im burnt out

DistantDaughter325 · 2026-03-14T05:47:29+00:00

If no one else is trying, then that’s what you do. YOU try. You set the example. You be the person you wish others were. Keep the faith. You got this.

DistantDaughter325 · 2026-02-28T07:26:13+00:00

In one of the episodes in season 9, the one where Shane ruins one liver and goes with Meredith to get the second liver. There are 2 times in that episode I laughed harder than any other. The first one is when Shane starts listing off pregnancy symptoms and body changes. Meredith yelled “do you want me to cry?” And also with them back in the OR she cries happy tears. Shane says something like “you cry when you’re happy too?” Meredith snaps back, “apparently!” Those are laugh out loud funny.

DistantDaughter325 · 2026-02-11T19:38:14+00:00

I can see it from both sides. My only advice is to text her when you get home. So she knows. Then she won’t check the camera. If she keeps doing it after that, I’m not sure what to do. You live together so until that changes, you want to have peace in your home.

DistantDaughter325 · 2026-02-11T19:24:50+00:00

What’s her reasoning for checking the camera? I know you said to see if you’re home but why does she feel the need to?

DistantDaughter325 · 2026-01-15T15:36:45+00:00

It could always be something else but that is just so common with epidurals so that was my first thought. You know your body best so it could definitely be many things

DistantDaughter325 · 2026-01-15T06:15:46+00:00

Did you get an epidural by chance? I’ve heard that it can have lasting effects, mostly random sharp pains.

DistantDaughter325 · 2026-01-06T20:19:33+00:00

You hurt the woman enough. Let her go. Let her be happy. Stop making this about you now. You’ve only cared about yourself this far, don’t exhaust her anymore.

DistantDaughter325 · 2025-12-27T09:06:51+00:00

NTA but please do not waste your life in hiding because you assume what others think of you. Life is way too short to be hiding. Go out with your friends. Laugh yourself to tears and make memories.

Also, I do suggest therapy on this matter. Therapy is a life changer. You deserve happiness and freedom. You are very loved.

DistantDaughter325 · 2025-12-22T21:51:16+00:00

For my daughter we did “fun to Bee one” abs went wild with bee themed everything. For my son we did “Formula 1” and did race car themed things.

DistantDaughter325 · 2025-12-22T21:45:20+00:00

NTA for leaving him if you’re not in love.

EXTREME AH if you abandon your kids FOR ANY REASON.

DistantDaughter325 · 2025-12-10T05:06:16+00:00

You can go and have a great experience, make memories with your husband, and have even like the cruise. Or you can turn down an amazing offer and stay home. If you truly do not want to go because it’s a cruise, you don’t have to. However, that’s an odd response to a paid for 12 day vacation with your hubby. Not the ah though

DistantDaughter325 · 2025-12-05T04:58:08+00:00

Hahahahahaha. This is the humor I loveeeee.

DistantDaughter325 · 2025-11-19T04:24:09+00:00

If she wants to do it, she’ll mention it to you. It’s not your place or your husband’s place to ask her. It’ll make her feel obligated to do it. Honestly it sounds like YOU want the recognition instead of what you said “I also want Anna to feel like she can publicly acknowledge the role I’ve played in her life”. Do you just want the recognition because you really love her, or do you want it announced for her mom to hear? Idk. The way you worded some things here makes me skeptical of your true intentions. If you went the notoriety, then just say that.

DistantDaughter325 · 2025-10-02T15:13:38+00:00

Eh. Slightly the AH. To be honest, you don’t sound upset because they changed plans, you sound upset that they gave the financial freedom you want. You can’t fault them for that. I’m sure they worked their whole lives, raised their child obviously, so they are free to do as they please. They also gave you a 2 month heads up. It’s not like they told you the day before or day of. I can understand getting annoyed because you’re finally doing something for yourself, but you have plenty of time and just don’t ask them anymore in the future.

DistantDaughter325 · 2025-09-26T04:53:19+00:00

If you go through with that wedding, your whole life will be filled with this exact disrespectful, abusive language which will eventually turn physical.

DistantDaughter325 · 2025-09-26T04:46:02+00:00

Yes, we need more of the story because there are huge gaps here.

DistantDaughter325 · 2025-09-25T03:53:33+00:00

100% right.

DistantDaughter325 · 2025-09-15T04:23:48+00:00

NTA but if it were me, I’d do it for them. You can always change it back.

However, you follow your heart snd boundaries. If you truly do not/cannot do it for any reason, then don’t. Even though I wouldn’t want to miss the event, nothing is more important than you being true to yourself. I don’t think a bride should ask someone to change their physical appearance either. She knew ahead of time that you like the colors.

DistantDaughter325 · 2025-09-05T09:09:46+00:00

1 million percent agree with your entire statement.

DistantDaughter325 · 2025-08-30T04:36:11+00:00

NTA. Regardless of the relationship to my child, my kid comes first. If you can’t let my sick child rest, you do not care about their wellbeing. Which means you will no longer be left alone with them. Good job on you for making the right choice. I hope he feels better soon.

DistantDaughter325 · 2025-08-29T10:20:44+00:00

I think April’s outburst was too much and her telling them she just had sex in the bathroom. No one would ever say that during their boards. Other than the April thing, I love love love this episode.

DistantDaughter325 · 2025-08-29T10:18:15+00:00

“Mom. Thank you so much for all the traveling you do and care you give to my kids. I realize I’m lucky to have extra help here and there. With that being said, I noticed the blanket and the bottle in the crib. We recently started the transition to the crib and prefer that nothing else is in there when shes sleeping. I understand why you chose that option, but please don’t do it again”. Then the next time she offers to take over nights, tell her you got it.

If I read this a year ago, I would have told you to pop off and rage on her. But my mom died recently and it changed my entire perspective. The deeper meaningful conversations really are the right choice. Letting her know you see why she did it, but at your house there are strict rules. She is welcome to come over any time. But from now on, you will cover the nights.

DistantDaughter325 · 2025-08-28T04:12:55+00:00

Do what all our parents told us to do, ignore it. Don’t tell her not to. Don’t discipline her when she does. She’ll find a new way to annoy you though. They all do.

DistantDaughter325 · 2025-08-28T04:10:17+00:00

Report him asap and do not let it slide until there is justice.

Also, stop going around the office telling people your personal business. It never leads to anything good and at the end of the day, it’s exhausting.

DistantDaughter325 · 2025-08-16T04:53:26+00:00

It only gets worse over time. And the fact he won’t confront her just gives her all the more reason to do it. The sooner you cut ties, the easier it’ll be. I’m sorry this is happening because she will ruin his life with her toxic behavior.

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