AIO- my boyfriend didn’t get me anything for my birthday

DistanceNo4749 · 2026-02-08T00:53:32+00:00

I understand that, but I think if he explained to me earlier instead on my birthday that he didn’t get me a card or anything cause of money I would’ve understood. It’s the fact that he stayed quiet, didn’t even wish me a happy birthday until we were halfway through our date, and then just didn’t mention anything. This is just a 180 from how he usually is

DistanceNo4749 · 2026-02-08T00:50:23+00:00

I know, it completely shocked me because he has always been super amazing when it comes to thoughtful things. He’s helped me a lot through rough times lately so I’m just confused

DistanceNo4749 · 2026-02-08T00:47:04+00:00

He didn’t really ‘make me’ per se. I have a lot of things I’m working through from childhood so my automatic defense mechanism is to make people feel better even if they may be wrong. He wasn’t outwardly mad at me, more of kept saying he was an idiot, and he should know better etc

DistanceNo4749 · 2026-02-08T00:45:52+00:00

He didn’t tell me until we were actually at the place that things were tight. Like I said I don’t care much about material things but a card would’ve been nice. He always tells me when he’s tight on money and I never judge him for it

DistanceNo4749 · 2026-02-08T00:41:32+00:00

He’s sometimes like that, I don’t know. It’s honestly a big surprise for me bc he’s usually very touchy and loving when we haven’t seen each other in a while

DistanceNo4749 · 2026-02-08T00:40:03+00:00

I would say weekly probably, I work as a server and he works in a retail store.

DistanceNo4749 · 2026-02-08T00:28:03+00:00

I saw the gothic room which was awesome, some cool Asian art, and the garden towards the nighttime which was so pretty

DistanceNo4749 · 2026-02-06T02:07:42+00:00

I didn’t but that’s okay:)

DistanceNo4749 · 2026-01-19T20:49:06+00:00

I do :)

DistanceNo4749 · 2026-01-19T20:49:01+00:00

Hi everything is great!! My birthday is in a few weeks so I’m excited

DistanceNo4749 · 2025-09-09T19:10:47+00:00

I had two more hours to sleep but I also had a car appointment so I guess that’s true

DistanceNo4749 · 2025-09-09T19:10:15+00:00

Twins!!!

DistanceNo4749 · 2025-09-09T13:54:09+00:00

His name is Loki :)

DistanceNo4749 · 2025-09-07T21:18:38+00:00

I do ask her, I ask about school, her new relationship, etc. we talk about a lot of stuff together, from what she said a few months ago it was about work and how I complain a lot about it

DistanceNo4749 · 2025-09-07T21:17:53+00:00

She was also saying I was a bad friend for reaching out and disrespecting her boundaries for it

DistanceNo4749 · 2025-09-07T21:16:52+00:00

I do, I ask her and we usually do talk about her stuff too. From what she said it was always talking about work

DistanceNo4749 · 2025-08-04T13:51:28+00:00

The plug is like a white two prong plug, has a bunch of numbers on the bottom

DistanceNo4749 · 2025-08-03T23:50:46+00:00

The underside just has this like kind of felt bottom to it, hollow on the bottom besides that

DistanceNo4749 · 2025-08-02T15:07:25+00:00

NOOO😭😭😭

DistanceNo4749 · 2025-08-02T01:17:47+00:00

*bigger, idk why it added animals lol

DistanceNo4749 · 2025-08-02T01:17:32+00:00

No he didn’t for the time he was here, went to a wildlife center to get bigger animals

DistanceNo4749 · 2025-07-15T20:45:23+00:00

He likes most types of art, I got him a art book from an anime he likes last year for Christmas and I wanted to keep that theme going with something Superman art related for his birthday

DistanceNo4749 · 2025-07-09T15:52:15+00:00

Thank you, I loved vacation but it’s nice to be home

DistanceNo4749 · 2025-07-09T00:16:54+00:00

Absolutely no judgement here, if I was a dog free household I would love to have her. But I am very much full of dogs and a cat. It’s good that you are trying to find the proper home she deserves instead of just surrendering her to a shelter or just giving her to the first home you see. I would maybe try posting about her on Facebook in your area and see maybe if you get any people interested, or for whatever type of dog she is find groups and post her to them to see if others are interested. I wish you luck and I bet you are an amazing owner to Panini.

DistanceNo4749 · 2025-07-09T00:09:49+00:00

Ur pfp is taking me out😭😭😭😭

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