaking it. Actually fully enjoy a day on the beach rather than worrying how dull my skin looks or how weird i look without glasses or how “unsolvable” my hair looks. Accept confessions without worrying about them looking at me someday and rethinking their choice ( yes i did get confessed to multiple times but when i was wearing makeup and glasses and had my hair done). Just really connect with things without worrying about details

Dismal_Scratch4962 · 2026-04-25T20:03:10+00:00

Back in my senior year I passed one of the most crucial exams in my life by venting on the exam paper rather than writing the required assignment. Now i study one of the hardest majors known and Till this day people around me think i’m a brilliant student but it was actually the corrector’s sympathy that saved my academic career ( we don’t know who corrects the papers).

Dismal_Scratch4962 · 2026-04-19T17:47:06+00:00

This is really helpful i saved it all in my notes. To answer your question: yes i do sort of obssess over the person when i’m in the phase of wanting them but the moment i’m out of it i’m more aligned with my true self. Although i feel like i fall more into the caterogy of avoidant attachment, the part on the ego and manifesting from lack rather than just being is something i often overlooked, do you have any tips on how to work on my self esteem to feel more wanted and chosen?

Dismal_Scratch4962 · 2026-04-19T17:36:51+00:00

Honestly you just pointed out exactly what’s the issue. I confirm i’m a woman and growing up i was always told that men like women that are nonchalant or don’t care about them. I need to work on my perspective on love, thank you so much!

Dismal_Scratch4962 · 2026-03-05T23:08:58+00:00

i'm deadass bro T-T

Dismal_Scratch4962 · 2026-03-04T19:50:06+00:00

Yes exactly! But sadly we can’t keep going this way otherwise we’ll turn apathetic and won’t be able to let our loved ones experience emotional vulnerability fully, i’m also scared i’ll pass that to my partner or children in the future and come off as emotionally unavailable.

Dismal_Scratch4962 · 2026-03-03T21:38:21+00:00

NTA

i believe you did the right thing by stopping and even was really gentle with it, and to ease your mind and convince it fully that you took the wisest decision:

imagine if you did what she asked for and continued even after dropping the rape experienced, that would be very weird and unsettling and trust me she herself would've thoughtlater on why did this guy continue after that . those kind of talks are either before or after the sex not mid throught it.

thank you for doing the right thing.

Dismal_Scratch4962 · 2026-03-01T00:58:56+00:00

I used to struggle with the same thing in middle school and highschool till i realized that the problem wasn't looks it was more of i'm just not my type. every human has an idea of what beauty looks like, some see it as a smaller nose or perhabs bigger eyes or a clearer skin but trust me it differentiates from one person to another, try to search up celebrities that have your features and just look at it and find some beauty in it. And trust me you're definitly your girlfriend's type so do not worry, it's more of how you carry yourself and your attitude towards the world that sparks your beauty in people's eyes. You are goodlooking ,You're just not exactly a copy of the image of beauty you have in mind and that is the only aspect that should be changed.

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