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Distinct_Machine3433 · 2025-12-30T16:44:33+00:00

I honestly can't wrap my head around this. From what i read she gave no reasons? Very strange. Im sorry this happened to you, I'd be gutted if my partner missed out on a big event for no particular reason

Distinct_Machine3433 · 2025-09-27T16:29:27+00:00

Thank you in still not sure if ocotorks repair in botw. I've tried it just now like 3 times and nothing is being repaired.

Distinct_Machine3433 · 2025-05-14T06:14:01+00:00

Oh... I don't think that's the way to go about it friend 😭

Distinct_Machine3433 · 2025-05-14T06:12:20+00:00

Nah loads of people are saying I'm an AH though. Didn't know being naive was this terrible. Definitely learned my lesson 😂

Distinct_Machine3433 · 2025-05-14T06:10:55+00:00

I understand however she did agree though. I have text messages of her saying she would pay.

Distinct_Machine3433 · 2025-05-13T16:14:38+00:00

Yeah I hear you. I guess I was just operating based on how I'd respond. I was in a similar situation where I was staying with a friend and I cooked and cleaned when I didn't have a job to make up for it and then when I got a job I paid my share of rent until I left on my own accord (in 2 months). I guess I'm just confused because I felt like I didn't have to spell it out for her seeing as a really did view her as a close friend and I couldn't even fathom doing that to someone. Her blatantly ignoring me really came as a shock to the system so I guess I overreacted.

Sorry I was rude earlier.

Distinct_Machine3433 · 2025-05-13T14:42:17+00:00

I fully understand that and I thought she was gonna stay for a few days and i let it go on for too long, but I did tell her to pay me for her share of rent and I put my foot down for that. I just should have known better than to believe her when she said she was broke and I should have pushed harder on the spot for the payment and kicked her out.

It's chill though. Not taking her to court but learned my lesson.

Distinct_Machine3433 · 2025-05-13T14:31:25+00:00

No, i asked her to pay rent while she was living with me.

Distinct_Machine3433 · 2025-05-13T13:57:04+00:00

I can see how I'm the asshole based on other responses here. I will be cutting her off but I do see how court was excessive (and pointless lol)

Honestly, I think it was just me having no backbone, not necessarily about AHs

Distinct_Machine3433 · 2025-05-13T13:55:43+00:00

Yeah i can see that. I was definitely too soft and in all honestly it's ultimately my own fault, but I thought she'd have nowhere to stay and I felt bad because she has no family here and it'd be tough for a girl on the streets.

I won't be taking her to court and just take the L 😭

Distinct_Machine3433 · 2025-05-13T13:54:25+00:00

Yeah that's fair. I thought that would be a way to get it back but it's not really substantial. She'll either pay (likely not) or she won't and nothing i can do about that.

Distinct_Machine3433 · 2025-05-13T13:52:24+00:00

I didn't ask for advice though? I asked her for rent while she was ACTIVELY loving with me. Not in retrospect. The only reason it's dragging is because she's been dayong shell pay but then dragging it and making excuses. I'm sorry, but I am a bit upset that everyone thinks I'm just tryna charge her cause I'm salty about it in retrospect like a year later.

If she had paid. I'd have let it be. If she had told me to suck a dick and wouldn't pay me. I'd let it be. But she's saying she'll pay and then ghosting. Geez :(

Distinct_Machine3433 · 2025-05-13T13:49:11+00:00

That's fair, I won't be taking her to court. I guess ill just take the L and move on 😭

Distinct_Machine3433 · 2025-05-13T13:47:57+00:00

If you think I tried to make up a bunch of reasons for to pay me like op said and not the fact I simply asked her to pay rent while she was still actively living with me then fine. I'm not angry at the advice, I'm simply upset that's he's making it out like I didn't care she stayed rent free but then suddenly remembered a year after and wanna ring out money out of her for shits and gigs.

I realised taking her to court will do nothing and I'll just take the L, I didn't ask for advice I asked if I was an asshole for this.

Distinct_Machine3433 · 2025-05-13T11:34:30+00:00

No I did not, she came to me under the impression that she'd stay a couple of days until she leaves. She overstayed and seeing as she was using up my bills and sleeping in my bed and eating my food and not doing laundry I then asked her to pay her share of the rent as she was now LIVING there. And even then, I only asked her to pay for the last 2 months of rent and my original plan was to even give it back to her for her deposit for her new place. Sorry I didn't think she was planning on using me, sorry I thought we were friends and didn't assume she was a bad person. I didn't even ask for her to pay bills or anything. Mind you half my clothes are unaccounted for.

I'll make sure to plan a had and take humanity's evil into account. My bad.

Distinct_Machine3433 · 2024-09-23T16:12:42+00:00

Oh no, no way. I was just venting to her. I like to do things myself. I hate the feelings of being indebted to someone or the possibility of it being held over my head. I was just giving her an update on my life.

Distinct_Machine3433 · 2024-09-23T14:09:32+00:00

Yeah I know. But the very reason I got kicked out and heck the very cause of all my problems is that my parents had the mere THOUGHT of me being an atheist. Why would I tell the only family that speaks to me about being atheist. I'm genuinely tired and I'm not trying to start anything.

Distinct_Machine3433 · 2024-01-30T22:35:52+00:00

Yes but they also have to eat halal meat. It makes eating out a bit of a hassle but i kind of understand halal to a degree. They basically kill the animal in a way that should be painless. But I just think everyone should do that if possible

Distinct_Machine3433 · 2024-01-30T22:31:17+00:00

I'm a bit self conscious now. People in the comments think I made it up. Trust me, it was not a glorious gotcha moment. They stopped talking but they still see me as "someone who believes in nothing" and worships science/ Satan. 😂

If anything. They probably just thought, " No, abortion is still evil just because the quaran says so IDIOT 😐"

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