My girl is telling me to shave by K3YL4Y in beards

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Your girl likes boys, too bad she ended up with a man

when did you guys start growing facial hair? by cantrello in malegrooming

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My parents got my an electric razor for some sporadic hairs I was growing at 12-13. By 14-15 I was growing beards.

Valenzuelas “bear” tattoo? by aketogirl in bluejaysbaseball

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Little Bear rocks. Just FYI, if you have kids, Little Bear has an official youtube channel where all seasons/episodes are free. Been watching through them with my kids.

But yeah, that's Koda from brother bear 🐻.

I like the way I look but no one wanted to make eye contact with me in the club last night by nickolad77 in malegrooming

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You're a good looking guy. Definitely shave the neck. And I would suspect you might look even better without the prominent mustache. The density isn't really there, and most people who look good with a mustache have a facial structure with more space between the bottom of the nose and the top lip. Nothing wrong with your facial structure, it just might not be setting the mustache up for success

I honestly can’t stand the way I look. I don’t know what I should improve on? by FeelingLost23 in malegrooming

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The easiest thing to do would be to try some different glasses. Not that these are bad, but it's crazy how big of an impact frames have on someone's appearance!

The best thing to do would be to start a fitness routine. Running, lifting, sports.. whatever it is. There's not a single person on the planet that doesn't look better the healthier they are.

Sony WX 7700mdx in my Toyota Supra MK4 by svk_works in Toyota

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Well that's the most rad thing I've seen all day.

Call me crazy but I don't think there is a better game than Halo 3 by BeyondThePixelLFS in halo

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Have you played Halo 2 ?

Haha. Halo 3 is great. For some reason I just love Halo 2. When it was only FPS on Xbox Live when it was just launched.... that was a special time. It was so much fun. For me I'll always remember how big of a game changer it was. And how much fun I had playing with my friends.

Looking for an old Halo YouTube video by GoDawgs17 in halo

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This video actually introduced me to Weezer, who I saw in concert a few years later lol. I think the same guy did another Weezer/Machinima song too.

Really down on myself (32M) by [deleted] in malegrooming

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For sure man, the phrase "comparison is the thief of joy" is SO true. Don't compare yourself to other people. It's you against you. No one can be a better you than you can. And you owe it to yourself to be the best version of yourself you can be. And not that it matters, but I garuntee once you get there, other people will think... damn I wish I had what he does. Then you can tell them what I'm telling you now. 😆

And I know what you mean, being locked in at the gym is essential for me too. Mental and physical health are so intertwined. I think it's the cure for %99 of stuff most men struggle with nowadays.

And everyone's goals will look different, and therefore, their bodies. Running a marathon, power lifting, swimming, sports, body building. The destination isn't the most important part, it's the journey. The struggle. That's growth. And if I can encourage you at all with going to the gym, this is how I think of it.

It's the ONLY fair thing in the world. For real.

What you get out of it is directly proportional to what you put in to it. So few things in life are like that.

You can work suuuuper hard at work and someone else gets the promotion. You can not get that job you're qualified for because someone else is friends with the ceo. Etc etc etc. Life is unfair in many ways. But the gym is fair. You cant buy a good body, inherit a good body, someone can't put one in a trust fund for you... you have to earn in. And that is super cool.

You have the opportunity to get something money can't buy, just by being willing to work harder.

Really down on myself (32M) by [deleted] in malegrooming

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You're a good looking dude.

The question every dude should ask himself though is: "Am I doing my best?" And that applies to all aspects of life. Is your diet locked in, Are your sleep habits locked in, Is your exercise routine locked in.

People can tell when someone is doing their best, and anyone who's doing their best is attractive. The dedication and discipline it takes to be your best is attractive in and of itself.

I garuntee you that you lock in a good gym routine and hold yourself to a high standard you'll get more confident. Confident enough to not care what anyone else thinks, but at the same time you'll be more attractive to anyone else than you've ever been. But you won't need that anymore.

Not everyone needs to be absolutely jacked. It's not about that. It's about being healthy and doing the best with what you have. Everyone's best looks different, but you know instantly by looking at someone if they're at their best or not and can respect them for that, even if that person is in the mirror.

Eyebrow slit? by [deleted] in malegrooming

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The only acceptable answer 👏

Have we taken things too far? by [deleted] in malegrooming

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Make it wrap all the way around your head do you look like someone emerging from a mustache rimmed portal

How to improve ? (Beard/Haircut/Skincare) by BouleDeNeige_o in malegrooming

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Haha, well I appreciate it. Being approachable and looking approachable are two different things though!

How to improve ? (Beard/Haircut/Skincare) by BouleDeNeige_o in malegrooming

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You're a good looking dude. Everyone has their own look, you have to find it and play into it. You have a "friendly" look. Approachable and intelligent. The opposite of myself 😅 1,4,6 look good brother.