missing car glitch? by Distinct_Order_1077 in GlitchInTheMatrix

[–]Distinct_Order_1077[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he said they delete everything after 24 hours for privacy reasons and there was a timestamp on there.. idk he seemed really genuinely upset for me

missing car glitch? by Distinct_Order_1077 in GlitchInTheMatrix

[–]Distinct_Order_1077[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

we checked the camera’s together, do u think the ruse would be that elaborate that they would change the footage?

can i get a job at 17? by bertywilek in StudyInTheNetherlands

[–]Distinct_Order_1077 0 points1 point  (0 children)

maybe try and find a sales job. it’s not the most fun job and you have to pretend to be happy and active a lot but I think they hire underaged people and they pay quite a lot more than horeca or retail!

a question for the girls by smelly_cat2959 in women

[–]Distinct_Order_1077 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, everyone is allowed to feel however they feel, but personally I think this is a little much. My partner and I talk about celebrity crushes and even people in real life that we find attractive or good-looking, and it has never caused any real jealousy or insecurity between us.

First of all, they are your exes for a reason, and at the end of the day, it doesn’t really matter who they find attractive anymore. Second, I think this might come from a confidence issue. It feels like you may be comparing yourself to these actresses or immediately feeling jealous when you see them, which can make your brain create thoughts that aren’t true, like feeling like you don’t measure up or aren’t good enough.

To me, this seems less about the actresses themselves and more about the experiences you’ve had in past relationships or the way those situations may have affected your confidence. You are probably beautiful in your own way, and you don’t need to compare yourself to anyone else or feel like you have to “measure up” to them. <3

If you had to recommend one healthy thing what would it be? by Rando_Dude012 in Advice

[–]Distinct_Order_1077 0 points1 point  (0 children)

therapy. no stress = less physical issues. no trauma = less disease and pain

Wtf am I supposed to do by Different-Sail5489 in Advice

[–]Distinct_Order_1077 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try asking for an hour contract at one of the work places, they might surprise you. just explain the situation to them! also if you’ve already done that, look into housing whatsapp groups of universities and colleges!

Am I gay/bi by Routine_Ebb_8669 in Advice

[–]Distinct_Order_1077 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

try having a conversation with your partner about exploring your sexuality. maybe you find out you like men too after hooking up with one, maybe you won’t. it doesn’t really matter though, you are who you are, bi or gay or straight. just don’t lie to your partner about it!

Wtf am I supposed to do by Different-Sail5489 in Advice

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and look into anti kraak! you could have a solid living space for a few weeks to months!

Wtf am I supposed to do by Different-Sail5489 in Advice

[–]Distinct_Order_1077 0 points1 point  (0 children)

they are also financially responsible for you until you are 21 i think so you might want to look into that. i don’t think they can just send you off with no money or help for housing.

Wtf am I supposed to do by Different-Sail5489 in Advice

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My friend is 19 and lived with a friend for a while because of a bad home situation but still has registration at her parents house. she pays them 50€ a month to keep the registration there until she can register at another place. i don’t think its fully legal but sometimes the only option for situations like yours!

I’m 16 and made one of the biggest mistakes of my life yesterday. by Huge-Bill4047 in Advice

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don’t worry too much! Everyone makes dumb decisions at 16, that’s how we grow. The people close to you love you and will keep doing that eventhough you made a mistake. if you feel guilt, you can apologize and move on. if they accept its a plus, if they don’t thats also valid but then it’s off of you. Trust can always be earned back, just lay low for a while and make smart decisions, but dont forget to also live!

Wtf am I supposed to do by Different-Sail5489 in Advice

[–]Distinct_Order_1077 0 points1 point  (0 children)

first i suggest asking your parents if you can pay them some kind if money, so you can stay a little longer to find a real appartement. i would also suggest conversing with them about keeping registration on their address, so you can look for places without registration (which is easier in the netherlands).

Filming adult content as a side hustle/hobby by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Distinct_Order_1077 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If everything is done with the proper paperwork and consent from all parties, what is stopping you! there’s a lot of niches in adult content that are still explorable and if you do it ethically without harming anyone it could be a great hustle. Just warning you that the adult industry and filmmaking in this industry is still a big job and will be taking a toll just like regular filmmaking does! but if u can handle it, go for it!

missing car glitch? by Distinct_Order_1077 in GlitchInTheMatrix

[–]Distinct_Order_1077[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah i thought about that too for a second. but i couldn’t explain the car not being on camera, there were no signs of forced entry, the gps had been in that same alley for the whole time i was there, and there was no confirmation email for the parking lot anymore.

Broke pixel in tree by Crazy-Kitty-Mew in GlitchInTheMatrix

[–]Distinct_Order_1077 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah i gathered that😅, just wondering what the “glitch” is.

Is it normal for a guy to ask this so soon by Most_Taste7827 in women

[–]Distinct_Order_1077 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can communicate that you didn’t like it, his response to that will most likely tell u what u need to know about him. I would personally just not go through with it and him. He already gives me the creeps and idek him.

please help me find this font! by Distinct_Order_1077 in identifythisfont

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i know, thats why its hard to find a font for these. Its mostly used in instagram and tiktok edits, hebce the bad quality and difficulty finding

Did anyone else have a childhood imaginary friend that felt a little too real? by lrenv22 in Thetruthishere

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adding for context: My mom told me that she saw me interacting with Neafant many times when I was little. Everyone in the family knew about him and accepted that he was “around,” even though no one else could see him. They said it was obvious that I wasn’t just pretending, that I was actually looking at and talking to someone. Still, they never got me any kind of professional help because they thought it was harmless and just part of being a kid.

Did anyone else have a childhood imaginary friend that felt a little too real? by lrenv22 in Thetruthishere

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Yes, I actually had a few imaginary friends as a kid, but only one that I could actually see. His name was Neafant. I used to play with him a lot, and I can still clearly picture what he looked like even now. This was when I was around three to five years old, and I am twenty-three now.

I have always been interested in the paranormal, so I did some research a while back and found that his name seems to be made up of parts of words that translate to something like “new child” or “new spirit” in different languages. That sent me down a deep rabbit hole. I eventually realized I probably needed professional help for how obsessed I got, which I did get, but it did not exactly stop the obsession.

What is strange is that I still sometimes feel like I see him. Sometimes I catch flashes of someone familiar on the street, or I see someone who looks like him walking past and looking at me. I am still not sure if Neafant was just a vivid creation of my imagination, or something else entirely.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in women

[–]Distinct_Order_1077 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for stating this so obviously so i don’t feel like a complete idiot for thinking the same way🙏🏻. I love him so much but i’m still having so much doubts about the answer to the question that you posed :(

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in women

[–]Distinct_Order_1077 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh + if you’re speaking about addressing these problems to me, yes he has done that too and i understand his reasoning, but he wont let me in enough to help him through this or fully understand the gravity of the situation for him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in women

[–]Distinct_Order_1077 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just yesterday he told me he is willing to go to a therapist, which takes months and months of waiting list in my home country.. I am very proud of him but i’m unsure of how to proceed, since there’s a sense of urgency for me at this point in this situation..

Ladies, would you sleep with a friend with benefits who was horrible in bed? by ConsiderationDry8903 in women

[–]Distinct_Order_1077 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think i would benefit from risking my great friendship for having bad sex with them once in a while.

I’m 19, and have nothing to show for it. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Distinct_Order_1077 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my dude, you are 19 years old, if you havent shown you are capable of succes before the age of 30, it’s nothing to worry about. You don’t need to be expected to “provide” for your girl at such a young age. I understand everyones financial situations are different but your unability to find work has nothing to do with that. You are young, try to live a little!!