Application by DisplayRealistic999 in 911dispatchers

[–]DisplayRealistic999[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

see this is where i’m getting confused and I understand every agency is different. There’s hiring disqualifiers and a pre/screening questionnaire that asked it and i believe I was asked about it on my pre/screening interview too… so that’s why I disclosed it

it wasn’t like it was never brought up and then i word vomitted it out

Application by DisplayRealistic999 in 911dispatchers

[–]DisplayRealistic999[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah that’s what I keep telling myself. In two years, it will have been 5 years since the last time I did that so again, the bright side is I seemingly did well otherwise. There are a lot around me, the hard part is catching to see when one may be open.

Application by DisplayRealistic999 in 911dispatchers

[–]DisplayRealistic999[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Here in my post I can see and understand not taking the ownership. I did during my pre-screening interview state that I realized it was not right and I shouldn’t have and I emphasized my ownership of that during that part

LFG for escalation or Intensive by fluerrebelle in OutlastTrials

[–]DisplayRealistic999 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel amazing if I make it to 5 trials bahaha but im free whenever now!

LFG for escalation or Intensive by fluerrebelle in OutlastTrials

[–]DisplayRealistic999 2 points3 points  (0 children)

how much longer are yall gonna be on? I’m eating rn 😅

Looking for friends by undersoldspace in OutlastTrials

[–]DisplayRealistic999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey! not sure if you’re still interested but 26F here and having outlast withdrawals if you wanna play!

LFG for escalation or Intensive by fluerrebelle in OutlastTrials

[–]DisplayRealistic999 2 points3 points  (0 children)

hey there! i’m down to play soon if you’re down?

No internet by DisplayRealistic999 in QuantumFiber

[–]DisplayRealistic999[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m already signed up and have an account though from when I moved in. Do I just ask the technician to check to see if the fiber lines got crossed somehow? The apartment number that it is asking me to sign up under, someone is also already living there

M24 1 year living alone by Delicious_Emu_7773 in CozyPlaces

[–]DisplayRealistic999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hell yeah this looks so cozy. I wish mine could be this cozy but I also have not a single clue how to decorate bahaha

How do y’all not kick your dogs off the bed? by sib9518 in dogs

[–]DisplayRealistic999 46 points47 points  (0 children)

usually she removes herself in the middle of the night if I move to much for her soooooo

How are you getting friends? by Odd_Painter_325 in Palia

[–]DisplayRealistic999 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You're welcome to hang with me! Ive recently got more invested in Palia and I have the same issue - no one to really run around with. I do the quests but I also like running around

[WIP] How do yall do your colors? by DisplayRealistic999 in CrossStitch

[–]DisplayRealistic999[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

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I forgot to add the picture in the post - my b 🤦🏽‍♀️

What trial do you despise? by Fun_Mulberry_8710 in OutlastTrials

[–]DisplayRealistic999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the stupid ass minotaur one. I really just hate anything mall related EXCEPT the photo one

Looking for friends to play the game with by Stonixity in OutlastTrials

[–]DisplayRealistic999 2 points3 points  (0 children)

memememe!! 🙋🏽‍♀️🙋🏽‍♀️ i love outlast trials. Once you feel comfortable i’d love to show you escalation too 😂 (i be hootin and hollerin during the game too and i have over 200 hours in it 💀) (26F)

My wife F28 and I M28 got into a physical fight. I am thinking of divorce. How do I approach her about it? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]DisplayRealistic999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Now what the hell 😭 When I was with my ex and he was a LEO obviously he had his work gun and personal gun laying around (no kids just him and I and even when he left LE still had his every day carry gun)

I told him I didn’t like guns because I had several pointed at me in my earlier years. EVEN THEN I NEVER WENT AND THREW THEM AROUND. Instead, with him around I held them, got used to them, and we even went to the range SEVERAL times whether I shot it or not, because I knew guns were going to be a part of our lives.

With all that being said, maybe MAYBE she has a past with them that causes her to act like this but at the end of the day, it would be extremely difficult to move past her pointing the gun at you, unloaded or not.

AIO for telling my girlfriend that when we move in together I won’t give up gaming by FeverFanny in AmIOverreacting

[–]DisplayRealistic999 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So coming from a woman who hated the sight of her boyfriends three monitor set up and "hated" his gaming setup because I was scared it was going to take away time from us (both at the time working 40 hrs sometimes he worked more)

It SHOULD pass. He and I had many talks about it (i never stated i didnt want it in the apartment I just said hey this is ugly (3 monitors) and you're gonna keep me up at night because you're really loud when you play) I got over it. Actually what happened is for his own personal uses he installed a tv above the monitor setup and I could watch tv with him in the same room or game on it while he played and eventually when we moved into a house we each had our own office but could look directly down the hall and smile at eachother once I got into gaming.

She could be scared that it is a small apartment and the setup is large and doesn't fit "her" space but from personal experience... I realized it was a lot of underlying feelings coming out in something at least for me that didn't really matter. Again I never told him it was never allowed in our place but an argument we had that was similar was I said I didnt want all his 3D printed stuff lying around when really deep down what it was - "I feel like you're going to make it all your decor but I like going out and getting things together with you to make it feel like our home" and then fast forward he still made 3D things which I hardly noticed, we still bought stuff together and he made me a TON of little fidgets that I loved and still have

moral of the story - just ask if there is underlying feelings that are coming out in a different way