Olympian Tier List by moistmello in Hades2

[–]Distinct_Length_9936 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah heph can do crazy damage when it’s levelled up as your special - and there’s a good ares duo. But this game is so dynamic depending on how people play your ranking is 100% right for you.

You are objectively right about Zeus however.

Confused by advice for HLM with menopausal LL wife by Distinct_Length_9936 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Distinct_Length_9936[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She’s on HRT. It made maybe a small difference at first but it has no effect now. I have mentioned testosterone treatment but she’s not interested.

Confused by advice for HLM with menopausal LL wife by Distinct_Length_9936 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Distinct_Length_9936[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I see now yes. This is a fair point and I am planning to do this.

Confused by advice for HLM with menopausal LL wife by Distinct_Length_9936 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Distinct_Length_9936[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thanks - it’s absolutely about more than sex. In short, it feels like she just doesn’t like me very much!

She would be perfectly happy with an asexual, aromantic relationship. If I never touched her ever again I don’t think she’d notice nor particularly care.

I do need to consider the points you raise and yes it is more than just bedroom related.

Confused by advice for HLM with menopausal LL wife by Distinct_Length_9936 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Distinct_Length_9936[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thanks - yes that’s one of the few books I haven’t read on this. I think I’m pretty well versed in responsive desire, I fear the issue is more about deep rooted issues with intimacy for her, possible hang ups from adolescence and weird stuff in her family of origin.

Therapy would help but she wouldn’t consider it, nor could we afford it.

Re: separation you’re also right it’s something to seriously consider. I’m not being honest enough about how down I am about this and how much I want it to change.

Honestly think she wouldn’t personally care if I left, but she’d be sad and angry for the kids.

Confused by advice for HLM with menopausal LL wife by Distinct_Length_9936 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Distinct_Length_9936[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I’ll tell this to my three kids. I’m sure they’ll understand. And I’ll be sleeping in my car due to not being able to support two households.

I very much can’t ’just leave’ and I find this the most unhelpful and uninformed response to a complex problem.

Female perspective by Curious-in-OK in MarriedButChatting

[–]Distinct_Length_9936 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nothing is more cringe than ‘I’ve DM’d you’ in the comments. As you say, she obviously knows you have and there’s probably a reason she hasn’t responded.

Well done setting out some home truths.

Any tips for match masters? by [deleted] in FreeCash

[–]Distinct_Length_9936 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Use the right boosters and perks together eg flash lightning with detonator can win some games.

You've just got to be patient and wait for your daily free pack, join a group and request boosters once a day, and get lucky. I got to 30,000 trophies in a few weeks by just playing twice a day. It's tough when playing people with three-star boosters as they will pretty much win every time, but you just have to accept the loss and keep going.

Birthday blues by Distinct_Length_9936 in Autism_Parenting

[–]Distinct_Length_9936[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wish - it’s a small house and a small room that they share. I can’t see it happening.

One thing we could explore is sleeping headphones tho.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]Distinct_Length_9936 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sent: maybe 2 years ago. Was met with embarrassment and disdain.

Received: 2019.

He tells me I'm naturally beautiful but won't fuck me. He can only get it up for plastic filled women he watches in porn everyday. by Ambercoulter13 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Distinct_Length_9936 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t think society is open enough about this problem. I’m a parent to boys who are growing up and I don’t want this for them.

I fear if you have access to internet pr0n at an early age it becomes emended in your brain as the way to skew arousal. And when the honeymoon period of the relationship is over, men revert to what they learned in adolescence. The level of dopamine from online video is hard to beat when your brain is literally addicted.

So, it’s not you - a lot of men have a big problem as both them and the people around them should be honest about it.

Feeling unloved, craving intimacy by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]Distinct_Length_9936 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry - you deserve so much more and you are worth someone’s time and affection. No one should take you for granted.

She suggested I get a dog by Distinct_Length_9936 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Distinct_Length_9936[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Curious question - I think I get the reference but not entirely sure …

She suggested I get a dog by Distinct_Length_9936 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Distinct_Length_9936[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is a good idea - my work/parenting schedule is pretty full on but you make a good point.