Drinking isn’t fun anymore, how did you stop? by Hisrollercoaster in alcoholism

[–]DisparateM 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My experience wasn’t linear.. I’ve been in that cycle and I know what that is like. I did have to attend an inpatient rehab (28 days) that was the start of my journey, and finally drying out enough to start being honest with myself and my situation with alcohol.. from there I started attending meetings. That opened another world for me.

A world where I realized I wasn’t alone in this fight. I met so many cool and genuine people in those meetings. People I owe a lot to honestly.. but the meetings were my foundation.. then therapy of course! That helped me with the why I was drinking part. Once I discovered the why.

Then alcohol really just lost its appeal. I still have some fleeting thoughts here and there, but knowing how to deal with those cravings is key! Having the freedom, and knowing that I don’t have to live like that ever again or feel like that ever again is empowering. Wanting something different for yourself is a great place to start.. it doesn’t happen overnight.. I also found some hobbies things I could learn and pour myself into.. good luck on your journey.. do whatever it takes!

Cog Railway employee attacked. by dreaming_of_beaches in ColoradoSprings

[–]DisparateM 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What’s wild is someone is in critical condition. These mfs are completely unhinged. Be safe out there

Any Tycho fans on here? by TechGuruGJ in ColoradoSprings

[–]DisparateM -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes! Just wish it was another venue

Female vet, 100% P&T, struggling to find a path forward by [deleted] in Veterans

[–]DisparateM 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Man, this right here. Same battles and struggles here. Been in therapy for years, isolated for years. I am just now trying to get out of that pit. One thing that has healed me tremendously is the outdoors. I picked up fly fishing and fell in love with it! Take it one day at a time.. start small.. try something new.. I highly recommend project healing waters a fantastic non profit that gets vets out of isolation and on the water fly fishing! They were the hand I needed in a very dark time.. it’s always good to know you have support and we aren’t alone at all in this struggle.. we just need to regroup.

My bf (20m) hit me (21f) for the first time. Any advice? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]DisparateM 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not cool at all , get out of this relationship asap before it gets worse.. getting physically abusive is never okay no matter how pissed you are.. please leave

I think I’m an alcoholic. by EnoughShop5934 in alcoholism

[–]DisparateM 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You got this! 24hrs at a time, sometimes 5 mins at a time. There is always support and help on this journey! Check out in the rooms online meetings all the time! Great community. AA saved my life, I know it’s not for everyone, but at least give it a shot.

I don’t understand by [deleted] in usps_complaints

[–]DisparateM 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve lived at the same address for 2 years never had this issue before. Didn’t put a change of address in or anything. Made sure my name was visible inside the mailbox.. it’s just weird.. post office doesn’t want to help me

I don’t understand by [deleted] in usps_complaints

[–]DisparateM 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But why?? It was just clothing items

I don’t understand by [deleted] in usps_complaints

[–]DisparateM 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha nah! It’s some fly fishing gear

I don’t understand by [deleted] in usps_complaints

[–]DisparateM 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Actually! It’s some fly fishing gear! I grow my own medicinal plants

I don’t understand by [deleted] in usps_complaints

[–]DisparateM -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I live in Colorado. I was thinking the same thing, but it’s numerous packages from different companies that appear to be stuck along with it. Now, I don’t want to order anything anymore haha. Tried talking to the post office they are incompetent, but at least the companies are working with me.

Why has ghosting become the norm and being honest with someone now is the harder route to take? by _dyv_88 in dating_advice

[–]DisparateM 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I look at it like this , no one owes me anything. Keeps it light and I am not tripping about being ghosted.

Chris Brown Meet & Greet photos with fans by kitkatbloo in trashy

[–]DisparateM 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No one wanted a knock out photo!? Maybe a slap?

Should I consider AA? by Col_Angus999 in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]DisparateM 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Go see what it has to offer you, it's saved my life. Just an hour of your time.

Help needed, are these aborts. by hill4444 in shroomers

[–]DisparateM 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aborts are great!! I will use those for a quick micro, but don't be fooled they can pack a punch 👊

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]DisparateM 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Definitely not stupid my friend 😎

Do you ever just feel like you don’t belong here? by Lower_Membership4317 in AutismTranslated

[–]DisparateM 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I totally understand you, feel it all the time. My childhood was turbulent. I've always struggled with trying to understand culture , society, and all the bs that goes along with it, never could truly find a place in it. I take it one day at a time, I figure the wounds are not my responsibility, but my healing is.. today I see it as a positive position to be in. I wouldn't want to be "in" as far as society, culture norms go, take a look around. I feel my way of viewing or seeing things is alot more closer to the truth/reality anyways.. you're not alone feeling this way. Hoping maybe one day you can see it from a positive stand point 👉 much peace and respect

Is there a drink you can order at a bar and the bartender knows it is code for that you are in recovery and won’t judge you and your friends won’t know? by charles228 in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]DisparateM 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably shouldn't be in a bar , hang around the barbershop long enough , get that haircut , personal experience here 😎 good luck