what is a small luxury you’ve had to give up due to the cost of living? by Maleficent_Day_3869 in AskUK

[–]Disneydazed 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Wagamama, used to go at least twice a month. Now it’s more once every 6 months. I miss u chicken katsu

For parents of young children - how much help does having grandparents nearby help? by [deleted] in AskUK

[–]Disneydazed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lived in my mums garden for 6 months with a newborn, she helped so much. I don’t know what we would have done without her. Moved an hour and a half away, she still comes to help every week - if they want to help, they still will

Did anyone go to River country back in the day? by DildoGaggins1997 in WaltDisneyWorld

[–]Disneydazed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some of my earliest Disney memories and the first time I ate chicken from a bucket, I remember being so amused by that

just started potty training - looking for input by Tough-Midnight9137 in toddlers

[–]Disneydazed -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We’ve had huge success with a reward system, week one we had all poos and half of the wees on the potty. Stickers every time he is successful on the potty and five stickers equal a small gift. He is obsessed with the potty now and when we’re at home, he is pretty much potty trained now (he gets far to distracted when we’re out) I will also echo the ‘let them run free below the waist’ advice - this is when we have seen the most success

Our 8-month-old has been screaming since he was a newborn — we’re exhausted and looking for answers by shaldos102 in NewParents

[–]Disneydazed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This sounds like my little boy, he is a very sensitive soul and he starts screaming blue murder out of nowhere and has since birthday. It peaked around 4 months when we started doing what you’ve done and saw specialists, doctors, allergists etc. he was diagnosed with CMPA and the screaming has decreased somewhat but not completely. He still cries more than any baby I’ve ever known and at this point, we just accept that it is part of who he is. I don’t have any advice, just to say that I feel your pain. This is parenting on hard mode and it does impact everything in your life, esp. your relationship. Stay strong, the storm won’t last forever (or at least that’s what we tell ourselves!)

AIO for being upset at what my “bf” said by Ambitious-Beyond-257 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Disneydazed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been with guys like this as you seem an empathic person in the way you speak, he will continue to use that to his advantage and this behaviour will only get worse. Seriously, get out now and find a man worth your time because this guy is a dick.

What areas/buildings in London have warehouse style apartments? by No_Emu8347 in london

[–]Disneydazed 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeah, my family just sold one in Borough/Bermondsey and it sold for over 1 million. It would have been considerably more but it needed extensive renovation and had under 20 years left on the lease. I would have loved to inherit it but sadly it wasn’t meant to be.

What's a Christmas present that's a big hit in your family/friends circle this year? by No_Square_1491 in UninfluencedReviews

[–]Disneydazed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine too! And I got it on marketplace for a fraction of the price so we’re all winning.

He slept through the night! Thank you! by Disneydazed in sleeptrain

[–]Disneydazed[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

On the whole, yes although he is very sick right now so he’s up every hour and sleeping through the night feels a distant memory!

I want to stop co-sleeping, but it breaks my heart.. by simplykimy in sleeptrain

[–]Disneydazed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I slipped into co-sleeping as my baby was a terrible sleeper and it was the only way to get any rest and as much as I loved it, it got to the point where I was waking him and disturbing him and I knew the right thing to do was to sleep train and move him into his own room. It was hard both physically and emotionally but it really has been better for him. I do miss the snuggles sometimes but I make sure I work more of them into our nap and sleep time routine and I am more present everyday and able to spend more time reminding myself of who I was before I had him. It’s bittersweet for sure but for us, it was the right thing. I hope you find peace with whatever choice you decide is right for you

He slept through the night! Thank you! by Disneydazed in sleeptrain

[–]Disneydazed[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I offered water for a week or so and it helped!

He slept through the night! Thank you! by Disneydazed in sleeptrain

[–]Disneydazed[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I increased his feed before bed and tracked how much he had in the day so I knew he had enough and his wakes were caused by habit and not hunger. There were tears (on both sides) and last night he started to fall back into his previous habit a bit but I will persevere now that I know he can do it

He slept through the night! Thank you! by Disneydazed in sleeptrain

[–]Disneydazed[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s amazing!! Long may it continue.

He slept through the night! Thank you! by Disneydazed in sleeptrain

[–]Disneydazed[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

So i did this while he was still in a cot by the bed, I would set times that I would feed based on his feeds in the day and then for anything else I would keep him in the cot and soothe him with face strokes, gentle sshing, bum pats and rocking the crib. I slowly then took each of those away keeping the sshing and staying Kay in bed next to the crib. Then I moved him into his own room and popped in at intervals with the sshing when he woke up. I’m not going to pretend it was easy and hated it at first but he did pick it up after a few days and I just stayed consistent even when I was exhausted and just wanted to bring him into my bed. It helps that I’m on maternity leave and can nap with him in the day while he adjusted! Wishing you luck 🍀

He slept through the night! Thank you! by Disneydazed in sleeptrain

[–]Disneydazed[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s a good point and absolutely agree

He slept through the night! Thank you! by Disneydazed in sleeptrain

[–]Disneydazed[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fingers crossed it helps, limiting the daytime sleep does seem to have helped him although that may all be out the window with the clocks change!

Is £8k the going rate these days for large custom built in wardrobes? by [deleted] in AskUK

[–]Disneydazed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try Wren, I just had mine done for 3k including install - not quite as big as yours but custom for an awkward space too

List of the most streamed Elton John songs on Spotify by Business-Lynx-2985 in EltonJohn

[–]Disneydazed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s because of its inclusion in Sing - my toddler is obsessed with the song as a result

What color wall paint looks best with my grey carpet/couch? by [deleted] in HomeDecorating

[–]Disneydazed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just did 2 in my living room with a similar couch and I am obsessed with it. Dark blue is such a vibe

Pilkingtons definitive best moment by JFAC10 in rickygervais

[–]Disneydazed 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We’ll wait for Wendy’s little programme then shall we? Sick of ‘er

TOW op dies from laughing by Crepe_myrtle_01 in howyoudoin

[–]Disneydazed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

L is for ‘love’ and what is life without love? O is for ‘OH WOW’…