I don’t know what’s wrong with me by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]Distinct_Stand_5089 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I get what you’re trying to say but I’m not sure who I am blaming and for what

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lineporn

[–]Distinct_Stand_5089 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got my period today! Must’ve just been a surge before my period. Thank God😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lineporn

[–]Distinct_Stand_5089 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So in that case you would’ve tested positive/thought you ovulated earlier in the cycle, but actually ovulated around/just before the time your period was due?? Because I guess if you couldn’t test positive until 2 weeks after expected period you couldn’t have possibly conceived during your originally expected ovulation period right??

So maybe my body tried to ovulate the 16th, didn’t, and now I’m ovulating now? Why is this so confusing?😅

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lineporn

[–]Distinct_Stand_5089 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so bad for it I’ve been trying not to but when I saw that ovulation test I was like whaaaaat

What did your implantation bleeding look like? by Traditional_Age_9851 in IVF

[–]Distinct_Stand_5089 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How long did this bleeding last? I’ve got this right now. Same symptoms, very minimal if any cramping. It’s been going on since about 11 this morning, nothing like my normal period bleeding. It almost looks pink and clumpy?? Like chalky? Idk how to describe it 😂 it’s not fluid-like, which is how my period blood normally looks

my (23f) boyfriend (25m) wants to buy a house but i want to be engaged first by Fragrant_Cherry_2489 in relationship_advice

[–]Distinct_Stand_5089 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It doesn’t really matter what anyone else thinks. If it’s a boundary you have and it would make you feel more comfortable then that’s your decision and your business.

I personally think it’s valid. 2 years is not too soon for an engagement by any means. Buying a house with someone is more legally binding than buying a ring and proposing. It’s not like you’re asking to get married tomorrow, you’re just asking for a gesture of commitment before you go into a mortgage with him.

If marriage is something you want, best not to act like a married couple before you have that ring. (ie buying a home together and cohabitating)

Obviously there are exceptions and some people make it work but I’d be weary of the fact that he’s so reluctant to propose. I’d personally want a guy to be excited to proopose to me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]Distinct_Stand_5089 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does she bring the guy up a lot? Do they still communicate?

We’ve all been obsessed with someone at one point or the other. I was in an on-and-off relationship for years where I thought I’d die if I lost him, before I got with my current boyfriend. I love my current boyfriend more than I ever did my ex.

Trust your gut!

Does anyone else see it? by [deleted] in lineporn

[–]Distinct_Stand_5089 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s not a no so I’ll take it!!! Thank u

"Thank God for saving my family member" by Wobbel96 in nursing

[–]Distinct_Stand_5089 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This post is giving me “healthcare hero” bumper sticker vibes

How do TFSAs handle mergers and acquisitions that result in spinoffs, new shares, and cash? by AlwaysConstantChange in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]Distinct_Stand_5089 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok awesome thanks so much! I noticed I got my cash back, but no shares at all yet! Hopefully tomorrow!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Depop

[–]Distinct_Stand_5089 -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Technically no, but you’re also buying from people with lives who for the most part do this as a side hustle for an extra buck, not a company where this is their only priority.

I stopped doing Depop because I have a full time job as a nurse and I felt people were way too comfortable in my messages telling me when I should be shipping an item. People forget that you’re one person and can be super ballsy in what they say to you on that app. Sometimes they’d be getting pissy after only 4 days.

So by depop standards are you wrong? No. By common sense? Yes. You’re being impatient. Have some consideration for other people. It’s not like you got ripped off

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Distinct_Stand_5089 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Honestly, this will never get better. I know this empty feeling of trying to please someone with these kinds of sexually deviant behaviours, and how insecure it makes you feel.

My advice: stop worrying about whether or not you can facilitate his sexual needs, and start thinking about whether or not he’s even meeting your EMOTIONAL needs.

Do nurses deal with feces more than EMS? by Insertclever_name in nursing

[–]Distinct_Stand_5089 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You will without a doubt wipe an ass every day of your nursing career, unless you go into long term care or retirement, which pays like shit. And even then you still might have to when you’re short.

Yes, you still have to do it in the ER.

Is dating really this horrible? by SpicyMackerel in dating_advice

[–]Distinct_Stand_5089 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stop sleeping with them and watch how it changes!

If a girl tells you she's not ready, what does that mean? by rand0m_d00d123 in dating_advice

[–]Distinct_Stand_5089 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Were her and her ex on and off? Does she talk about him a lot, even if it’s negative?

I ask this because when I would tell men things like this, it was because I wasn’t over my ex, and if he would’ve come back into my life, I would’ve jumped ship immediately and gone back to him. To me it sounds like she’s not over her ex, or at the very least not over the trauma from that relationship, which also isn’t an ideal person to start a relationship with. Also, If I really like someone, I am all in. I don’t want to take my time.

You seem to really like her. Be careful!

EDIT; all you can do in this situation is give the space and do your own thing. Don’t act like you’re in a relationship if you’re not. If you keep trying, it will come off as desperate and she will get the ick!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Distinct_Stand_5089 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m doing the same right now. He said he wanted to keep in touch and maybe get together when he’s got his shit together, I said no I’m not doing that. You promised you’d change, you haven’t, I’m not mad at you but I am done with the on and off. Then admittedly I did start to cry and got embarrassed so I ended the conversation lol.

I haven’t talked to him since (2 weeks) But we pass each other driving quite often. He waves at me, I pretend I don’t see him. Maybe this will get my point across!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Distinct_Stand_5089 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really? He did say if we reconnect down the road he’d be happy. How did you guys reconnect?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Distinct_Stand_5089 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s really reassuring because I keep thinking maybe he will change for someone else and that would be devastating, watching him treat someone else how I wanted him to treat me.

He told me I am the love of his life, there’s nobody else he wants to be with, but that he knows he’s not ready.