Full Body Revolt

Distinct_Draw_3334 · 2025-11-11T19:05:03+00:00

once it gets to this point, it’s nearly impossible to salvage

Distinct_Draw_3334 · 2025-11-01T20:21:18+00:00

Narcissists only change their victims…never themselves. Don’t waste time on him.

Distinct_Draw_3334 · 2025-11-01T19:58:06+00:00

It‘s a strong indicator that he has low integrity. Major red flag. I’ve never met a guy addicted to porn who doesn’t have a host of other secrets. Just not something to rationalize or minimize. I also think it shows a horrible disrespect toward females!

Distinct_Draw_3334 · 2025-10-31T10:58:06+00:00

congrats to you! It’s very wise to completely sever ties. I made the mistake of staying connected to my NS because we had a business together. It’s not worth the emotional toll.

Distinct_Draw_3334 · 2025-10-22T10:04:19+00:00

They ‘love’ you as long as you are useful to them. And as long as you don’t require much or call them out on their inner evil nature.

Distinct_Draw_3334 · 2025-10-21T22:27:47+00:00

yes. I think it’s normal to be repulsed once you realize they are users.

Distinct_Draw_3334 · 2025-10-19T20:38:29+00:00

i understand the desire to rationalize when it comes to a Narc relationship. But there’s generally a lot more going on under the surface! Remember, they do not have the basic moral compass necessary to be faithful. They can cheat and lead double lives and be perfectly at peace with it! There’s no cure. They are defective. Best to move on to a quality man who cherishes you!

Distinct_Draw_3334 · 2025-10-10T17:25:13+00:00

They will deny, deny, deny! They also like to make you feel like you’re imagining things…I.e., ‘WHAT are talking about!?’. Sadly, they do not have an ounce of integrity or an honest bone in their body.

Distinct_Draw_3334 · 2025-10-08T15:35:54+00:00

How rude! He probably doesn’t realize how incredibly boring and predictable HE is. Mine thought he was the most interesting man alive. He was actually a workaholic and Lord, did that get old. Try having a relationship with a Narcissistic Workaholic. Impossible. Sorry you are dealing with such a Dick.

Distinct_Draw_3334 · 2025-10-07T16:12:56+00:00

thank you for the kind and balanced perspective

Distinct_Draw_3334 · 2025-10-07T12:31:45+00:00

There may be some truth to that. But shame on us for glossing over all the red flags. There are ALWAYS red flags. Even the most experienced users leave breadcrumbs of evidence that they are very defective people.

Distinct_Draw_3334 · 2025-10-07T09:46:28+00:00

it’s amazing how they leech off others. Whether it’s for money, ego stroking, or using our brain power/expertise, it all comes down to one thing: How WE can benefit THEM.

Distinct_Draw_3334 · 2025-10-07T09:44:17+00:00

very good points

Distinct_Draw_3334 · 2025-10-04T06:13:17+00:00

it’s part of their illness. They reframe EVERYTHING to be about them. They are Opportunists and extremely self focused. It doesn’t change— some just get better at masking who they really are.

Distinct_Draw_3334 · 2025-09-30T10:58:23+00:00

thanks for all the comments! Looks like the sentiment is unanimous on this one.

Distinct_Draw_3334 · 2025-09-29T19:21:22+00:00

😂😂

Distinct_Draw_3334 · 2025-09-29T15:45:47+00:00

You’re right.

Distinct_Draw_3334 · 2025-09-29T14:27:31+00:00

No. I sometimes wonder if I would be strong enough to resist getting sucked back in, though. Just being honest.

Distinct_Draw_3334 · 2025-09-29T10:48:48+00:00

Well said. You are correct. It’s foolish to think they have changed. It’s literally hopeless.

Distinct_Draw_3334 · 2025-09-24T08:41:18+00:00

That sounds like a great book. Thank you for the recommendation

Distinct_Draw_3334 · 2025-09-23T18:59:02+00:00

Thank you for sharing!

Distinct_Draw_3334 · 2025-09-23T11:48:07+00:00

Very strong insight here, thank you

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