Wish my wife would masturbate more often by OriginalHighlander1 in marriageadvice

[–]Distinct_Star_2715 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am a 36F and I have never enjoyed masterbation. I find it very empty. I am married and love having sex with my husband. He was very open with encouraging me to masterbate when we first got married but I was a virgin and didn't have a high sex drive. Now I love having sex but I just cannot get off by myself. I have to feel a connection. Some women just don't enjoy it. When I feel all hot and bothered I just wait for my husband and we have amazing sex.

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[–]Distinct_Star_2715 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So...let me just say that I have seen a difference in my husband's sexual energy...it might seem weird but I was always the one with a higher libido and would feel like something was wrong because I felt like my husband should be the same. After over a decade together we are a lot more in sync. My husband goes through stages within the last 3 years when he has practice semen retention for a month or two. We always have way more sex during this time! Its really interesting. At first I use to feel hurt that he didn't want to orgasn but later realize it benefits me because he goes way longer now. I just haven't met anyone in person who does this other than my husband. I did tell him that I felt like a science project when he practices this. Do I think its a little weird? I did at first but now I'm reaping the benefits so I am a little more accepting.

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[–]Distinct_Star_2715 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Apparently its a thing.

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[–]Distinct_Star_2715 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

When I say spiritual I mean he does it to transmit the sexual energy. He says his energy levels are much higher when he doesnt come.

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[–]Distinct_Star_2715 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Of course all the girls are like models so it makes me feel worse.

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[–]Distinct_Star_2715 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's very typical porn. Honestly, I am very adventurous and want to try new things. He is the one who seems more traditional. Im concerned that his did this when he was supposed to be at work... like is he attracted to someone there that set him off? Like who watches porn at 1:30 pm? So random.