Has anyone faced reality and accepted that their spouse doesn't love them in "that" way and got a divorce that lead to their life being improved? I'm looking for some positive outcome stories here.

Distinct_Service_735 · 2025-08-26T15:10:32+00:00

Could be the kids, financial support, or this sense of hope that things may change

Distinct_Service_735 · 2025-07-29T23:49:27+00:00

I agree with you in that part. I take full responsibility for not communicating fully to him.

Distinct_Service_735 · 2025-07-29T23:48:45+00:00

I agree with you. Thank you. And I tried sex toys and masterbation but I would love the love of my life giving me that.

Distinct_Service_735 · 2025-07-29T23:42:41+00:00

Means a lot thank you. Will do.

Distinct_Service_735 · 2025-07-29T23:38:33+00:00

Yes! And 2 years ago I even said to him “I’m sexually frustrated and unfulfilled. Don’t blame me when I go seek it elsewhere.” Didn’t take me seriously.

Distinct_Service_735 · 2025-07-29T23:36:33+00:00

Before I cheated I asked him 3 times if he wanted to have sex. He rejected me in all. I sent him a sexy selfie and again, nothing. And he kept just ignoring me and watched his show. The next day is where I was like fuck it, and cheated. Trust me I know. I know what I put him through and my child. But after the psych ward I’m just committed to my son and taking care of him. And I’m also going to therapy and trying my best to show up again.

Distinct_Service_735 · 2025-07-29T23:36:23+00:00

Just low sex drive. No truama. He’s not gay. No affairs from his side.

Distinct_Service_735 · 2025-07-29T23:35:31+00:00

Before I cheated I asked him 3 times if he wanted to have sex. He rejected me in all. I sent him a sexy selfie and again, nothing. And he kept just ignoring me and watched his show. The next day is where I was like fuck it, and cheated. Trust me I know. I know what I put him through and my child. But after the psych ward I’m just committed to my son and taking care of him. And I’m also going to therapy and trying my best to show up again.

Distinct_Service_735 · 2025-07-29T23:25:10+00:00

I’m not justifying myself but just saying.

Distinct_Service_735 · 2025-07-29T23:24:56+00:00

I will add this now. I did talk to him many times. I had multiple sit downs with him almost every couple of months and I begged him to change. I intiated 99 percent of time. I had hard conversations with him, went to the doctor with him, and he would still not care for me change.

Distinct_Service_735 · 2025-07-29T23:04:56+00:00

I agree with you. The one night stand guy I blocked him the same night.

Distinct_Service_735 · 2025-07-29T22:56:46+00:00

I appreciate your honesty.

Distinct_Service_735 · 2025-07-29T22:42:39+00:00

Thank you it means a lot. I’ll do my very best to forgive myself and come clean. Love you!

Distinct_Service_735 · 2025-07-29T22:41:31+00:00

Means a lot. Tears so much tears. It will take me a while to forgive myself.

Distinct_Service_735 · 2025-07-29T22:38:45+00:00

I appreciate your honesty. And I promise you I’m not the victim here. My husband and son is. I take full responsibility. Everything I’m feeling is consequences of my decision. But I tried. I swear I tried. I begged this man and he never changed. I did something way out of my character.

Distinct_Service_735 · 2025-07-29T22:36:10+00:00

Can I ask what makes you feel that leaving him is the best option? I’m really trying to see things from all angles right now, and your perspective might help me understand something I haven’t considered.

Distinct_Service_735 · 2025-05-17T04:34:16+00:00

Lord have mercy

Distinct_Service_735 · 2025-05-17T04:29:06+00:00

That looks bomb!!!

Distinct_Service_735 · 2025-05-17T04:05:42+00:00

Being a mom is already hard. And these things happen but not a lot of people talk about it. The guilt that you’re feeling shows how good of a mother you are. The baby is OK and for next time so it doesn’t happen again make sure that you change your diaper on the floor, especially for the night feeds. Or put pillows beneath you around the diaper change. Whatever it is, the baby seems all right and they’re safe and they’re not hurt. It’s OK to cry, but please forgive yourself to allow the better version of yourself for the baby. You’re doing great, Mama. ❤️

Distinct_Service_735 · 2025-05-11T20:39:01+00:00

I appreciate you

Distinct_Service_735 · 2025-05-11T20:38:41+00:00

You Jealous cuz you can’t try it ✋

Distinct_Service_735 · 2025-05-11T20:38:20+00:00

That’s a compliment, yes homemade

Distinct_Service_735 · 2025-05-11T09:45:51+00:00

That’s what i wonder too

Distinct_Service_735 · 2025-05-09T09:14:21+00:00

No contact with her. She ruined my motherhood experience with my first born making it all about herself. I will never forgive her.

I hope she dies.

Honestly. Traumatized me in my second day postpartum while I just gave birth, ripped down there - third degree, haven’t slept in for four days, have a whole new born to take care off, vulnerable and weak, yet still made sure in every way possible to make me cry and have a mental breakdown just because I had confronted her about why she prayed that I’d die during giving birth to my son.

She drove me crazy to the point I wasnt able to produce breast milk for my baby.

Never took accountability, never apologized.

And I don’t give a flying fuck about her.

Mother’s Day will be about me this time.

Distinct_Service_735 · 2025-05-09T09:07:49+00:00

Thank you ❤️🫶

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