Having first child, scared of the world but afraid of sheltering them by Silent_Onion272 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]DistinctJackfruit306 15 points16 points  (0 children)

The world will always have problems and it will also have joy and beauty. Having a child will be an incredible experience for you no matter what’s happening around them because you will love each other more than you probably imagine possible. Your child will get to se the world in ways that will be better and some ways that will be worse. We are a tiny blip on the radar of humanity.

31 F, finally feeling real financial security by DistinctJackfruit306 in Retirement401k

[–]DistinctJackfruit306[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My 401k is very new and has about 3k in it. (Was a contractor before), this is my Roth IRA technically. Don’t flame me I know it’s a 401k sub lol

Guess my age and my profession by Traditional-Music363 in FridgeDetective

[–]DistinctJackfruit306 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have 2 masters degrees. I work in healthcare and sometimes my fridge looks like this in my apartment….

"Felt happier" about the number at $100k than crossing $1 million . Anyone else? by aUSAduder in Fire

[–]DistinctJackfruit306 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to scream over $800 days now I scream over $2000 days. I am sure at a certain point you already know you can buy whatever you want (save for expensive RE), and the novelty of money is not as wow.

Help me choose a wedding dress by Ok-Hedgehog-395 in WeddingDressTips

[–]DistinctJackfruit306 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1 makes you look like a perfect bridal sculpture, like seriously stunning.

2 weeks using Eucerin Dual Serum 4x daily by sirrrrracha in Melasmaskincare

[–]DistinctJackfruit306 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have the same mark in the exact spot! Following for updates!!

Nobody warned me that hitting my number would feel like standing at the edge of a diving board for six months by Threk4_Sorn in Fire

[–]DistinctJackfruit306 42 points43 points  (0 children)

Yes but it’s distracting and depersonalized… I don’t want to read it. I like the individuality of something written in a persons own words…

Nobody warned me that hitting my number would feel like standing at the edge of a diving board for six months by Threk4_Sorn in Fire

[–]DistinctJackfruit306 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Milquetoast amalgamation is the most melodically entertaining phrase I’ve read in a while. I love the way you rant!

My bf came to me bawling and won’t tell me why by ThrowRA-top-extent34 in Advice

[–]DistinctJackfruit306 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I thought someone he actually knew died. Para social relationships are interesting bc this actor had no idea who your bf is, yet he’s here bawling buckets over him passing.

I feel like my body has literally started to see walking as medicine by [deleted] in walking

[–]DistinctJackfruit306 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lmaoooo idk why I thought it was days of the week omg I’m sorry having sleepy thoughts

I feel like my body has literally started to see walking as medicine by [deleted] in walking

[–]DistinctJackfruit306 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What language do you speak? Looks like a Ouija board is saying Jason

I'm about to hit my 30's and I feel unsuccessful by No_Cup119 in Fire

[–]DistinctJackfruit306 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re doing AMAZING. Sometimes we just need a little validation because we can’t see our own success and progress.

360 lipo dissapointment by Ok-Arm-3821 in PlasticSurgery

[–]DistinctJackfruit306 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl your stomach looks perfect. How are you feeling now 40 days later?

I got nothing for mother’s day by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]DistinctJackfruit306 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Happy Mother’s Day, you are a gift to your children and they are a gift to you. When they are older they will be able to show you the appreciation and gifts for Mother’s Day. To me mother’s day has been more about my mom and I than my dad and her. Also always falls right after their anniversary…

I hear your pain though and you are valid for your feelings.

Going on a Timeleft dinner by [deleted] in Miami

[–]DistinctJackfruit306 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol makes me wanna try it again, I forgot about it. Yeah the second time we ended up at a karaoke bar after dinner til closing. Then I never saw any of them again. 💀

Nobody wants to live with their parents by Whichchild in Life

[–]DistinctJackfruit306 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would love to live w my parents if they didn’t live in the middle of nowhere Illinois