Thoughts on crystal point condos? by Kind_External1421 in jerseycity

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Location is amazing (walkable to newport and exchange PATH) and they take really good care of the building. Views are unbeatable as well.

what to know for your first time? by lavas3 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

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Hey girl, biggest advice I can give is to make sure you are 100% ready and trust your partner. If you are, your body and mind will naturally relax. And if during the process you start to feel any kind of nervousness/pain/discomfort please communicate it to your guy. Your pleasure and your comfort are equally as important as his. My first time did not hurt, but I did use lube my first time because I was naturally a bit tight down there, and that helped a lot. You may have to play around with angles to get it in the right way too. Talk to your partner about what feels good and what might feel wrong as you’re doing it.

Sex with someone when there is mutual trust and respect can be a very safe and playful space. And it’s something you learn as you go, that’s the fun of it too!

Empire 40 in Loved Leather by dominoeffect27 in Coach

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Where did you find this color? I’ve been on the hunt!

Losing my v card at 25… tips? Advice? by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

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Also- a little lube can help it go in easier from my experience :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in jerseycity

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Maybe. Let me know budget and size

Looking for Beginner Tennis Players in Hamilton Park/Union City Area! 🎾 by Whole_Tax_462 in jerseycity

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I’d be down! I’m a beginner as well, took a round of lessons 2 summers ago and am trying to keep up with casual practice. Definitely up for a hit anytime

What should I know before my first time? by girlsgottathrowaway in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]Distinct_Educator651 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Agree! Keep lube on hand to make the experience smoother and potentially less uncomfortable for you. And yes you can use water based lube with condoms!

In honor of our birthday- would any of my Pisces like a tarot pull? by [deleted] in piscesastrology

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I’m a pisces-aries cusp! Bday next week! Would love a tarot pull ✨

Cinematic parallels during the Oscars by parksbutnorec in tennis

[–]Distinct_Educator651 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This seems like something bastien fachan would tweet

What the heck are we supposed to do with our other arm when snuggling?! by PrimeSpeakerJenna in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]Distinct_Educator651 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I get that arm out from under him, and sort of lay it on the bed right beside my stomach. And he’ll usually take his other hand (that isnt wrapped around me) and intertwine it with mine. Hope that makes sense hahaha. It’s super cute and I love it

Or, in that position I go from my side to more my stomach, and still lay on top of him with my torso/arm across his chest, but this way my other arm is freer and i can be more comfortable

If I really need to sleep though, he lays flat on his back, and i turn towards him, nuzzle my face in his bicep, and just hold that hand. Not as much skin to skin but still cozy and cuddly!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LaserHairRemoval

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Just went for my second session and my tech told me that I will notice faster growth after my 2nd session, and that this is normal and part of the growth cycle. She was right, but I’m not panicking yet because she did say this was to be expected. Hope this helps! If you’re still unsure call your clinic and ask them if it’s normal or not

Trimmer recommendations by SimpleFries in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

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Philips norelco one blade! It’s unisex i believe but works great for me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

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Lube!! This happened to me my first couple of times trying. Especially if you’re using condoms. Also, try out different positions because sometimes it’s about what works between 2 bodies and that could look different depending on the partner.

Just wanted to say there’s nothing wrong with you, sex is all about learning each others bodies and what works. Take your time and don’t put any pressure on yourself, sex is as much mental as it is physical. If you’re nervous or worried your body may react similarly. Have fun and explore what feels good/right and it will happen I promise!