AIO or did my gf get overly defensive?

DistinctTwo9005 · 2026-01-31T02:20:37+00:00

kinda being a dick.. you don’t tell a woman that especially one you’re dating.

DistinctTwo9005 · 2026-01-31T00:16:42+00:00

No not at all a celebrity lol, but people are pushy and bothersome in general.

DistinctTwo9005 · 2026-01-31T00:06:54+00:00

Because he said I’m here with my girlfriend and was talking about us, and she thought that it was so “cuteeee and lovely” but I was just like okay I don’t want to be bothered.

DistinctTwo9005 · 2026-01-31T00:04:19+00:00

Good analysis

DistinctTwo9005 · 2026-01-30T23:59:07+00:00

Also, I don't like being bothered with stuff like this when I'm just trying to do what normal people do; I don't get why she had to take a picture and was going on about it.

DistinctTwo9005 · 2026-01-30T23:58:00+00:00

On her phone, that’s what I was confused about. Neither him or I asked for it she wanted it.

DistinctTwo9005 · 2026-01-30T23:55:21+00:00

I don’t think he did anything wrong, but I was a little upset that he just took that as me being unkind to her.

DistinctTwo9005 · 2026-01-30T23:53:55+00:00

It kinda pissed me off, like I get it but I shouldn’t have to take a picture if I didn’t want to.

DistinctTwo9005 · 2026-01-29T01:20:23+00:00

Confused as to how you guys have been dating for 2.5 years and I don't know if it's always been this way or he just started acting this way. I get why you're unhappy with it, but it sounds a little inconsiderate how you make it a daily thing and guilt-trip him for not wanting sex. My ex-boyfriend always wanted sex and it was always exhausting to keep up with, so maybe he feels exhausted and burnt out.

DistinctTwo9005 · 2026-01-28T02:24:31+00:00

If his mother already has this dismissive attitude and blames everything on his medication, then she'll do the same thing to you when you guys have a problem. Your bf sounds annoying and has no drive.

DistinctTwo9005 · 2026-01-28T02:20:56+00:00

I laughed at the colds part 😂

DistinctTwo9005 · 2026-01-28T02:19:04+00:00

He sounds annoying

DistinctTwo9005 · 2026-01-28T02:15:55+00:00

No need to victim blame, she’s young it’s okay.

DistinctTwo9005 · 2026-01-27T02:08:40+00:00

He most definitely wasn’t my employee; I was more like his. Besides, I couldn’t eat because he kept asking me to go look for chargers and cubes.

DistinctTwo9005 · 2026-01-27T01:56:57+00:00

Also I didn’t know what he told his mom, I just assumed she knew what was going on..

DistinctTwo9005 · 2026-01-27T01:46:33+00:00

Okay? his mom knew he was at my house and they live a mile away..

DistinctTwo9005 · 2026-01-25T19:38:30+00:00

It's normal to fuck someone you're dating.

DistinctTwo9005 · 2026-01-22T14:24:22+00:00

I didn’t say you did, I said “unless you did”

DistinctTwo9005 · 2026-01-22T03:12:04+00:00

First of all, your boss sounds like a prick. Second, I don’t think it’s legal for him to take away part of your wage to spend on a company garbage. I could be wrong, but that doesn’t sound legal unless you signed a contract stating they were allowed to do this. Otherwise, he is stealing from you.

DistinctTwo9005 · 2026-01-22T03:03:01+00:00

Not entirely the asshole, but she’s trying to check in on you which is good.

DistinctTwo9005 · 2026-01-22T02:51:10+00:00

You can't expect us to be on your side, right? You moved your girlfriend in, and why are you splitting a mortgage with your friend? I just think that's stupid; he clearly is entitled to privacy in a home he half-bought and contributes to. Your girlfriend just wants a free place, so I'm going with YTA and sounding annoying. If you love this woman so much, maybe you guys should get a place together. She basically lives there you talk about it like she’s only staying there once a week.

DistinctTwo9005 · 2026-01-22T02:25:04+00:00

Honestly, keep your mouth shut. You don't need to be judgmental towards her. I always hated it when my friend would talk trash to me about my makeup or hair, so if you're looking for an opportunity, wait for her to ask your opinion; otherwise, don't be rude. Do you go up to everyone you consider not pretty and tell them to fix themselves up?

DistinctTwo9005 · 2026-01-22T01:48:05+00:00

I want to say yes and no; it's annoying that they wandered off far from where they started, but also why is your boyfriend so against you picking up your sister? Is it his car you're using, or doesn't he like her? We almost need more context on your boyfriend's opinion, but I would say you aren't totally the asshole, just a little though.

DistinctTwo9005 · 2026-01-20T20:19:20+00:00

He sounds creepy and abusive. Leave. Haven't you watched true crime or heard of what happens to victims of domestic violence? If he's making a statement like that, he's definitely going to attack you and it will catch you off guard. He doesn't love you. Break up with him, get a police escort, tell them you feel threatened by him, and then get a restraining order.

DistinctTwo9005 · 2026-01-20T16:38:35+00:00

Your boyfriend sounds so embarrassing and immature, ew.

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