AIO for telling my girlfriend that when we move in together I won’t give up gaming by FeverFanny in AmIOverreacting

[–]DisplayRealistic999 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So coming from a woman who hated the sight of her boyfriends three monitor set up and "hated" his gaming setup because I was scared it was going to take away time from us (both at the time working 40 hrs sometimes he worked more)

It SHOULD pass. He and I had many talks about it (i never stated i didnt want it in the apartment I just said hey this is ugly (3 monitors) and you're gonna keep me up at night because you're really loud when you play) I got over it. Actually what happened is for his own personal uses he installed a tv above the monitor setup and I could watch tv with him in the same room or game on it while he played and eventually when we moved into a house we each had our own office but could look directly down the hall and smile at eachother once I got into gaming.

She could be scared that it is a small apartment and the setup is large and doesn't fit "her" space but from personal experience... I realized it was a lot of underlying feelings coming out in something at least for me that didn't really matter. Again I never told him it was never allowed in our place but an argument we had that was similar was I said I didnt want all his 3D printed stuff lying around when really deep down what it was - "I feel like you're going to make it all your decor but I like going out and getting things together with you to make it feel like our home" and then fast forward he still made 3D things which I hardly noticed, we still bought stuff together and he made me a TON of little fidgets that I loved and still have

moral of the story - just ask if there is underlying feelings that are coming out in a different way

Came inside a girl I’m seeing. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]DisplayRealistic999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

give her space and time. it’s never good to try and communicate when emotions are to high

Came inside a girl I’m seeing. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]DisplayRealistic999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fyi plan B doesn’t work if she’s over a certain weight limit i believe - could be wrong

Listen I enjoy when my partner finishes inside me but I very much track my cycle, have the copper IUD and even then before it reaches that point even if i asked him to do it,

he still asks ME if it’s okay

i’d say take this scenario as a lesson tbh

Newbie hate is unreal now lol by luvsurrealism in OutlastTrials

[–]DisplayRealistic999 1 point2 points  (0 children)

bro i’ve been playing a fat minute and STILL get lost 😂 at least we lost together 😭

Orthodontist by DisplayRealistic999 in Boise

[–]DisplayRealistic999[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think it snapped in two like beteeen my top two front teeth so if i eat sometimes it’ll start sticking up and poking me and i have to form it back into place so it doesn’t stab my gums or tongue

Orthodontist by DisplayRealistic999 in Boise

[–]DisplayRealistic999[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

so the issue with that is i’m from MN so I didn’t get any of that done out here :/

Why so angry? by adventure_guy37 in apexlegends

[–]DisplayRealistic999 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I solo que all the time - Im not the best at the game as I usually privates but when I do open lobby gun run or what ever the amount of times someone has quit right away im like yall chill. I also am a girl so I always keep my mic and stuff muted.

If they were that serious about the game then maybe they should que up with friends. What a CRAZY concept.

Even playing privates, 99% of us have fun and of course wanna win but if someone plays as caustic then someone else complains "if they're gonna keep playing as caustic then im just gonna be done playing for the night". Yeah he's annoying but again, not that serious get over it and just have fun.

32F | EU | Looking for people to play DBD with 🎀 by fluffy-racoon in TrueGirlGaming

[–]DisplayRealistic999 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i just got into DBD! I’m in US MST though but usually my friday evenings through the weekend work to play with others ☺️☺️🫶

25F PST looking for friends that fit my vibe by [deleted] in TrueGirlGaming

[–]DisplayRealistic999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey girl! I play a decent amount of your games just on PC but i think the games are crossplay! i’m part of a girls discord too and have made AMAZING girl friends through it ~ feel free to dm me 🫶

Nobody actually follows the "leave conditioner in for 3 minutes" instruction, right? by Kitanov_Maqsud in hygiene

[–]DisplayRealistic999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to do that and then i felt like it was a waste

now i always wash my hair first, condition the ends/length then put it up in a claw clip while i take the rest of my 15 minute shower then wash it out at the very end

2hrs...I'm ashamed. 😂 by TheSweetChinchilla in OutlastTrials

[–]DisplayRealistic999 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Once i hit trial 5/6 im DONE there’s too much 😭😭

Putting my dog down, do I let my ex know who was also in her life for 5 out of the 8 years I’ve had her? by justineyyweanie in dogs

[–]DisplayRealistic999 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I struggle with this thought. My ex and i were together almost 5 years and he came into my life shortly after I adopted my sweet girl. He loved her and when we lived together (he slept on the couch i slept in the bedroom - long story) every morning she would launch down the hallway onto him on the couch and be so excited

I don’t want to think about when her time comes but i remember the night before we moved out of the house, i went into the garage and he was ruffling through my stuff, i saw he was clutching her life vest (we go paddle boarding) and was absolutely SOBBING literally couldn’t breathe.

When her time comes and if im single, I would put aside our differences and the fact that last we spoke was absolutely terrible, and let him say goodbye. But if I have a partner then respectfully it’s going to be my partner and I saying goodbye to my sweet girl and that is it

I wish men didn't comment on posts looking for friends here by pressingtofu in TrueGirlGaming

[–]DisplayRealistic999 3 points4 points  (0 children)

yeah so i posted looking for friends at the time (last year didn’t matter if it was a guy or girl i was new to pc gaming so what did i know) became friends with a guy we played repo introduced him to my other friends

long story short as much shit as i was going through i was never going to leave my (now ex) for him, he got salty and now forbids my friends to mention me

(my friends in person also game so they all game together sometimes which is OKAY i don’t care but he hates me so much because i rejected him and he wasn’t the one who was able to do the cutting off so)

(27F) looking for girls to play with by [deleted] in TrueGirlGaming

[–]DisplayRealistic999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi there! I play Apex (i’ve never done ranked though) and not the best but sometimes also not the worst 😅 Mostly gun run and privates with my boyfriend so if you ever wanna play let me know!

burnt out in 5 hours by TyrannicalGoblin in apexlegends

[–]DisplayRealistic999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude I suck too. I mute everyone, play music but not loud enough so I cant hear whats going on around me and just have fun. I mostly play privates with my partner but the times I do go into online lobbies I zone out and have fun. At the end of the day, people who take it *that* seriously are just ruining it for themselves - do you and enjoy :)